Why has a lifetime of being incel corrupted my psychological development but not other guys'?

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The thread title basically says it all. There are plenty of other guys out there my age (almost 32) who have led lives as incels, but it hasn't really affected their psychological development or general mental health and they otherwise are able to function as a semi-normal adult. So why is it that for some males (like myself), being incel DOES wreak havoc on their psychological development, effectively stunting their growth mentally/psychologically?
 
Drink more water bro
 
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Because were not a bunch of cucks who will get fucked in the ass by life and try our best to enjoy it.
 
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Because your life goals are contingent upon having sex with a lot of women and fulfilling your sexual desires. At that age it's usually to fill a void for lack of marriage and emotionally invested partnership.

What you're doing is essentially a catching up act to make up for lost time.
 
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Complex to tell in detail because I don't know enough about you.

I dont know if what @KEy21 is exactly your case but pretty sure your inability to achieve a life that you wanted to is the reason of this.

Those people you see could have had coped with something you don't see. Therefore although things sucked, they had something to feel ok with...

But you blackpilled boyo, instead of a cope, you might kept having found out more and more dirt in life.

Those things have remained in your mind for long enough to create changes.
Complex to tell in detail because I don't know enough about you.

I dont know if what @KEy21 is exactly your case but pretty sure your inability to achieve a life that you wanted to is the reason of this.

Those people you see could have had coped with something you don't see. Therefore although things sucked, they had something to feel ok with...

But you blackpilled boyo, instead of a cope, you might kept having found out more and more dirt in life.

Those things have remained in your mind for long enough to create changes.
And it can keep getting worse btw so be aware lol
 
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inject tren
 
Probably the blackpill. Sometimes I wish I had never found it. I was always a happy person before that.
 
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high level of self awareness coupled with narcissism and a sprinkle of the changing times.
 
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They haven’t took the black pill yet, that’s why.
 
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Complex to tell in detail because I don't know enough about you.

I dont know if what @KEy21 is exactly your case but pretty sure your inability to achieve a life that you wanted to is the reason of this.

Those people you see could have had coped with something you don't see. Therefore although things sucked, they had something to feel ok with...

But you blackpilled boyo, instead of a cope, you might kept having found out more and more dirt in life.

Those things have remained in your mind for long enough to create changes.

And it can keep getting worse btw so be aware lol
Because your life goals are contingent upon having sex with a lot of women and fulfilling your sexual desires. At that age it's usually to fill a void for lack of marriage and emotionally invested partnership.

What you're doing is essentially a catching up act to make up for lost time.

Sometimes I think there was some sort of genetic faulty wiring that somehow corrupted my brain development, because I've noticed that most of the guys who are in my life situation (at least when it comes to their interactions with girls, or lack thereof) tend to be really into typical "nerd" hobbies like videogames (especially strategy games like Diablo, WoW, etc.), anime, card games (like that Magic shit), etc. I'm not sure if those hobbies give them substantial-enough fulfillment to serve as coping mechanisms that are actually filling the void created by being incel, but they (the hobbies/interests) are obviously a big part of their lives.

On the other hand, I have NEVER cared about anime, I have never cared to play even a single card game, and I haven't played videogames since March of 2018 (and even when I did play videogames, it was in a beat-a-game-once-every-two-months sort of way). On the other hand, I do like to engage in many normie or even Chad-favored activities, such as going to the gym, going to bars and clubs (when I visit bigger cities), being outside, having white-collar career goals, and just generally preferring to stay out and about as opposed to rotting at home.

So in other words, I almost feel as if my natural hobby and activity preferences are directly at odds with the collective elements of my genetics, upbringing, and general psychological factors that have led me to spending the first nearly 32 years of my life never once experiencing what it's like to have a girl be attracted to me.
 
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Sometimes I think there was some sort of genetic faulty wiring that somehow corrupted my brain development, because I've noticed that most of the guys who are in my life situation (at least when it comes to their interactions with girls, or lack thereof) tend to be really into typical "nerd" hobbies like videogames (especially strategy games like Diablo, WoW, etc.), anime, card games (like that Magic shit), etc. I'm not sure if those hobbies give them substantial-enough fulfillment to serve as coping mechanisms that are actually filling the void created by being incel, but they (the hobbies/interests) are obviously a big part of their lives.

On the other hand, I have NEVER cared about anime, I have never cared to play even a single card game, and I haven't played videogames since March of 2018 (and even when I did play videogames, it was in a beat-a-game-once-every-two-months sort of way). On the other hand, I do like to engage in many normie or even Chad-favored activities, such as going to the gym, going to bars and clubs (when I visit bigger cities), being outside, having white-collar career goals, and just generally preferring to stay out and about as opposed to rotting at home.

So in other words, I almost feel as if my natural hobby and activity preferences are directly at odds with the collective elements of my genetics, upbringing, and general psychological factors that have led me to spending the first nearly 32 years of my life never once experiencing what it's like to have a girl be attracted to me.
I dont think you can just assume what their romantic/sexual life is but let's say you're right, you still don't know how they really feel, think or have in their lives.

Leaving that aside, don't try to picture your need of love as a "genetic faulty" because that's simply not fair to you.

We all have needs, they change throughout stages of our lives and we all don't have the same. In your personal case it's a crucial aspect, more than what maybe they care and that's how you end up feeling that way.

I could actually extend it but need to do a few things.
 
I dont think you can just assume what their romantic/sexual life is but let's say you're right, you still don't know how they really feel, think or have in their lives.

Leaving that aside, don't try to picture your need of love as a "genetic faulty" because that's simply not fair to you.

We all have needs, they change throughout stages of our lives and we all don't have the same. In your personal case it's a crucial aspect, more than what maybe they care and that's how you end up feeling that way.

I could actually extend it but need to do a few things.

I guess it just seems like most incels my age (almost 32) tend to fall into a sort of stereotypical demographic, and yet I don't fit that demographic at all, except for the part about being actually incel, so it makes me wonder what happened during my early years to make me what I am today. In other words, why am I so accepting of the blackpill regarding my circumstances, but so many other guys are in denial of it, even though it describes their life situation just as accurately as it describes mine?
 

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