Why have I become socially awkward?

[TrueNateJacobs]

I feel like I’m always second guessing myself.
I didn’t used to do this, but now I can’t even have a simple conversation without second guessing myself.
Even with acquaintances.
The only time I don’t really do this is when I’m talking with really good friends 1 on 1
In group settings for some reason I have become ND as fuck.
Could it be pubertal hormones?
What the fuck is going on and how do I fix it.
It’s like social anxiety or something.
I’m having trouble even looking people in the eyes anymore.
Just a few months ago I was extroverted and loud Now I’m quiet and anxious in public no matter what.
Could it be a confidence issue? I have been feeling more self aware/self conscious lately.

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

Ur not TrueNateJacobs then.

 

[TrueNateJacobs]

Ur not TrueNateJacobs then.

Well at parties I am

 

[rad140lord]

Sometimes its the same for me its weird ngl

 

[CaughtUp]

looks were always suppose to be subconsious , social media fucked it , now bp has changed the way we think gang

 

[signatureharry]

looks were always suppose to be subconsious , social media fucked it , now bp has changed the way we think gang

Yes this exactly everyone is now too aware of their every move, I didn’t eat in public for like 4 years of my life and even when I came to uni I wld never eat in the common area only my room, ur more socially anxious because ur so aware of what ur doing and afraid you’ll be judged etc

Best options r probably to see if u do have social anxiety so u can get help for it, but also to just try be confident, put urself in uncomfortable situations etc to get through it and let ur brain understand that ur not getting judged 24/7

 

[CaughtUp]

Youre very right i did the exact same i would bring my panda express to my room and eat in college

 

[BrothaGus]

Take a break from the forum and go outside. create more than you consume, and i PROMISE things will get better for you

 

[1966Ford]

It's because of your subhumanity

 

[TrueNateJacobs]

It's because of your subhumanity

Hmtn though so that cant be it

 

[Deleted member 135923]

Because you dont look good stop coping with these bullshit psychoanalysises.

 

[heightmax]

I feel like I’m always second guessing myself.
I didn’t used to do this, but now I can’t even have a simple conversation without second guessing myself.
Even with acquaintances.
The only time I don’t really do this is when I’m talking with really good friends 1 on 1
In group settings for some reason I have become ND as fuck.
Could it be pubertal hormones?
What the fuck is going on and how do I fix it.
It’s like social anxiety or something.
I’m having trouble even looking people in the eyes anymore.
Just a few months ago I was extroverted and loud Now I’m quiet and anxious in public no matter what.
Could it be a confidence issue? I have been feeling more self aware/self conscious lately.

happened to me a few years ago
and i still struggle to even look people in the eyes

 

[Deleted member 56666]

.org is getting to your mind

 

[TrueNateJacobs]

Because you dont look good stop coping with these bullshit psychoanalysises.

I get approached regularly
I’m social chad.
In reality I’m hmtn but everyone knows me so I’m social chad.

 

[Deleted member 135923]

I get approached regularly
I’m social chad.
In reality I’m hmtn but everyone knows me so I’m social chad.

They only approach you because they're mocking you. They can tell by your effeminate weirdo face that you lack the cahones to fight back or the social awareness to realize you're being abused.

 

[TrueNateJacobs]

w projection

 

[adjurned]

I feel like I’m always second guessing myself.
I didn’t used to do this, but now I can’t even have a simple conversation without second guessing myself.
Even with acquaintances.
The only time I don’t really do this is when I’m talking with really good friends 1 on 1
In group settings for some reason I have become ND as fuck.
Could it be pubertal hormones?
What the fuck is going on and how do I fix it.
It’s like social anxiety or something.
I’m having trouble even looking people in the eyes anymore.
Just a few months ago I was extroverted and loud Now I’m quiet and anxious in public no matter what.
Could it be a confidence issue? I have been feeling more self aware/self conscious lately.

For me it’s literally the same it’s just that I’m better in a group scenario than 1on 1. Even with my closest of friends I still turn act Nd when I’m nt as fuck in a group, we’ll at least that’s how it was until a few months ago when I was in a friend group, they kicked me out of it and now I’ve been alone. My confidence has plummeted and I’m too self aware at all my flaws. I have to imagine what I’m going to say 3-4 sentences in advance before I say it and even if I do say what my mind deems to be right I still end up feeling like a disappointment for giving the other person i was talking to the discomfort of ever speaking to someone as akward and ugly as I am. Now I just chill now by myself and play some games when I can that’s the best advice I can give you tbh.