Why everyone needs to focus on personality/mentality

[JamesHowlett]

You can looksmax at the same time obviously but here’s why you need to also focus on personality/mentality:

- Only legit chads can purely lean on looks and not care about personality/mentality.
- 99.99% of men will never become legit chads, even with surgeries. At most you can achieve HTN, only way to become a legit chad is be above-average looking by default.

Therefore this is the best strategy going forward:
- Ascend to above-average/HTN. Don’t bother trying to go further if you were originally normie, ain’t gonna happen. Accept yourself and move on otherwise you are stuck on this forum mentally masturbating over chadhood.
- At the same time focus on all other aspects of life i.e. personality/mentality, money, relationships, fitness/health, happiness, etc

 

[.👽.]

ok cool but what should i exactly do now?

 

[Deleted member 17345]

yeah nt maxing is applicable to 85% of men

 

[Korea]

ok cool but what should i exactly do now?

This obviously.

 

[JamesHowlett]

ok cool but what should i exactly do now?

- Don’t obsess about becoming chad
- Fix all aspects of life including personality/mentality

 

[JamesHowlett]

This obviously.

Did you read what I wrote?

 

[.👽.]

- Don’t obsess about becoming chad
- Fix all aspects of life including personality/mentality

yea but how can u fix your personality? its my face that is the problem

 

[Korea]

Did you read what I wrote?

Yes, it was a pretty short post.

 

[JamesHowlett]

yea but how can u fix your personality? its my face that is the problem

Have a good social circle, make an effort to socialise, see a therapist if you have to regarding mental issues, expose yourself to social situations you view as difficult.

Keep looksmaxxing for your face.

 

[Deleted member 17345]

- Don’t obsess about becoming chad
- Fix all aspects of life including personality/mentality

i obssess being a chad i want a girl to admire me ,i knwo i sound annyoing sayign that

 

[.👽.]

Have a good social circle

how

 

[JamesHowlett]

i obssess being a chad i want a girl to admire me ,i knwo i sound annyoing sayign that

Well that’s your mental issue, it isn’t healthy and needs to be fixed.

 

[alriodai]

this is really good advice op
but now how to not stop doing these things as the blackpill and this forum conditonned me to think its over if not chad. Seeing all theses crazy tinder exp and chad stories will fuck ur mind up tbh

 

[JamesHowlett]

how

Are you at school? Uni? Do you have a job?

 

[JamesHowlett]

this is really good advice op
but now how to not stop doing these things as the blackpill and this forum conditonned me to think its over if not chad. Seeing all theses crazy tinder exp and chad stories will fuck ur mind up tbh

I agree, this website is helpful but the extreme blackpill stuff is a cancer that will invade your mind.

Take it from an Indian guy living in the U.K. who has life experience; the blackpill isn’t the absolute truth.

Blackpill extremism itself is a logical fallacy so just don’t accept it.

 

[.👽.]

Are you at school? Uni? Do you have a job?

homerotter job

 

[JamesHowlett]

homerotter job

Are you past Uni years and do you have any friends?

 

[.👽.]

Are you past Uni years and do you have any friends?

yea past uni. yea i have but no girls

 

[alriodai]

I agree, this website is helpful but the extreme blackpill stuff is a cancer that will invade your mind.

Take it from an Indian guy living in the U.K. who has life experience; the blackpill isn’t the absolute truth.

Blackpill extremism itself is a logical fallacy so just don’t accept it.

This is true. Blackpill isn’t the absolute truth
Most men I see who get girls are average looking sometimes below.

Attractive men is so rare
Still BP fucks your mind so hard
It gave me BDD. I do well with girls and my head tells me they just trollibg me when they arent. Shit crazy

 

[JamesHowlett]

yea past uni. yea i have but no girls

Go out and chill with those friends as much as you can.

Try and meet girls on nights out or on dating apps, again exposure is key. I know it’s scary but you will develop as a man.

 

[.👽.]

Go out and chill with those friends as much as you can.

Try and meet girls on nights out or on dating apps, again exposure is key. I know it’s scary but you will develop as a man.

i get bullied on dating apps

 

[JamesHowlett]

This is true. Blackpill isn’t the absolute truth
Most men I see who get girls are average looking sometimes below.

Attractive men is so rare
Still BP fucks your mind so hard
It gave me BDD. I do well with girls and my head tells me they just trollibg me when they arent. Shit crazy

I get you, will be tough overriding that programming.

 

[JamesHowlett]

i get bullied on dating apps

I think I need to see your pics to advise further tbh

 

[.👽.]

I think I need to see your pics to advise further tbh

pm me bro

 

[Deleted member 15669]

This is true. Blackpill isn’t the absolute truth
Most men I see who get girls are average looking sometimes below.

Attractive men is so rare
Still BP fucks your mind so hard
It gave me BDD. I do well with girls and my head tells me they just trollibg me when they arent. Shit crazy

better than them actually trolling u and u not knowing and being fooled like a retard

 

[JamesHowlett]

better than them actually trolling u and u not knowing and being fooled like a retard

Better but still a shitty scenario lol

 

[currylightskin]

If you're medium ugly and mascmax you can actually have a mysogynistic personality and still pull girls. Silvester stallone pill

 

[JamesHowlett]

If you're medium ugly and mascmax you can actually have a mysogynistic personality and still pull girls. Silvester stallone pill

When I say personality I don’t mean you should be too nice lol, it encompasses a broad spectrum of how you speak and act around people.

 

[germanlooks]

H

Take it from an Indian guy living in the U.K. who has life experience; the blackpill isn’t the absolute truth.

do you look good for an Indian? How tall? And what experiences do you mean, like can you slay or what?

 

[ezio6]

Mindset to have after reaching HTN lookswise:

-you are fucking pleased with yourself all the time (important)

-remove internal self doubt and make ppl qualify themselves(esp women), they are there to win your validation not the other way around.

-lift heavy fucking weight barbell dumbell etc join boxing mma etc to raise self confidence if ur a weak bish

-you dont have to really have a choosiness and real chad abundance on women to be effective at seducing women, you just have to behave as if they are true.



Tldr : raise your ego , egomaxxing
Huge ego protect ur self esteem

 

[JamesHowlett]

Mindset to have after reaching HTN lookswise:

-you are fucking pleased with yourself all the time (important)

-remove internal self doubt and make ppl qualify themselves(esp women), they are there to win your validation not the other way around.

-lift heavy fucking weight barbell dumbell etc join boxing mma etc to raise self confidence if ur a weak bish

-you dont have to really have a choosiness and real chad abundance on women to be effective at seducing women, you just have to behave as if they are true.



Tldr : raise your ego , egomaxxing
Huge ego protect ur self esteem

Agreed (once you’re above-average/HTN)

Forum needs more of this advice and less of the extreme blackpill stuff, it’s actually realistic.