Why I am envious of my older brothers looks, and my resentment towards his luck with women.

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Even despite being a few CM taller than my brother, him being around 166-167 CM, and me hovering around 168-169 barefoot, I am still severely mismatched in terms of appearance. Since both of us are short, a small difference of a few CM means nothing, and he is able to punch above his weight due to one trait, which is his face.

To display the degree of which he is advantaged in comparison to me, I will provide a set of photos of my brother, and then, myself.

My brother, who has a highly conventionally attractive face is chased by every woman despite his medicore personality that he wholeheartedly believes is "awesome" and "interesting". [

Now, comparatively, here are some highly disappointing photos which place just how unbelievably screwed I am in dating. [

The unfortunate part is that all of this makes me come off as obsessive over something that isn't important, though when women treat me as invisible and tend to chase other socially awkward kids simply because they are attractive despite having no redeeming qualities over me, it's not a question that my looks don't affect my chances.

When my brother denies all of that and then proceeds to lie and say that I am better looking than him and acts as if he only gets the girls he does because of his upstanding personality, it fills me with a certain type of hopeless rage, when I see the fact that everyone tells him he is attractive and good looking, labeling him as hot, while I'm simply condescendingly called "cute". Most people over the internet call me average while calling him an 7/10.

When I walk by him on the sidewalk, I'll notice a lot of women flirtatiously staring at him as they overlook me completely, not ackowledging my existence, something that immediately throws the argument of "your personality is just bad BRO" away, when he doesn't even talk to those women and recieves unconditional attention based on nothing at all, other than existing.

The girls I've seen check him out tend to be attractive and amazing bags, looking at him with lustful or actually loving eyes that I don't think I've ever seen the sight of, causing me to enter into a state of a genuine emotional breakdown and longing, as I try to hold back my tears.

Most evidence has shown that women tend to view me as more of a background prop than anything worth recieving attention, as they would have absolutely no reason to go out with a 5'6 guy that looks like the most average or perhaps below average person ever when they have other options that will make them look better socially and are also taller and more good looking. This means that I have to put on some sort of a charming mask to even be able to pull someone, maybe in a few years.
 
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Be glad you aren’t a shrimp dick monster

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You guys are manlets
 
You guys are manlets
At a certain point, your face can to some degree overshadow your height given that you have a level of charm and sociability.
 
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At a certain point, your face can to some degree overshadow your height given that you have a level of charm and sociability.
You guys are like 4'11
 
You guys are like 4'11
Then you have managed to debunk the black pill, or at least the heightpill with this statement since he has a lot of luck with women. Most of his girlfriends have been attractive to mid tier and chicks constantly check him out and flirt with him.

I believe that he to some degree is able to mitigate the disadvantage his height places him at by being facially appealing.
 
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Then you have managed to debunk the black pill, or at least the heightpill with this statement since he has a lot of luck with women. Most of his girlfriends have been attractive to mid tier and chicks constantly check him out and flirt with him.

I believe that he to some degree is able to mitigate the disadvantage his height places him at by being facially appealing.
You guys live in a shithole probably
 
You guys live in a shithole probably
You have gotten it the wrong way around. Men in my area tend to be above average, better looking than most places, and women ugly. Although my specific area is considered higher class which means that that it’s not as bad as other parts and the women I see are usually better looking. That would only make it harder to find an attractive woman, not easier.
 
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You have gotten it the wrong way around. Men in my area tend to be above average, better looking than most places, and women ugly. Although my specific area is considered higher class which means that that it’s not as bad as other parts and the women I see are usually better looking. That would only make it harder to find an attractive woman, not easier.
You live in Bolivia bruh
 
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You must be a schizophrenic if you saw two fully white germanised Slavs and assumed them to be from South America.
Ukraine needs you for cannon fodder guys. you guys have it easy dating wise in EE
 
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Even despite being a few CM taller than my brother, him being around 166-167 CM, and me hovering around 168-169 barefoot, I am still severely mismatched in terms of appearance. Since both of us are short, a small difference of a few CM means nothing, and he is able to punch above his weight due to one trait, which is his face.

To display the degree of which he is advantaged in comparison to me, I will provide a set of photos of my brother, and then, myself.

My brother, who has a highly conventionally attractive face is chased by every woman despite his medicore personality that he wholeheartedly believes is "awesome" and "interesting". [

Now, comparatively, here are some highly disappointing photos which place just how unbelievably screwed I am in dating. [

The unfortunate part is that all of this makes me come off as obsessive over something that isn't important, though when women treat me as invisible and tend to chase other socially awkward kids simply because they are attractive despite having no redeeming qualities over me, it's not a question that my looks don't affect my chances.

When my brother denies all of that and then proceeds to lie and say that I am better looking than him and acts as if he only gets the girls he does because of his upstanding personality, it fills me with a certain type of hopeless rage, when I see the fact that everyone tells him he is attractive and good looking, labeling him as hot, while I'm simply condescendingly called "cute". Most people over the internet call me average while calling him an 7/10.

When I walk by him on the sidewalk, I'll notice a lot of women flirtatiously staring at him as they overlook me completely, not ackowledging my existence, something that immediately throws the argument of "your personality is just bad BRO" away, when he doesn't even talk to those women and recieves unconditional attention based on nothing at all, other than existing.

The girls I've seen check him out tend to be attractive and amazing bags, looking at him with lustful or actually loving eyes that I don't think I've ever seen the sight of, causing me to enter into a state of a genuine emotional breakdown and longing, as I try to hold back my tears.

Most evidence has shown that women tend to view me as more of a background prop than anything worth recieving attention, as they would have absolutely no reason to go out with a 5'6 guy that looks like the most average or perhaps below average person ever when they have other options that will make them look better socially and are also taller and more good looking. This means that I have to put on some sort of a charming mask to even be able to pull someone, maybe in a few years.

you're not that much worse than him tbh

me and my brother are comparable to your situation i dont think hes ever mentioned it

probably autism diff

now tell me. riddle me this... does your brother have better social skills and less neurotic? dont lie
 
Damn that's tough being the ugly duckling. He is a blue pilled HTN I guess lol. I personally don't find him GL but the female attention prove otherwise.

He has a big forehead and average jawline. I don't know what makes him attractive/HTN. Maybe his eye area is probably objectively a good shape. That's literally all you need to be successful. I've seen guys with recessed jaws with good eye areas do consistently well with women.

Your skull seems to be bigger than your brother's but I already came to terms that skull size doesn't correlate with attractiveness. I've seen ugly people with big skulls and attractive people with narrow faces or small skulls. Not saying you're ugly. To me you look average but average isn't sufficient nowadays.

Your eye shape isn't bad either. I still don't fully fathom how you aren't getting close to the same results as your brother because you don't seem too far off. It's crazy how many small details that add up matter. Mere millimeters can make the difference.

Eye area > Jaw

Also, height copers have to stop by now lol.
 
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my entire family mogs me
 

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