Why does this forum treat teen love like its disney?

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Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.


Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.



Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.


TLDR:

TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT

 

[selfascender]

Yea same it’s seriously getting overrated asf .
I’ve had relationships as a teen and still wanna kill myself everyday .

 

[browncurrycel]

DNR after the first paragraph but every girl above 19 is either an active whore or has trauma after getting fucked by highschool chad

 

[htautist]

Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.

Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.

Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.

Genuinely dnr jfl, put a tldr under that shit gng

 

[esoterik]

its less about... really any of those, and more about the condition, teenagers are more prone to unconditional ( or less conditional ) love because when your are 15 you dont have a job or not requiring to support her financially, the only real resource you have is you, hence, the purity

 

[Hide]

Genuinely dnr jfl, put a tldr under that shit gng

I always forget jfl

 

[Cinnamon fan64]

dnr but agreed

 

[htautist]

I always forget jfl

All good mate, funnily enough teen love is kinda the truest love cause you’re both virgins or atleast lower body count

 

[emeraldglass]

Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.

Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.



Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.

They rationalize that if they’d had a relationship in their teens, their life would have turned out completely differently, which is obviously bullshit, since a single relationship can’t shape your entire life. They also overrate what they didn’t have or can’t get.

 

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All good mate, funnily enough teen love is kinda the truest love cause you’re both virgins or atleast lower body count

Both men and women are naturally hypergamous these days. Women are about to be projected have to not have relationships by the next decade.

There will be alot of virginity, hypergamy will operate.

There also always be a virgin person, maybe I live in that society tbf but there will be a new dynamic that will help.

 

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If teen love was that important, middle easterners wouldn't be noted for the longest relationships to last and middle easterners literally avoid each other

I am literally ND and mtn and got approached, i have seen the dynamics with friends and its more stressful than happy. There is a saying in my household that love doesnt arrive in the marriage but rather when the rocks solidified.

They rationalize that if they’d had a relationship in their teens, their life would have turned out completely differently, which is obviously bullshit, since a single relationship can’t shape your entire life. They also overrate what they didn’t have or can’t get.

 

[emeraldglass]

If teen love was that important, middle easterners wouldn't be noted for the longest relationships to last and middle easterners literally avoid each other

I am literally ND and mtn and got approached, i have seen the dynamics with friends and its more stressful than happy. There is a saying in my household that love doesnt arrive in the marriage but rather when the rocks solidified.

The thing with these people is simple: when they can’t face the truth, their minds start turning reality into abstract illusions.

 

[Debetro]

Missing out on slaying jbs is brutal.

 

[Hide]

Missing out on slaying jbs is brutal.

Just experience life as it is, not brutal

 

[Hide]

Bump

 

[Nochills]

wow what a bunch of bs

 

[natralrivers]

Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.


Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.



Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.


TLDR:

TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT

i think they believe teen love is the same at 13 vs 16 lmao

 

[sub5outsider]

most of the users wouldnt settle for anything less then some 18 years old blue eyed blonde Stacie with whom they will live in a remote village as trad familly from the 19th century

 

[Hide]

most of the users wouldnt settle for anything less then some 18 years old blue eyed blonde Stacie with whom they will live in a remote village as trad familly from the 19th century

But women after 15 are roasties brooooooo

 

[sub5outsider]

But women after 15 are roasties brooooooo

yeah 18 is kinda old for org standards

 

[samz]

Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.


Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.



Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.


TLDR:

TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT

Simple, because we have never experienced it

 

[samz]

most of the users wouldnt settle for anything less then some 18 years old blue eyed blonde Stacie with whom they will live in a remote village as trad familly from the 19th century

Is it too much to ask

 

[Hide]

yeah 18 is kinda old for org standards

Just ascend to hmtn+ and go for a looksmatch or above that has a similar ethnicity or pheno to you and move on

If you find from different pheno, good job, but don't make it an unrealistic expectation for you to go insane for.

 

[Hide]

Simple, because we have never experienced it

When you're close to it, you will understand what im saying.

 

[Samsepioler]

because anyone that rots here has autism

 

[samz]

When you're close to it, you will understand what im saying.

Yeah I will let you know when that happens to me when I get "close to it"

 

[Hide]

Yeah I will let you know when that happens to me when I get "close to it"

Nah tho im telling you its not Disney jfl

 

[samz]

Nah tho im telling you its not Disney jfl

Yea I guess your right man

 

[Imaloser7754]

Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.


Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.



Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.


TLDR:

TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT

Fantastic thread; keep up the good work.

 

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[enlightful]

Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:

- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again


The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.

Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.


Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.

They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.

People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.

Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.

Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.

You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.

No wonder teen relationships are short.



Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:

"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"

If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.

If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.

Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.



Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.

Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.

However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.

Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.

Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.

however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.

My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.

If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.

The only real blackpill is never having friends.

Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.


TLDR:

TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT

Imma be honest everything you said seems like a giant cope

Also transactional relationships are cucked; like imagine a girl needing YOU to be the provider and offer her money knowing damn well she let other guys get free acess to her without them needing to do any of that bullshit

 

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didn read all but agree tbh, it really varies from person to person tho. i think people that think its like disney are like people that think becoming a chad will make women literally throw themselves at you and solve their life problems (it will help you, dont get me wrong, but it wont fix your autism, or mental health or financial status), one thing wont solve your .org aspergers, esp if its not supported by a good foundation.
having experienced it is better than not having experienced it yes, but it is up to the individual (mostly) how fruitful for their life that experience is gonna be

Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.

Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.

and this part is honestly so right, seems like teens even romanticize emotional immaturity now days, im glad i experienced teen love and changed those behaviours you listed here.

 

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didn read all but agree tbh, it really varies from person to person tho. i think people that think its like disney are like people that think becoming a chad will make women literally throw themselves at you and solve their life problems (it will help you, dont get me wrong, but it wont fix your autism, or mental health or financial status), one thing wont solve your .org aspergers, esp if its not supported by a good foundation.
having experienced it is better than not having experienced it yes, but it is up to the individual (mostly) how fruitful for their life that experience is gonna be

and this part is honestly so right, seems like teens even romanticize emotional immaturity now days, im glad i experienced teen love and changed those behaviours you listed here.

Yeah, it is better to experience than to not, but the treatment that your life will never experience such and you missed out d
Literally looks at statistical anomalies. The percentage of teens being lifelong partners from highschool is closer to 0 than 10.

Those who do learn from their mistakes have lucked out, but we can at least agree that its near impossible to expect that. Good on you learning, I didn't experience tbh since I dont wanna engage with drama and parents tax despite being approached.

I think if you live and experience life, do crazy shit, then no matter what, your life will remain interesting. This is why you should minimum have friends who are extremely low inhib who will do crazy shit.

I still have dad lore type despite not doing crazy dating shit, and I think every guy can do that if they simply dont rot

If you ascend or find one, cherish it, but dont fucking be a doomer because you didn't find virgin stacylite at 19

Just simply experience life