Why don't I ever trust my own thoughts? GTFIH

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This is arguably one of the biggest (non-looksmax) problems I struggle with.

I'm always like: "hm, do i hate this person or not, do they hate me, are they just joking or seriously making fun of me, etc." constantly contradicting myself in my own head and looking for proof of one or the other.

I also can't make choices for shit since it's genuinly the same for me most of the time and i just don't fucking know.

How can i just start believing what i believe in and think what i think?

I will genuinely give the person that gives me an answer 100 bucks once i get my life back on track no larp

 

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sounds like you might be trans idk

 

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sounds like you might be trans idk

sounds like you might be grey idk

 

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sounds like you might be grey idk

on a real note i used to struggle with this problem aswell and could never decide for myself, the way i got over it was honestly just STRAIGHT UP not contradicting myself, as easy as that, because I realized i was actually mostly right but didn't trust myself whatsoever, even if you're wrong, be delusional, thats better than just following in other retards footsteps.

 

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on a real note i used to struggle with this problem aswell and could never decide for myself, the way i got over it was honestly just STRAIGHT UP not contradicting myself, as easy as that, because I realized i was actually mostly right but didn't trust myself whatsoever, even if you're wrong, be delusional, thats better than just following in other retards footsteps.

alr thx bhai

im struggling w this mostly like in this way: someone talking/looking at me weird or weird intonation or smth like that, and then i feel attacked and made fun of or smth else. And then idk if its just in my head cuz the next day it be normal again then just cuz of smth small. It just sucks constantly thinking about it

 

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alr thx bhai

im struggling w this mostly like in this way: someone talking/looking at me weird or weird intonation or smth like that, and then i feel attacked and made fun of or smth else. And then idk if its just in my head cuz the next day it be normal again then just cuz of smth small. It just sucks constantly thinking about it

It's probably normal, those type's of things seem to go away when maturing. Or it could be just social awkwardness, i also had that problem, it probably sounds stupid but i just stopped thinking about it idk, just stopped looking at other people and it eventually went away because i didn't even notice if they were looking at me or not jfl.