PSLbbc
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Throughout my childhood, other kids were often told to avoid playing with me or to keep their distance, and that pattern has carried into adulthood - people tend to drift away or pull back over time, even after we've connected. One thing I've noticed about myself is that I'm often quite detached in the moment: my mind wanders to other thoughts, I get easily distracted, and I don't talk very much, even within my friend group. I suspect that comes across as disinterest or aloofness, which might unintentionally make others feel like the connection isn't mutual