WHY I AM SO BAD AT SYMPATHISING/COMFORTING PEOPLE

[bruhtoobrutal]

I could never NTmax enough to get over this. Currently someone is crying and opening up to me and I literally can’t do anything. I don’t know what to say or do. I can’t do this with anyone fuck. I’m so fucking awkward bro ima kms.

 

[Deleted member 367350]

I could never develop a good response to situations like this. I'm ordinarily very NT and socially competent but whenever this shit happens I immediately become dumb and my head goes blank.

 

[Tenres]

When you're trying to comfort a rape victim so you say "at least you both enjoyed it" and a nigga socks you for it

 

[bruhtoobrutal]

I could never develop a good response to situations like this. I'm ordinarily very NT and socially competent but whenever this shit happens I immediately become dumb and my head goes blank.

I feel like such a dick right now I genuinely can’t do anything else but mumble like I agree

 

[Prøphet]

Maybe you actually feel the most empathy for these people, in fact it’s that sense of empathy that holds you back from expressing it. Only a performative shallow normie finds ease in expressing some charade of empathy to elevate himself in the eyes of the herd, meanwhile you feel it internally and find no purpose in glorifying yourself to others by making the proper gestures and dances.

 

[choppedcel2]

just dont comfort people