Why is it so hard to maintain friends?

[TrustintheBP101]

I know MANY people and I can call them friends, BUT I rarely feel like the friendship is genuine. Everything feels fake. It feels like everyone secretly hates me. But because I’m HTN girls seem to like being around me but since we’re girls less picky with how a guy acts ???? Is it because I have high appeal ? Ofc it is. I seem to get along better with girls just bc of my looks. Girls have been treating me better and have been more loyal and real than my guy friends jfl. I have been betrayed so many times by friends but rarely by a girl. wtf is wrong with these low T dudes. I just want a stable friend group that you can hangout with when you feel like it just how it was when you were younger.

 

[Jugg_]

Are you in college? This has been my experience since going to college. Mfs actually secretly hated me because of my looks no bs

 

[Epochs]

I know MANY people and I can call them friends, BUT I rarely feel like the friendship is genuine. Everything feels fake. It feels like everyone secretly hates me. But because I’m HTN girls seem to like being around me but since we’re girls less picky with how a guy acts ???? Is it because I have high appeal ? Ofc it is. I seem to get along better with girls just bc of my looks. Girls have been treating me better and have been more loyal and real than my guy friends jfl. I have been betrayed so many times by friends but rarely by a girl. wtf is wrong with these low T dudes. I just want a stable friend group that you can hangout with when you feel like it just how it was when you were younger.

similar bro,even in online friends.

 

[TrustintheBP101]

Are you in college? This has been my experience since going to college. Mfs actually secretly hated me because of my looks no bs

I’m in high school I would say in my country ages are 16-19. And yeahhh dudes will hate you because you look good. Especially if you ascended and went from uglier than them to more good looking. Most guys in 2025 are a bunch of bitches with no moral or honour (western countries)

 

[m0glit3]

I know MANY people and I can call them friends, BUT I rarely feel like the friendship is genuine. Everything feels fake. It feels like everyone secretly hates me. But because I’m HTN girls seem to like being around me but since we’re girls less picky with how a guy acts ???? Is it because I have high appeal ? Ofc it is. I seem to get along better with girls just bc of my looks. Girls have been treating me better and have been more loyal and real than my guy friends jfl. I have been betrayed so many times by friends but rarely by a girl. wtf is wrong with these low T dudes. I just want a stable friend group that you can hangout with when you feel like it just how it was when you were younger.

Real asf, I can’t seem to have a stable connection with my friends anymore and don’t even hardly text them anymore to hangout or anything because they just disregard me or anything and always go do things without me. I hardly get invited to do this or that anymore, and tbh ever since I stopped hanging with my friends, i’ve had more and more girls at my house then I ever have in my life. I’ve been thinking about moving away also for this sole reason just don’t know where A good place to go to that would have people that would fit my personality.

I started to notice how my friends treated me these past couple months after I started taking Test and have got a different mindset and view on things then I had before idk if that’s just me or not but i feel forgotten now and just stay to myself.

 

[Jugg_]

I’m in high school I would say in my country ages are 16-19. And yeahhh dudes will hate you because you look good. Especially if you ascended and went from uglier than them to more good looking. Most guys in 2025 are a bunch of bitches with no moral or honour (western countries)

Seems like the case I'm ngl, a lot of guys have extremely fragile egos (jestermaxxers) and get angry at you for getting attention. It all comes down to insecurity, I had to step back and realize this because I was a very insecure person myself, and caught myself spewing hatred towards everyone I saw in public and online. Hatred usually comes from insecurity, envy, or jealousy; rarely is there a good reason for hating someone or spewing negativity.
Best thing you can do tbh is acknowledge your own mental state and try to be positive, positivity will always be better in the long run than negativity, no matter how good the negativity feels in the moment.

 

[laworg]

I know MANY people and I can call them friends, BUT I rarely feel like the friendship is genuine. Everything feels fake. It feels like everyone secretly hates me. But because I’m HTN girls seem to like being around me but since we’re girls less picky with how a guy acts ???? Is it because I have high appeal ? Ofc it is. I seem to get along better with girls just bc of my looks. Girls have been treating me better and have been more loyal and real than my guy friends jfl. I have been betrayed so many times by friends but rarely by a girl. wtf is wrong with these low T dudes. I just want a stable friend group that you can hangout with when you feel like it just how it was when you were younger.

Word

 

[gooner23]

tbh for stuff longer than 5 years espescially as an adult you gotta just do routine stuff with your friends and you just lose them to them having children at like 22 or some shit or them going deeper into religion