Why I am never invited

[Deleted member 6577]

What am I doing wrong? I’m never invited anywhere by people. I’m not a “bad”, needy, nasty, or controlling person & I’m as ok as anyone. Why am I invisible?

 

[Deleted member 6723]

cuz ur ugly

 

[penis3]

number of reasons: not fun to be around, ugly to the point of really UGLY,

or ur viewed as a loser that people see no point in investing in since it won't benefit them.

 

[Deleted member 9355]

If you have no trait physical or not that people care about you have to put yourself out there for them to even consider or remember you sometimes

 

[Deleted member 6577]

If you have no trait physical or not that people care about you have to put yourself out there for them to even consider or remember you sometimes

Why they dont care ?

 

[Deleted member 6577]

number of reasons: not fun to be around, ugly to the point of really UGLY,

or ur viewed as a loser that people see no point in investing in since it won't benefit them.

I feel envious of those people who effortlessly talk and laugh to each other. I really wish I was NT

 

[Deleted member 7651]

idk im acnecel not really nt and i was invited often tbh by this group of friends i have , i guess my height halos me a little

 

[penis3]

I feel envious of those people who effortlessly talk and laugh to each other. I really wish I was NT

 

[Deleted member 6577]

It can be funny for people here but it really isn’t

 

[Deleted member 9355]

Why they dont care ?

Do you have friends? I don't get why they would invite you particularly cause you're...normal? Try to go out with people to let it be known you exist outside of being seen doing whatever you do (student, work) if you don't obviously

 

[Deleted member 6577]

Do you have friends? I don't get why they would invite you particularly cause you're...normal? Try to go out with people to let it be known you exist outside of being seen doing whatever you do (student, work) if you don't obviously

I don’t have any friends tbh. The only peers that I meet are my schoolmates. Outside of school I hardly ever leave home. Pure basement dwelling.

 

[Deleted member 9355]

I don’t have any friends tbh. The only peers that I meet are my schoolmates. Outside of school I hardly ever leave home. Pure basement dwelling.

"NOOO WHY DON'T THEY INVITE THE BASEMENT DWELLER POOR MEE"
Really nigga

 

[Deleted member 4464]

I used to get invited but almost never went out with people, slowly they stopped wanting to hang out with me

 

[BigBiceps]

You already made this thread. You said you don't have any friends, THAT'S WHY.

 

[Deleted member 6577]

"NOOO WHY DON'T THEY INVITE THE BASEMENT DWELLER POOR MEE"
Really nigga

So where and how can I meet new people? And is making friends worth the effort?

 

[ThreadMatters]

 

[Deleted member 6723]

So where and how can I meet new people? And is making friends worth the effort?

yes bro making friends is worth the effort. I can be your (bad) friend .

 

[Deleted member 9355]

So where and how can I meet new people? And is making friends worth the effort?

If you're in uni join a club and go to social events. Meet up with old friends that you haven't seen for a while if you have any

 

[Deleted member 6723]

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I like that story. I remember watching it the first time. Inspiring bro

 

[Deleted member 9355]

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the mexican dog mogging HARD

 

[Deleted member 6577]

If you're in uni join a club and go to social events. Meet up with old friends that you haven't seen for a while if you have any

I never ever had a friend. I don’t know if I can consider random school buddy as a friend.

 

[Deleted member 5258]

 

[Deleted member 9355]

I never ever had a friend. I don’t know if I can consider random school buddy as a friend.

You act as dense and dumb as this dog mate

Idk just rot in your basement I guess if you can't find the solution to a problem this basic

 

[Deleted member 6577]

You act as dense and dumb as this dog mate View attachment 704230
Idk just rot in your basement I guess if you can't find the solution to a problem this basic

For you it’s basic for me it isn’t. I struggle hard with it.

 

[Blackout.xl]

Youre ugly and don’t supplement your lack of looks with status or extremely vibrant hyper-NT personality.

So no one sees a reason to be friends with you, let alone engage in the effort of bringing you out to do stuff. It is what it is.

 

[Deleted member 9355]

For you it’s basic for me it isn’t. I struggle hard with it.

There is no instruction beyond what I said. The rest is on your mental problems. And I ain't no gigasocializer but not social reject either

 

[Deleted member 9355]

Youre ugly and don’t supplement your lack of looks with status or extremely vibrant hyper-NT personality.

So no one sees a reason to be friends with you, let alone engage in the effort of bringing you out to do stuff. It is what it is.

second react barrage that I received today thanks bhai

 

[Deleted member 1464]

u is retard

 

[Deleted member 6577]

u is retard

you is more

 

[Deleted member 6723]

you is more

no, u is retard. Obvious the reason u dont get invited is

cuz ur ugly

 

[Deleted member 1464]

you is more

Probably
But that doesn't excuse you

 

[bladeeout]

I want to give some advice if you’ll listen. Some people made friends early on and they hang out with them aka “just be first theory”. If that wasn’t you, just speaking from experience, no one is coming to save you. Build and create something that will attract people to you

 

[Deleted member 6164]

Because ur ugly asf lol

 

[Deleted member 4209]

What am I doing wrong? I’m never invited anywhere by people. I’m not a “bad”, needy, nasty, or controlling person & I’m as ok as anyone. Why am I invisible?

one time when i lived in college dorms a girl knocked on my door specifically to say "we're having a party, you can't come".