why is my life so fucking weird right now

[gribsufer1]

the person ive talked to the most this week is my oneitis ???? we started talking in dms after i asked her out and were still talking 5 days later ? first she was all like defensive and being rude but now she literally initiates conversations with me where she tries to show off shes like teehee im at a harry styles concert webe talked for hours but i feel like im getting friendzoned/cucked idk what to do

 

[Deleted member 29581]

the person ive talked to the most this week is my oneitis ???? we started talking in dms after i asked her out and were still talking 5 days later ? first she was all like defensive and being rude but now she literally initiates conversations with me where she tries to show off shes like teehee im at a harry styles concert webe talked for hours but i feel like im getting friendzoned/cucked idk what to do

Tell her what you want. And say either we can make it happen or I’ll move on. Don’t be used for your attention.

 

[User49]

wait dm me rq

something unrelated

 

[It'snotover]

the person ive talked to the most this week is my oneitis ???? we started talking in dms after i asked her out and were still talking 5 days later ? first she was all like defensive and being rude but now she literally initiates conversations with me where she tries to show off shes like teehee im at a harry styles concert webe talked for hours but i feel like im getting friendzoned/cucked idk what to do

Yeah she is slowly putting you into the friend zone. Make it clear your (sexual) interest or you'll end up to be extremely deluded when you'll see her with another guy while she use you as emotional tampon

 

[mvp2v1]

the person ive talked to the most this week is my oneitis ???? we started talking in dms after i asked her out and were still talking 5 days later ? first she was all like defensive and being rude but now she literally initiates conversations with me where she tries to show off shes like teehee im at a harry styles concert webe talked for hours but i feel like im getting friendzoned/cucked idk what to do

If ur bellow 6/10 in looks (HTN) then the way u get ur onitis is like this: let her friend zone u, become her best friend. Become a part of her daily routine (goodmorning goodnight) have fund with her doing stuff. Then after doing this for at leased 5 months. Stop contact. Say something like u need to focus on you or something idk. If u are at leased 5/10 SMV then there is a good chance she will have become attached to u and caught feelings. If ur bellow 5/10 this won’t work, and if she gets a boyfriend in that time it won’t work.

 

[Deleted member 28864]

the person ive talked to the most this week is my oneitis ???? we started talking in dms after i asked her out and were still talking 5 days later ? first she was all like defensive and being rude but now she literally initiates conversations with me where she tries to show off shes like teehee im at a harry styles concert webe talked for hours but i feel like im getting friendzoned/cucked idk what to do

Here’s what you do.. ask what her availability on a certain day and throw out an idea where you would be 1on1 and get her undivided attention. If you receive any type of pushback.. then you’ll know she’s just using you for attention and u should move on.

 

[gribsufer1]

Here’s what you do.. ask what her availability on a certain day and throw out an idea where you would be 1on1 and get her undivided attention. If you receive any type of pushback.. then you’ll know she’s just using you for attention and u should move on.

examples?

 

[Deleted member 28864]

examples?

How old are you lol if you are of age to drink, happy hour cocktails is the best indicator that you want to be more than friends

 

[gribsufer1]

How old are you lol if you are of age to drink, happy hour cocktails is the best indicator that you want to be more than friends

nah were 16 it wouldnt work

 

[Deleted member 28864]

nah were 16 it wouldnt work

Broo an arcade or bowling spot. Or top golf. It’s not that difficult just need to put her on the spot and have her think that the next time you hang out it will be 1on1.

 

[gribsufer1]

It’s not that difficult just need to put her on the spot and have her think that the next time you hang out it will be 1on1.

can you say that more clearly

 

[gribsufer1]

Broo an arcade or bowling spot. Or top golf. It’s not that difficult just need to put her on the spot and have her think that the next time you hang out it will be 1on1.

i dont like asking this but can you go more in depth? weve both never dated or anything but she ntmogs me and goes out with friends a lot

 

[Deleted member 28864]

i dont like asking this but can you go more in depth? weve both never dated or anything but she ntmogs me and goes out with friends a lot

I gotchu and understand your hesitancy. If you don’t get an flirtatious IOIs from her IRL, then I think you are in the dreaded friendzone…

 

[enchanted_elixir]

the person ive talked to the most this week is my oneitis ???? we started talking in dms after i asked her out and were still talking 5 days later ? first she was all like defensive and being rude but now she literally initiates conversations with me where she tries to show off shes like teehee im at a harry styles concert webe talked for hours but i feel like im getting friendzoned/cucked idk what to do

Leave her on seen and move on.