narkoman
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I met a girl I really like and we had a short but brief hang out which I loved and can't want to repeat again. but always when we are texting there is huge hours difference between when she replies to me and i always reply back pretty quick. She goes to sleep extremely early at night, around 8-9pm and doesnt even text back until next day's afternoon. She asked me to borrow some money from me to go out iwth girlfriends and she said she will it pay it back but I never brought it up so I'm not expecting it back.
Recently she asked me to drive her for over 4h to a different town (and then i'd have to go 4h back) without any mnetion of hanging out with me and I told her no (i am not a push over) and we had a huge fight over text messages. I went out with her once and we only hugged at the beginning but that's it (no sex, kiss etc..), it's been 2 weeks since we went out and she's in college and has to go out with her girlfriends and some guys related to those girlfriends because she promised them to go out regularly so she has no time.
Should I apologize to her and offer to take her out to a really nice place? I was thinking of buying her some jewelery. But idk if she will have time to hang out with me tbh. She mentioned to a friend that i know too that she won't talk to me until I apologize. I like this girl a lot by her temparement and how she treats me when she is nice and I don't want to mess it up, I am willing to wait for sex as long as needed just to have her at some point. Advice?
Recently she asked me to drive her for over 4h to a different town (and then i'd have to go 4h back) without any mnetion of hanging out with me and I told her no (i am not a push over) and we had a huge fight over text messages. I went out with her once and we only hugged at the beginning but that's it (no sex, kiss etc..), it's been 2 weeks since we went out and she's in college and has to go out with her girlfriends and some guys related to those girlfriends because she promised them to go out regularly so she has no time.
Should I apologize to her and offer to take her out to a really nice place? I was thinking of buying her some jewelery. But idk if she will have time to hang out with me tbh. She mentioned to a friend that i know too that she won't talk to me until I apologize. I like this girl a lot by her temparement and how she treats me when she is nice and I don't want to mess it up, I am willing to wait for sex as long as needed just to have her at some point. Advice?