Why is self-pity so addictive?

[Deleted member 17872]

As an introverted loser, i had a habit of sometimes indulging in needless self-pity. I still indulge in it sometimes like i'm currently at the time of typing his.

Since this forum is also full of self-pitying retards like @Xangsane @Biggdink @Prettyboy @PrinceLuenLeoncur what makes it so good. I'm it an extremely pathetic thing to do but it still feels extremely amazing.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

@Crestfallen95 @Anstrum95 @MoggerGaston thoughts?

 

[Deleted member 25667]

This is a guess but it's probably the brains way with coping about a dire situation.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

This is a guess but it's probably the brains way with coping about a dire situation.

What dire situation do i have?

 

[Deleted member 25667]

What dire situation do i have?

Whatever one you're self pitying about? Idk maybe you failed to achieve a goal, no social circle, no gf could be anything

 

[Deleted member 16474]

@Crestfallen95 @Anstrum95 @MoggerGaston thoughts?

 

[Deleted member 7580]

You develop mental illnesses bcz you realize you’re not a life mogger like @FailedNormieManlet

 

[Deleted member 17872]

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It's getting annoying now. I wanted to make a pretty bad joke about her but i restrained myself.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

As an introverted loser, i had a habit of sometimes indulging in needless self-pity. I still indulge in it sometimes like i'm currently at the time of typing his.

Since this forum is also full of self-pitying retards like @Xangsane @Biggdink @Prettyboy @PrinceLuenLeoncur what makes it so good. I'm it an extremely pathetic thing to do but it still feels extremely amazing.

It’s nice to have a place to vent my failures and frustrations out on. It’s also nice that others here also feel the same way. Ofc not eveybody but we just ignore those such as yourself who want to be weird optimistic cucks

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Whatever one you're self pitying about? Idk maybe you failed to achieve a goal, no social circle, no gf could be anything

I only problem is i'm a fucking lazy cunt who just could do anything properly when he needs to.

Am i self pitying myself over being a lazy imcompotent fuck? Doesn't make any sense

 

[Deleted member 17872]

You develop mental illnesses bcz you realize you’re not a life mogger like @FailedNormieManlet

Yeah I and everybody knows serbian women love indian and muslim cock

 

[Deleted member 25667]

Am i self pitying myself over being a lazy imcompotent fuck?

Literally how am I supposed to know this. Do you feel sorry for yourself because youre inherently lazy? yes or no

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Idk why it's so addictive but I enjoy venting.

 

[User49]

i cant even vent online because of my mental illness

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Literally how am I supposed to know this. Do you feel sorry for yourself because youre inherently lazy? yes or no

I just create imagined scenarios in my head of people despising me. I don't why. I just feel like an outcast at heart. And thinks nobody loves even though i have treated fairly well by other people.

 

[Deleted member 25667]

I just create imagined scenarios in my head of people despising me

And you enjoy this. You enjoy the feeling of people hating you?

 

[Deleted member 17872]

And you enjoy this. You enjoy the feeling of people hating you?

Idk. Maybe i'm just a masochist freak. Sometimes i feel like i'm all alone and nobody understands me. It's like my deep seated fear.

 

[Deleted member 25667]

Sometimes i feel like i'm all alone and nobody understands me

You are alone and it's not that anyone misunderstands you moreso no one cares about you. It's called being an average male, you'll get used to it.

 

[Deleted member 23100]

I like it because I am water sign

 

[Deleted member 17872]

You are alone and it's not that anyone misunderstands you moreso no one cares about you. It's called being an average male, you'll get used to it.

People care enough about me. They have reached about to me even when i acted cold.

But i feel self pity far more than average male

 

[Deleted member 18522]

self pity is disgusting.

i went from bottom 10% of men to top 10% of men by stopping feeling sorry for myself.

its such a massive fucking waste of time as a man to do anything other than grind and produce results

 

[Deleted member 17872]

self pity is disgusting.

i went from bottom 10% of men to top 10% of men by stopping feeling sorry for myself.

its such a massive fucking waste of time as a man to do anything other than grind and produce results

Finally a good post from you.

How do i get rid of my self-pity?

 

[Deleted member 18522]

Finally a good post from you.

How do i get rid of my self-pity?

I can't say any trick, but just stopping those thoughts in their tracks. whenever you feel one coming blank your brain and do something productive.

its like real time meditation, after a while the self pity thoughts become a habit trigger to do something productive

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Meanwhile me

 

[Deleted member 21661]

As an introverted loser, i had a habit of sometimes indulging in needless self-pity. I still indulge in it sometimes like i'm currently at the time of typing his.

Since this forum is also full of self-pitying retards like @Xangsane @Biggdink @Prettyboy @PrinceLuenLeoncur what makes it so good. I'm it an extremely pathetic thing to do but it still feels extremely amazing.

I've thought about things like this tbh, and although it's a simplistic solution, I think the best way is "just do it"
If you're lazy, something I struggle with too, the problem is literally not to think. Whenever I look online, I see a million different excuses for why, or some "secret" method to working, some trick or way around, or whatever.
But, if it comes around to the work, the moment you start feeling lazy, the moment you start self pitying, just force yourself to do it. Lazy to go to the gym, do work, idk whatever. There's literally no other way to describe or easy way to get out of it. Just like manchild said always try to be aware of what you're thinking and stick hard to a certain standard (eg, if I say I'll work at 6 PM, work at 6PM, no matter what)

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I just create imagined scenarios in my head of people despising me.

I do this too. Being hated on by others feels far more comfortable than being loved.

Probably cuz I was mostly hated on in my childhood + abused by parents. People treat me reasonably well since adulthood, but I still imagine all the scenarios where they don't.

I even seek out hatred sometimes. Example: by defending unpopular opinions or taking an unpopular political stance, knowing that people will hate me for it and I gain nothing except that hatred.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

it's just adhd

 

[Deleted member 17872]

it's just adhd

No such thing

 

[volcelfatcel]

What’s your age? Self pity is common for the avg forum age

 

[Deleted member 17872]

What’s your age? Self pity is common for the avg forum age

Early 20s

 

[germanlooks]

Maybe because it helps you to push away your own responsibility which can feel comfortable

 

[Deleted member 17872]

by defending unpopular opinions or taking an unpopular political stance, knowing that people will hate me for it and I gain nothing except that hatred.

Literally my entire forum history.

Maybe because it helps you to push away your own responsibility which can feel comfortable

so basically it's like alcohol and other drugs.

 

[RAITEIII]

Life is scary, and unpredictable - sayeth the lord. Thy redemption shall be become scarier thyself.

 

[RAITEIII]

As an introverted loser, i had a habit of sometimes indulging in needless self-pity. I still indulge in it sometimes like i'm currently at the time of typing his.

Since this forum is also full of self-pitying retards like @Xangsane @Biggdink @Prettyboy @PrinceLuenLeoncur what makes it so good. I'm it an extremely pathetic thing to do but it still feels extremely amazing.

Anyways, besides what I said. If I reflect on myself self pity steemed from unresolved feelings, memorias, past, future.

you open your eyes. And underdtand you must taughten yourself. And take action.

Come to DMs I can give Therapy if u want.

 

[Deleted member 26535]

Uncle joon really traumatized you, I see

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Uncle joon really traumatized you, I see

Literally who

 

[Deleted member 16275]

How exactly would you define it btw

 

[Deleted member 17872]

How exactly would you define it btw

a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

As an introverted loser,

i knew it david boy

 

[apocalypse]

It's important to me that others realize that I had it much much worse than them