Why I think slaying is bullshit

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We live in a time where sleeping with as many people as possible is seen as a flex, as something we should be proud of if we do it.

Especially on this site, many people want to ascend with the goal of being able to sleep with more people.
And I get it. We’re wired for validation, and sadly sex is one of the highest forms of it today.

But I’m here to challenge that.
Not from a place of copium and bitterness, but from observation, logic, and science.

Sex Isn’t Just Physical

Sex is the closest you can get to another human being.
Not just physically, skin to skin, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
It’s a total surrender. A shared vulnerability.
That’s sacred.
We’ve just forgotten it.

-Even in most religious traditions, sex was never seen as dirty, it was seen as holy, when practiced within love and commitment.
Something meant to unite souls, not just bodies.

More Partners = Higher Divorce Risk

A study published in the National Library of Medicine found this:
"The more sexual partners someone has before marriage, the higher the risk of divorce"
🔗 Study link

And no, there were no gender differences in this pattern.

-Why This Happens

Because habits matter.
If you train your brain to treat sex as disposable, how will you suddenly flip the switch when it’s time for something real?
Your neural pathways are wired for detachment.
You’ve practiced disconnection so much, commitment feels unnatural.

Sex ≠ Love

Sex isn’t a replacement for love.
It’s a poor substitute.

You can fill your nights with bodies and still wake up feeling empty.
Because that hole inside you? It’s not shaped like lust.
It’s shaped like connection, yearning for real love

Ask Yourself Honestly

Do you want to be 40, jaded, still chasing novelty until nothing excites you?
Or do you want a deep bond, a stable love, a family you don’t want to run from?

Real Freedom is Choosing Love

We think “freedom” means no attachment.
But real freedom is being able to choose someone and build something that lasts.

To wake up next to the same face and still feel peace, joy, and meaning.
That’s not boring. That’s beautiful.


Hard Truths

Most of us aren’t proud of our body counts.
We’re not “winning.”
We’re numbing.
We’re coping.
We’re avoiding our own emptiness by pretending meaningless sex will fill it.

Slaying isn’t cool.
It’s often a symptom of something unhealed.

True power is in restraint.
In choosing depth over distraction.
In saying:

“I could, but I won’t, because I know what I’m really looking for.”

The Ultimate flex

The real flex isn’t how many people you’ve slept with.

It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.
Without needing to prove anything.

That’s intimacy.
That’s what lasts.


- in love, renos (also known as milchbubi88)

@greycel @iblameCopecels @eternalcoper @ToryToad
 
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dnr
 
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should have written in hebrew
 
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I feel like slaying would make me feel emptier tbh.
 
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read all of it.
pretty great thread people should think this way.

clavicular should actually take notes.
 
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The only thing I want and need to slay..

Vif
 
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Great thread
 
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We live in a time where sleeping with as many people as possible is seen as a flex, as something we should be proud of if we do it.

Especially on this site, many people want to ascend with the goal of being able to sleep with more people.
And I get it. We’re wired for validation, and sadly sex is one of the highest forms of it today.

But I’m here to challenge that.
Not from a place of copium and bitterness, but from observation, logic, and science.

Sex Isn’t Just Physical

Sex is the closest you can get to another human being.
Not just physically, skin to skin, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
It’s a total surrender. A shared vulnerability.
That’s sacred.
We’ve just forgotten it.

-Even in most religious traditions, sex was never seen as dirty, it was seen as holy, when practiced within love and commitment.
Something meant to unite souls, not just bodies.

More Partners = Higher Divorce Risk

A study published in the National Library of Medicine found this:
"The more sexual partners someone has before marriage, the higher the risk of divorce"
🔗 Study link

And no, there were no gender differences in this pattern.

-Why This Happens

Because habits matter.
If you train your brain to treat sex as disposable, how will you suddenly flip the switch when it’s time for something real?
Your neural pathways are wired for detachment.
You’ve practiced disconnection so much, commitment feels unnatural.

Sex ≠ Love

Sex isn’t a replacement for love.
It’s a poor substitute.

You can fill your nights with bodies and still wake up feeling empty.
Because that hole inside you? It’s not shaped like lust.
It’s shaped like connection, yearning for real love

Ask Yourself Honestly

Do you want to be 40, jaded, still chasing novelty until nothing excites you?
Or do you want a deep bond, a stable love, a family you don’t want to run from?

Real Freedom is Choosing Love

We think “freedom” means no attachment.
But real freedom is being able to choose someone and build something that lasts.

To wake up next to the same face and still feel peace, joy, and meaning.
That’s not boring. That’s beautiful.


Hard Truths

Most of us aren’t proud of our body counts.
We’re not “winning.”
We’re numbing.
We’re coping.
We’re avoiding our own emptiness by pretending meaningless sex will fill it.

Slaying isn’t cool.
It’s often a symptom of something unhealed.

True power is in restraint.
In choosing depth over distraction.
In saying:



The Ultimate flex

The real flex isn’t how many people you’ve slept with.

It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.
Without needing to prove anything.

That’s intimacy.
That’s what lasts.


- in love, renos (also known as milchbubi88)

@greycel @iblameCopecels @eternalcoper @ToryToad
Shitty chat gpt thread.

Sex is simply reproduction and we need to do it a lot

I will fuck a lot of women and cum inside them
 
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we want to slay because attractive men slay
so i want to be attractive
thats why slaying is valuable imo, if you slay you can probably get a ltr unless youre a retard
 
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Shitty chat gpt thread.

Sex is simply reproduction and we need to do it a lot

I will fuck a lot of women and cum inside them
Told chatgpt to make it smoother and fix grammar, but I made it myself
 
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What “slaying” means to children:

1748228609637



What “slaying” means to normies:

1748228656725



What “slaying” means to us:

1748228667258
 
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high iq
 
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We live in a time where sleeping with as many people as possible is seen as a flex, as something we should be proud of if we do it.

Especially on this site, many people want to ascend with the goal of being able to sleep with more people.
And I get it. We’re wired for validation, and sadly sex is one of the highest forms of it today.

But I’m here to challenge that.
Not from a place of copium and bitterness, but from observation, logic, and science.

Sex Isn’t Just Physical

Sex is the closest you can get to another human being.
Not just physically, skin to skin, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
It’s a total surrender. A shared vulnerability.
That’s sacred.
We’ve just forgotten it.

-Even in most religious traditions, sex was never seen as dirty, it was seen as holy, when practiced within love and commitment.
Something meant to unite souls, not just bodies.

More Partners = Higher Divorce Risk

A study published in the National Library of Medicine found this:
"The more sexual partners someone has before marriage, the higher the risk of divorce"
🔗 Study link

And no, there were no gender differences in this pattern.

-Why This Happens

Because habits matter.
If you train your brain to treat sex as disposable, how will you suddenly flip the switch when it’s time for something real?
Your neural pathways are wired for detachment.
You’ve practiced disconnection so much, commitment feels unnatural.

Sex ≠ Love

Sex isn’t a replacement for love.
It’s a poor substitute.

You can fill your nights with bodies and still wake up feeling empty.
Because that hole inside you? It’s not shaped like lust.
It’s shaped like connection, yearning for real love

Ask Yourself Honestly

Do you want to be 40, jaded, still chasing novelty until nothing excites you?
Or do you want a deep bond, a stable love, a family you don’t want to run from?

Real Freedom is Choosing Love

We think “freedom” means no attachment.
But real freedom is being able to choose someone and build something that lasts.

To wake up next to the same face and still feel peace, joy, and meaning.
That’s not boring. That’s beautiful.


Hard Truths

Most of us aren’t proud of our body counts.
We’re not “winning.”
We’re numbing.
We’re coping.
We’re avoiding our own emptiness by pretending meaningless sex will fill it.

Slaying isn’t cool.
It’s often a symptom of something unhealed.

True power is in restraint.
In choosing depth over distraction.
In saying:



The Ultimate flex

The real flex isn’t how many people you’ve slept with.

It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.
Without needing to prove anything.

That’s intimacy.
That’s what lasts.


- in love, renos (also known as milchbubi88)

@greycel @iblameCopecels @eternalcoper @ToryToad
But u do understand the type of influence women are brought up nowadays there all whores most of them so there ain’t much point in this ngl
 
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But u do understand the type of influence women are brought up nowadays there all whores most of them so there ain’t much point in this ngl
Wait for someone with the same mindset
 
i will cut my dick off its enough i can't look at women anymore without having the urge to jerk off
high t symptom ngl
 
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unironically, in a perfect world, i'd much rather have a fulfilling relationship with some mtb or htb than just slaying. ik sexting on snap has gotten old and doesn't hit the same as it did at first

haven't actually tried to slay irl much but i think it'd end up in a similar way. a self-sustaining spiral of wanting more novelty, and more frequency over and over again.
 
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I couldn't agree more with you. You defined this thing perfectly.
Glad to find people in here with their own honest values, who really know what they are looking for in their life.
I hate that in this world we life in this kind of opinions are totally minoritary, and the popular speech is just some brain dead low iq bullshit like dedicatin your whole life to fuck as many people as possible
We live in a time where sleeping with as many people as possible is seen as a flex, as something we should be proud of if we do it.

Especially on this site, many people want to ascend with the goal of being able to sleep with more people.
And I get it. We’re wired for validation, and sadly sex is one of the highest forms of it today.

But I’m here to challenge that.
Not from a place of copium and bitterness, but from observation, logic, and science.

Sex Isn’t Just Physical

Sex is the closest you can get to another human being.
Not just physically, skin to skin, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
It’s a total surrender. A shared vulnerability.
That’s sacred.
We’ve just forgotten it.

-Even in most religious traditions, sex was never seen as dirty, it was seen as holy, when practiced within love and commitment.
Something meant to unite souls, not just bodies.

More Partners = Higher Divorce Risk

A study published in the National Library of Medicine found this:
"The more sexual partners someone has before marriage, the higher the risk of divorce"
🔗 Study link

And no, there were no gender differences in this pattern.

-Why This Happens

Because habits matter.
If you train your brain to treat sex as disposable, how will you suddenly flip the switch when it’s time for something real?
Your neural pathways are wired for detachment.
You’ve practiced disconnection so much, commitment feels unnatural.

Sex ≠ Love

Sex isn’t a replacement for love.
It’s a poor substitute.

You can fill your nights with bodies and still wake up feeling empty.
Because that hole inside you? It’s not shaped like lust.
It’s shaped like connection, yearning for real love

Ask Yourself Honestly

Do you want to be 40, jaded, still chasing novelty until nothing excites you?
Or do you want a deep bond, a stable love, a family you don’t want to run from?

Real Freedom is Choosing Love

We think “freedom” means no attachment.
But real freedom is being able to choose someone and build something that lasts.

To wake up next to the same face and still feel peace, joy, and meaning.
That’s not boring. That’s beautiful.


Hard Truths

Most of us aren’t proud of our body counts.
We’re not “winning.”
We’re numbing.
We’re coping.
We’re avoiding our own emptiness by pretending meaningless sex will fill it.

Slaying isn’t cool.
It’s often a symptom of something unhealed.

True power is in restraint.
In choosing depth over distraction.
In saying:



The Ultimate flex

The real flex isn’t how many people you’ve slept with.

It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.
Without needing to prove anything.

That’s intimacy.
That’s what lasts.


- in love, renos (also known as milchbubi88)

@greycel @iblameCopecels @eternalcoper @ToryToad
 
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here is a retarded ass boy.
do you realize that we are no longer primitive animals, but higlhy developed beigns with an emotional capacity and reasoning that goes far beyond our animal instint? People like you should be seen as the dirt of our society
Shitty chat gpt thread.

Sex is simply reproduction and we need to do it a lot

I will fuck a lot of women and cum inside them
 
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dnr but quality>>>quantity
 
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I couldn't agree more with you. You defined this thing perfectly.
Glad to find people in here with their own honest values, who really know what they are looking for in their life.
I hate that in this world we life in this kind of opinions are totally minoritary, and the popular speech is just some brain dead low iq bullshit like dedicatin your whole life to fuck as many people as possible
Yeah, definitely, also really appreciate it:Comfy:
It's so sad to see how much value sex lost, I just don't get this generation
 
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Yeah, definitely, i also really appreciate it.
It's so sad to see how much value sex lost, I just don't get this generation
Fuck them I dont even care anymore.
Ima do just what ive got to.
World needs people like you who say it loud so all these depravated losers start realising how fucked up they are and change for the better
 
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Read every molecule & agree :love:
 
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I couldn't agree more with you. You defined this thing perfectly.
Glad to find people in here with their own honest values, who really know what they are looking for in their life.
I hate that in this world we life in this kind of opinions are totally minoritary, and the popular speech is just some brain dead low iq bullshit like dedicatin your whole life to fuck as many people as possible
your values and u are worthless, a htbs piss in a bottle is more valuable than your life objectively
 
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We live in a time where sleeping with as many people as possible is seen as a flex, as something we should be proud of if we do it.

Especially on this site, many people want to ascend with the goal of being able to sleep with more people.
And I get it. We’re wired for validation, and sadly sex is one of the highest forms of it today.

But I’m here to challenge that.
Not from a place of copium and bitterness, but from observation, logic, and science.

Sex Isn’t Just Physical

Sex is the closest you can get to another human being.
Not just physically, skin to skin, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
It’s a total surrender. A shared vulnerability.
That’s sacred.
We’ve just forgotten it.

-Even in most religious traditions, sex was never seen as dirty, it was seen as holy, when practiced within love and commitment.
Something meant to unite souls, not just bodies.

More Partners = Higher Divorce Risk

A study published in the National Library of Medicine found this:
"The more sexual partners someone has before marriage, the higher the risk of divorce"
🔗 Study link

And no, there were no gender differences in this pattern.

-Why This Happens

Because habits matter.
If you train your brain to treat sex as disposable, how will you suddenly flip the switch when it’s time for something real?
Your neural pathways are wired for detachment.
You’ve practiced disconnection so much, commitment feels unnatural.

Sex ≠ Love

Sex isn’t a replacement for love.
It’s a poor substitute.

You can fill your nights with bodies and still wake up feeling empty.
Because that hole inside you? It’s not shaped like lust.
It’s shaped like connection, yearning for real love

Ask Yourself Honestly

Do you want to be 40, jaded, still chasing novelty until nothing excites you?
Or do you want a deep bond, a stable love, a family you don’t want to run from?

Real Freedom is Choosing Love

We think “freedom” means no attachment.
But real freedom is being able to choose someone and build something that lasts.

To wake up next to the same face and still feel peace, joy, and meaning.
That’s not boring. That’s beautiful.


Hard Truths

Most of us aren’t proud of our body counts.
We’re not “winning.”
We’re numbing.
We’re coping.
We’re avoiding our own emptiness by pretending meaningless sex will fill it.

Slaying isn’t cool.
It’s often a symptom of something unhealed.

True power is in restraint.
In choosing depth over distraction.
In saying:



The Ultimate flex

The real flex isn’t how many people you’ve slept with.

It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.
Without needing to prove anything.

That’s intimacy.
That’s what lasts.


- in love, renos (also known as milchbubi88)

@greycel @iblameCopecels @eternalcoper @ToryToad
Can we please stop pretending that men and women are the same? The higher number of partners equaling a higher chance of divorce only when it's the woman with a high number of partners.

"It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.

Without needing to prove anything.



That’s intimacy.

That’s what lasts."

Nigga please. You've been watching too many Lifetime movies. Men aren't supposed to be so sentimental. I ain't never been afraid to give myself to someone fully.
 
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Studies rarely prove shit. They're often extremely flawed. You can make a study suggest anything by simply controlling the criteria and unmentioned variables.
Youre right, not all studies are flawless, but you can’t just reject data because you don’t like the results. Critique the method, not the existence of research
 
your values and u are worthless, a htbs piss in a bottle is more valuable than your life objectively
At least put some arguments into your stupid ahh opinion.
who are you to say my values are worthless? A fuckin scumbag fagg that dont even have a coherent opinion on this? Sybau you stinking pece of shit
 
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At least put some arguments into your stupid ahh opinion.
who are you to say my values are worthless? A fuckin scumbag fagg that dont even have a coherent opinion on this? Sybau you stinking pece of shit
they are worthless to me and to most people, youre just a seething low value incel that cant have fun thats all
 
Today, what reminds me of slaying yesterday is the fellow inside a men's restroom at Wembley Stadium. He uses every urinal and toilet and brags about it later.
 
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We live in a time where sleeping with as many people as possible is seen as a flex, as something we should be proud of if we do it.

Especially on this site, many people want to ascend with the goal of being able to sleep with more people.
And I get it. We’re wired for validation, and sadly sex is one of the highest forms of it today.

But I’m here to challenge that.
Not from a place of copium and bitterness, but from observation, logic, and science.

Sex Isn’t Just Physical

Sex is the closest you can get to another human being.
Not just physically, skin to skin, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
It’s a total surrender. A shared vulnerability.
That’s sacred.
We’ve just forgotten it.

-Even in most religious traditions, sex was never seen as dirty, it was seen as holy, when practiced within love and commitment.
Something meant to unite souls, not just bodies.

More Partners = Higher Divorce Risk

A study published in the National Library of Medicine found this:
"The more sexual partners someone has before marriage, the higher the risk of divorce"
🔗 Study link

And no, there were no gender differences in this pattern.

-Why This Happens

Because habits matter.
If you train your brain to treat sex as disposable, how will you suddenly flip the switch when it’s time for something real?
Your neural pathways are wired for detachment.
You’ve practiced disconnection so much, commitment feels unnatural.

Sex ≠ Love

Sex isn’t a replacement for love.
It’s a poor substitute.

You can fill your nights with bodies and still wake up feeling empty.
Because that hole inside you? It’s not shaped like lust.
It’s shaped like connection, yearning for real love

Ask Yourself Honestly

Do you want to be 40, jaded, still chasing novelty until nothing excites you?
Or do you want a deep bond, a stable love, a family you don’t want to run from?

Real Freedom is Choosing Love

We think “freedom” means no attachment.
But real freedom is being able to choose someone and build something that lasts.

To wake up next to the same face and still feel peace, joy, and meaning.
That’s not boring. That’s beautiful.


Hard Truths

Most of us aren’t proud of our body counts.
We’re not “winning.”
We’re numbing.
We’re coping.
We’re avoiding our own emptiness by pretending meaningless sex will fill it.

Slaying isn’t cool.
It’s often a symptom of something unhealed.

True power is in restraint.
In choosing depth over distraction.
In saying:



The Ultimate flex

The real flex isn’t how many people you’ve slept with.

It’s being so whole that you can give yourself to one person, fully and fearlessly.
Without needing to prove anything.

That’s intimacy.
That’s what lasts.


- in love, renos (also known as milchbubi88)

@greycel @iblameCopecels @eternalcoper @ToryToad
i agree
 
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Youre right, not all studies are flawless, but you can’t just reject data because you don’t like the results. Critique the method, not the existence of research
I mean it's pretty self evident. In the West most women are whores so it doesn't matter what kind of man a woman marries. Outside the West though in certain countries it's very common for most men to fuck a lot of hookers and loose women before getting married but the women are kept celibate and divorced rates are very low.

I can reject data if I already know better. If I don't know any better I and don't like the results I can take a look closer and see exactly how that data was gathered.

The truth is men don't have to feel shit for a woman to fuck her. He doesn't have to even like her. He's just gotta find her hot. Women are very different in that regard. It's much worse for a woman to be a whore than for a man to fuck a lot of women. You know it in your heart even, if you're being honest with yourself.
 
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they are worthless to me and to most people, youre just a seething low value incel that cant have fun thats all
You cant even argue properly why my values are worthless. At least try yo explain why.
You are clearly a very simple and dumb person aren't you?
I think that you are so inferior that you cant even think about the values that im talking about. They are incomprensible for such a retarded like you.
Exactly like kids and handicaped people(all my respect to them), its all about fun to you, there is nothing more to think about
Shut the fuck up you are pmo
 
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You cant even argue properly why my values are worthless. At least try yo explain why.
You are clearly a very simple and dumb person aren't you?
I think that you are so inferior that you cant even think about the values that im talking about. They are incomprensible for such a retarded like you.
Exactly like kids and handicaped people(all my respect to them), its all about fun to you, there is nothing more to think about
Shut the fuck up you are pmo
dnr worthless loser im sure you wrote nothing valuable/interesting
 
That’s why I only fuck myself hahaha
 
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dnr worthless loser im sure you wrote nothing valuable/interesting
Once again you wrote nothing in that sentence.
Js rope atp you are a miserable retarded piece of shit
Dont even talk to me prehistoric mf and go to a neurologist to fix that cognitive deficent brain you have.
 
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