Why I avoid ppl

[Jesus_ist_König]

I always say cuz I don’t like hanging out with ppl -and that’s correct. But I’m also seeing that I still have some social need in my body. Why do I keep rejecting ppl who want to hang out with me? Simple, I didn’t get this behavior cuz everyone was happy to see me, they all lost interest in me. That’s why I stopped. There is some truth to the I like being alone but also some truth to the I like being alone due to the experience I got throughout the years with meeting ppl.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

can someone answer to my post with their opinion

 

[jozsef316@gmail]

schizou

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

schizou

I’m not

 

[dragomog]

too long wont read give tldr

 

[Mob Boss]

Possible avoidance behavior?

We are social creatures so its only normal you crave social interaction

We suffer more in imagination than in reality

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

too long wont read give tldr

I enjoy being alone
Sometimes I do get lonely
I chose to do nothing against that loneliness because ppl didn’t understand me in the past

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Possible avoidance behavior?

I have been diagnosed with autism due to wanting to be alone

We are social creatures so its only normal you crave social interaction

Depends. We feel sad during loneliness because 10000 years ago being alone meant that a tiger could eat u any second and that you will die.

Today it’s different and the body is adapting and some ppl are happy being alone. I’m one of them.

I don’t understand it it’s so complex.

I like being alone
Sometimes I get lonely but I don’t have the desire to meet anyone

We suffer more in imagination than in reality

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Possible avoidance behavior?

We are social creatures so its only normal you crave social interaction

We suffer more in imagination than in reality

Dude when I’m off meds I talk to voices and they have betrayed me multiple times, it’s brutal

 

[Mob Boss]

Sometimes I get lonely but I don’t have the desire to meet anyone

Maybe a pet could satisfy the feeling of loneliness?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Maybe a pet could satisfy the feeling of loneliness?

I don’t like pets I’m sensitive to loud noises and I would get sad if the pet dies. Sad in the direction of suicide

I found out that this is the solution:
I thought about it. I understand it now completely it all makes sense. Good is giving me these feeling’s. These feelings that make me sad or anxious and these feelings that I don’t understand. Nobody will understand those feelings. They are only meant to do damage and harm but not to fix. No psychologist or professional can fix them. The only one that can fix a problem that no one can fix is the creator of the problem. In other words, God is giving me these unpleasant feelings that no one can understand so that I come to the point of realization where i am right more to start to seek him. He wants to build me: that I stop reaching out to others for help and that I start to suffer and through that suffering a stronger version of me gets build and he wants me to only seek him for help and rely on no one else.

 

[Mob Boss]

I don’t like pets I’m sensitive to loud noises and I would get sad if the pet dies. Sad in the direction of suicide

I found out that this is the solution:
I thought about it. I understand it now completely it all makes sense. Good is giving me these feeling’s. These feelings that make me sad or anxious and these feelings that I don’t understand. Nobody will understand those feelings. They are only meant to do damage and harm but not to fix. No psychologist or professional can fix them. The only one that can fix a problem that no one can fix is the creator of the problem. In other words, God is giving me these unpleasant feelings that no one can understand so that I come to the point of realization where i am right more to start to seek him. He wants to build me: that I stop reaching out to others for help and that I start to suffer and through that suffering a stronger version of me gets build and he wants me to only seek him for help and rely on no one else.

If you feel solace in religion, then by all mean build your relationship with god

I know multiple people who have found god and have felt better then before

I wish nothing but the best for you