Why is it easier to find solutions to someone else's issues?

[RAITEIII]

Like when most people propose me a problem I come up with something satisfactory in most cases. But for myself? I can spend months stuck up thinking of how to deal with something. It's difficult to dissssociate yourself from the situation and say this is the right thing to do.

 

[RAITEIII]

@NuclearBrainReturns

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

@NuclearBrainReturns

Because its easier to look at a problem objectively when it isn't coming from yourself.

Any ideas you may have with a problem are swamped with your own beliefs on the situation which clouds your judgement, and if your proclivity is towards self defeatism in that situation then you will convince yourself you cannot fix it and so you ask for help.

 

[zharupodrugu]

Most of the time people already know what to do. They dont need inspiration or advice. They just rarely take action. Thats why there are some many losers and so few successful people