Why I can't stop jestering?

[VohnnyBoy]

Every time I hangout with people I crack self deprecating jokes, mock others, talk loud, try to be a center of attention... I mean people love me but I feel like I'm never taken serious. Being 5'10 isn't helping neither

 

[Deleted member 262134]

Same shit for me too, I just feel like they wouldn’t keep me around if I don’t behave like this

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Same shit for me too, I just feel like they wouldn’t keep me around if I don’t behave like this

Probably true. Any time I don't jester they ask me why am I mad, negative, ruining the vibes.... insane

 

[poindextahh]

 

[cursedpaki19]

Every time I hangout with people I crack self deprecating jokes, mock others, talk loud, try to be a center of attention... I mean people love me but I feel like I'm never taken serious. Being 5'10 isn't helping neither

Same here, some people think I’m funny some think I’m annoying especially girls, I need to stop being a jester but when I’m not I feel like I’m always ignored and people think somethings up with me. Also Im 5,9 and not the best looking and don’t really leave my house at all

 

[Nectar]

It’s a way to gain status

 

[Vermilioncore]

It’s because you’re trying to overcompensate for your mid genetics. You should stop. Be like me; I know I’m genetic garbage and the lowest shit at the bottom of this toilet called earth and I don’t want to try and make up for it. I want to embrace it. I’m garbage and this was my message. See you on the razor blade express

 

[redeemthecard]

5'10

 

[VohnnyBoy]

It’s because you’re trying to overcompensate for your mid genetics. You should stop.

Honestly using my good sense of humor and charisma might be the only way I could go anywhere in life, without them I have no other useful skills or traits. Why should I stop even if I don't enjoy it?

Be like me; I know I’m genetic garbage and the lowest shit at the bottom of this toilet called earth and I don’t want to try and make up for it. I want to embrace it. I’m garbage and this was my message. See you on the razor blade express

How old are you? How long can you be like that before losing friends, job, family and house at the end

 

[Vermilioncore]

How old are you? How long can you be like that before losing friends, job, family and house at the end

If no one loved me then I’d just accept it and lay there smiling before blowing my skull to shits and bits and waving farewell to life

 

[tallnegga]

Coping mechanism because of insecurity

 

[sub5outsider]

You probably feel like your friends dont respect you so you are trying to be really outgoing so they keep you in the group .

 

[Primalsplit]

Every time I hangout with people I crack self deprecating jokes, mock others, talk loud, try to be a center of attention... I mean people love me but I feel like I'm never taken serious. Being 5'10 isn't helping neither

It's because you're a clown.

 

[Deleted member 153834]

Every time I hangout with people I crack self deprecating jokes, mock others, talk loud, try to be a center of attention... I mean people love me but I feel like I'm never taken serious. Being 5'10 isn't helping neither

you have to have a good balance, you can use being funny (what you refer to as "jestering" jfl), to setup telling people something more serious every now-and-then. i had a pretty good setup like this in hs, except i dont make self-deprecating jokes very often, or demean myself overall bc its pretty embarrassing. people would find me funny but also had a lot of respect for me bc i was very good at physics, math and shit. its always about contrast/balance

 

[Luquier]

That's why I stopped socialising. I never bring anything positive to the table unless it's at my expense

You need to be someone who's NT, has at least 1-2 talents and a life (new things to talk about everyday) or you won't be able to have people interested in hanging out with you.

That might sound like the bare minimum but if you've been rotting ur whole life even this can feel unattainable

 

[VohnnyBoy]

You probably feel like your friends dont respect you so you are trying to be really outgoing so they keep you in the group .

not just friends, generally even if I just met them. It comes naturally I can’t act serious for the life of mine

people would find me funny but also had a lot of respect for me bc i was very good at physics, math and shit.

What your looks rate and height? Muh good at math makes you respected, nerds are lolcows in every school

 

[Deleted member 153834]

not just friends, generally even if I just met them. It comes naturally I can’t act serious for the life of mine

What your looks rate and height? Muh good at math makes you respected, nerds are lolcows in every school

6'1", i was like hmtn based on foid reactions and tinder match rate at the time

 

[Nathan Fielder]

Every time I hangout with people I crack self deprecating jokes, mock others, talk loud, try to be a center of attention... I mean people love me but I feel like I'm never taken serious. Being 5'10 isn't helping neither

 

[VohnnyBoy]

6'1", i was like hmtn based on foid reactions and tinder match rate at the time

told you it wasn't math skills getting you respect

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the nigga who made this was dead serious btw

 

[zharupodrugu]

decompensation for subpar looks

 

[Deleted member 153834]

told you it wasn't math skills getting you respect

the nigga who made this was dead serious btw

yeah ig youre right. i was really oblivious to looks/heightpills until i started visiting /fit/ where people were talking about these things. i never even noticed people's eye color till i read that blue eyes are the best, i dated girls with blue eyes and dgaf about them since 60% of people where i live have them. i always had it pretty good

 

[VohnnyBoy]

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