Why is there a social stigma against going for younger women but not ugly women if you struggle with other women?

[Deleted member 20890]

Let’s say you’re a man over 25, you date a woman age 18-20. Many haters might make the argument “you can’t get women your age so you went for the young girl”.

Meanwhile, if you are not a fat dude but struggle to get a non fat girlfriend, and then you get a fat girlfriend, no one gets angry and says “you only got the fat girl because you can’t get non fat girls.”

What gives?

 

[3links2]

Narcissism

 

[wsada]

How do people end up finding hot caring older women

 

[Deleted member 20890]

How do people end up finding hot caring older women

Don’t know how that relates to this thread.

 

[wsada]

Don’t know how that relates to this thread.

I'm unable to read long shit I just felt like asking

 

[Latinus]

Let’s say you’re a man over 25, you date a woman age 18-20. Many haters might make the argument “you can’t get women your age so you went for the young girl”.

Meanwhile, if you are not a fat dude but struggle to get a non fat girlfriend, and then you get a fat girlfriend, no one gets angry and says “you only got the fat girl because you can’t get non fat girls.”

What gives?

Because the first is socially acepted (shaming men for dating younger women), while the other is not: people will do virtue signeling and claim all bodies are beautiful, when they don't even believe in what they are saying.

 

[Deleted member 20890]

Because the first is socially acepted (shaming men for dating younger women), while the other is not: people will do virtue signeling and claim all bodies are beautiful, when they don't even believe in what they are saying.

I think it’s because of misandry.

 

[klip11]

Let’s say you’re a man over 25, you date a woman age 18-20. Many haters might make the argument “you can’t get women your age so you went for the young girl”.

Meanwhile, if you are not a fat dude but struggle to get a non fat girlfriend, and then you get a fat girlfriend, no one gets angry and says “you only got the fat girl because you can’t get non fat girls.”

What gives?

Because one scenario benefits women while the other benefits men.

Notice that anything that benefits women's sexual strategies is viewed as "moral" or "the right thing" by default.

That's why it's ok if a man likes older women but not younger women. If you're 30 and date an 18 year old woman, you're a "predator" and will be told to get a woman your own age but if you're 30 and date a 42 year old woman, that's perfectly fine and no one will tell you to get a woman your own age. The reason for this is that you can only get older and not younger. Every 18 year old woman that doesn't die will be a 42 year old woman one day. A 42 year old woman will never again be an 18 year old. Older women want to preserve their SMV.

Likewise, it's sexist or misogyny if you prefer slim women over fat women, but it's not sexism or misogyny if it's the other way around. It's viewed as "good and moral" if you prefer fat women to slim women.

Just like it's "the right thing" if you date single mothers and take care of another man's kids.

Notice how they all benefit the sexual strategies of women at the expense of men.

 

[Deleted member 20890]

Because one scenario benefits women while the other benefits men.

Notice that anything that benefits women's sexual strategies is viewed as "moral" or "the right thing" by default.

That's why it's ok if a man likes older women but not younger women. If you're 30 and date an 18 year old woman, you're a "predator" and will be told to get a woman your own age but if you're 30 and date a 42 year old woman, that's perfectly fine and no one will tell you to get a woman your own age. The reason for this is that you can only get older and not younger. Every 18 year old woman that doesn't die will be a 42 year old woman one day. A 42 year old woman will never again be an 18 year old. Older women want to preserve their SMV.

Likewise, it's sexist or misogyny if you prefer slim women over fat women, but it's not sexism or misogyny if it's the other way around. It's viewed as "good and moral" if you prefer fat women to slim women.

Just like it's "the right thing" if you date single mothers and take care of another man's kids.

Notice how they all benefit the sexual strategies of women at the expense of men.

Nailed it.