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Here are the multiple talking points that I've seen of teen love being this huge thing:
- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again
The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.
Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.
Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.
They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.
People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.
Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.
Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.
You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.
No wonder teen relationships are short.
Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:
"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"
If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.
If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.
Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.
Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.
Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.
Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.
Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.
Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.
However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.
Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.
Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.
however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.
My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.
If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.
The only real blackpill is never having friends.
Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.
TLDR:
TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT
- you were innocent and she loved you for you
- no responsibilities
- important for development :jfl:
- you will never be this happy again
The issue is, teenagers are literally not innocent. Anyone with a brain would realize that people like me and others around that age will always try to act machiavellian to literally get what we want. Teenagers are mean, reckless, and generally just not nice people to be around with. They are way more narcissistic than innocent.
Teens are objectively less honest and will want to decieve simply because they are hormonal beings.
Be honest, did you really think you were innocent? Jfl when teens in general are literally driven by their infatuation rather than actual admiration of the person that isn't matured.
They aren't fucking and having relationships because life gets innocent. They want to because they simply want to experience.
People will literally love just because of status and peer pressure, and creates a toxic social dynamic, which inevitable harms relationships.
Also, having responsibilities and issues in the dynamic isn't a bad thing. Having money and other things isn't a bad thing, because it allows you to actually show what you are in partiality. Money didn't exist in nature, but it was rather a derivative of resources and the protection and what they actually did to have the offer.
Having money is a great predictor of personality, and especially if you earn that money. Having a complex dynamic isn't a bad thing, because it adds layers in a relationship that teen love doesnt offer. Being more transactional doesn't mean its shallow, but rather just means that someone can offer a new angle of what they did. Someone can be the financial support and she can be the emotional.
You should also consider that your average teen relationship isn't Disney, rather them having to try to create the idea of Disney in their heads, which usually last short and create misrepresented expectations.
No wonder teen relationships are short.
Now, let's address a very easy to refute point, simply by looking at the perspective:
"Oy vey but if you don't learn relationship cues it will fuck up in your later dating"
If everyone could learn from their mistakes perfectly without their judgement and bias clouded around them, then there wouldn't be breakups and people wouldn't have issues.
If i could learn from my mistakes perfectly, I would be a millionaire.
Many teens infact learn bad relationship habits, such as: overdepemdency on partners, jealousy due to the insane hormones that are driving them, and bad problem-coping skills that happen due to their emotions, and many more things.
Knowing that the emotions have a great chance of clouding them, do you really think that these teens who got into a nice 3 month relationship will learn great long term relationship habits without their personal bias inputted? Naive, teens are naturally retarded.
Very few learn good relationship habits, those who do can enjoy their days, but not everyone does. Please stop thinking you're fucking behind. Otherwise, this society would have high marriage rates in 2025.
Being good at relationships is simply a matter of you being emotionally intelligent, and most teenagers will not have the emotional intelligence to pass such skills.
Now, the final argument which has a ground, and I will accept the claim.
Teenagers do infact experience the highest emotions possible. Their sadness and happiness is rollercoasteringly high.
However, remember that there are always external inputs that will tamper that shit. Knowing the drama and the short-term, annoying dynamics of teen love, those extreme highs will be short lived. Especially with the input of drama and co.
Might as well take meth jfl, you should feel that happy then bitch. Trying to chase happy emotions 24/7 is why people dont succeed. You should invest in things that will help you open opportunities for happiness.
Besides, if you didn't have friends to help you and support you and unite with you, then that is truly over.
however, most people dont, and they have a good friend support. They have went out with people and lived life to talk crazy lore.
My grandpa was busy being a paramilitary for fucking wars in his teens, you really think he was worried about teen love jfl. You should be focused on having crazy experiences, but teen love is simply isn't that wow unless it lasts long.
If you experience crazy shit, you will live crazy shit. Have friends to do that and when you find that love, remember to cherish. Not everyone will cherish and last.
The only real blackpill is never having friends.
Now focus on your grades and good habits to ascend, date when you love and remember that life isn't that magical shit. It's simply living.
TLDR:
TEEN LOVE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT.
COMPLEXITIES CAN ADD NEW LAYERS
PEOPLE LEARN BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS.
YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE CRAZY SHIT
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