Why is tinder difficult when most guys are ugly

[Johanjohan]

Go outside in the city and most guys look deformed and bloated

I almost never see goodlooking guys

Yet on tinder you need to be goodlooking to slay

How does that make sense when most guys are so ugly?

 

[Deleted member 55437]

Tinder is purely based on looks whilst real life is more holistic and takes into account status, personality and even luck.

 

[Brus Wane]

Because we might just be dismissed as "most guys" by majority of female users based on our pics?

Did you think about that OP? Or did you somehow think we're all in the top 20% or something?

 

[Johanjohan]

Because we might just be dismissed as "most guys" by majority of female users based on our pics?

Did you think about that OP?

its so weird cuz chadlite is like top 1%, most guys are ugly

Yet most girls have a 100+ lay count

 

[moggerofhumanity]

On Tinder, looks really are everything. Girls have to make the decision if a guy is worth their time in a split second.

 

[Johanjohan]

On Tinder, looks really are everything. Girls have to make the decision if a guy is worth their time in a split second.

Yes but almost all guys are ugly

 

[Brus Wane]

its so weird cuz chadlite is like top 1%, most guys are ugly

Yet most girls have a 100+ lay count

Not weird at all

Here's your explanation

They're fucking mostly HTNs on tinder and MTNs with halo effect (money , status , charisma)

 

[Deleted member 55437]

On Tinder, looks really are everything. Girls have to make the decision if a guy is worth their time in a split second.

This whereas in real life other factors are taken into account

 

[PurpleWave]

Because we might just be dismissed as "most guys" by majority of female users based on our pics?

Did you think about that OP?

THIS, LITERALLY THIS.

I swear to you most people haven't got a fucking clue (which you'd expect from this website, surely?). Most women are inundated with date offers and sex offers that they can afford to filter out these mediocre looking (average looking or below) men out until they manage to get a better looking guy. They can afford to be pickier and select better looking guys, because why the fuck wouldn't they? Men are horny as fuck and are happy to settle.

 

[moggerofhumanity]

Yes but almost all guys are ugly

Not all guys get a date either. Most of them either get ghosted or is just used to have free dinner and stuff.

 

[Deleted member 128803]

because there are good looking guys on it too

 

[Ishaan Brahmbhatt]

On Tinder all a foid has is pictures and short bios. Obviously she's going to pick the nicest looking one.

 

[Johanjohan]

Not weird at all

Here's your explanation

They're fucking mostly HTNs on tinder and MTNs with halo effect (money , status , charisma)

But indians here say u need to be chadlite male model to slay

 

[Johanjohan]

On Tinder all a foid has is pictures and short bios. Obviously she's going to pick the nicest looking one.

Yes but most guys are so ugly

 

[Ishaan Brahmbhatt]

Yes but most guys are so ugly

only in small/ shit cities

 

[kevinwang19991@gmai]

Because of hypergamy.

Similar to tinder, in real life, personality doesn't matter either. However, a good personality can help improve your social circle in general, thereby giving you more opportunities to interact with women and attract with status (money, career, fame, etc).

 

[lightskinniggga]

Lmao back when I was on Tinder 2021ish I once saw a Htb blonde foids profile and it was only bikini thirst trap pics and on her bio it said "in only on here for some dick tbh"

I dunno if the profile was real but it said verified

 

[Deleted member 81171]

its so weird cuz chadlite is like top 1%, most guys are ugly

Yet most girls have a 100+ lay count

cl is 0.1% ngl, i barely see any of them. those are the people that can have followings on social media just by looking good lol

 

[Daddy's Home]

Yet on tinder you need to be goodlooking to slay

How does that make sense when most guys are so ugly?

Because the foids who use tinder are chronic online bitches, most often with a very small (and all-girl) or completely non-existent social circle, so for them the minimum standard for guys is the average HTN+ from TikTok / Insta

The rest of the foids make boyfriends based on networking and common activities in real life, with real people, getting in contact frequently, daily or weekly with potential future partners (below a couple I know from real life that formed because they frequented the same coffee shop almost daily), because it gives them security and reassurance that the guy is relatively ok and not a freak (if this chick was looking for a boyfriend on Tinder, she would swipe left on this guy in less than 0.1 seconds)

 

[Johanjohan]

Because of hypergamy.

Similar to tinder, in real life, personality doesn't matter either. However, a good personality can help improve your social circle in general, thereby giving you more opportunities to interact with women and attract with status (money, career, fame, etc).

So girls dont care about personality?

Why do all girls talk about personality all the time then?

Ive seen so many girls excuse their ugly boyfriend by saying he has a good personality

 

[Johanjohan]

cl is 0.1% ngl, i barely see any of them. those are the people that can have followings on social media just by looking good lol

Tyler maher has no followers despite having 1 in a million face

 

[Deleted member 81171]

Tyler maher has no followers despite having 1 in a million face

The 30k followers he has is due to his face. Hes like any other retarded gymceller, just handsome

 

[actualunderstander]

Tinder has an inflation dilemma where girls are WAY more picky about looks due to multiple reasons i wont get into but its that way. When you meet a girl irl its not all about looks. Its about vibes, personality, confidence, social circle, etc. Those facts are usually where men shine. Tinder gets rid of that natural fact completely and because of other reasons, girls will only meet with a dude when hes way better looking than what she would naturally consider irl, or like the other guy said, alot of them are terminally online and wont meet with a dude anyways unless its like an unrealistically good deal for her. Even 8/10 looking dudes can struggle on tinder.

Id say half the girls on there atleast are just on there for cheap validation and wouldnt meet unless its an unrealistically good deal for her like a celebrity comes into town or a really rich dude

Its bogus. Do irl game instead. You will have a much better success rate.

 

[kevinwang19991@gmai]

So girls dont care about personality?

Why do all girls talk about personality all the time then?

Ive seen so many girls excuse their ugly boyfriend by saying he has a good personality

I mean, yes, but no. It’s possible they’re praising their personality because it’s the only redeeming feature they have. But ironically, it’s the feature that pretty much everyone has.

Personality matters to relationships in the way that everyone (99%) of people have the same personality. Chads and sub5’s alike. You don’t need interesting hobbies, good “characteristics”, or to “improve” your personality.

Are you kind to people who are kind to you? Check

Are you willing to act polite in public and hold the door for people after you? Check

Do you want to be intimate with your girlfriend and make more money? Check

To summarize, you’re a kind, well mannered, loving and ambitious young man.

Of course, I want to emphasize personality specifically extroversion does affect the breadth of your social circle which dictates how often you naturally interact with women. However, once you start talking with women, looks and status is what matters.

Everyone can talk about helping the homeless, helping a grandma cross the street, having fun surfing or gaming or hiking with their friends, having a dog or a cat or a fish, and it will have zero effect on your appeal.

Personality doesn't matter.

 

[Johanjohan]

. Even 8/10 looking dudes can struggle on tinder.

Tales from mumbai

 

[soggra]

Even 8/10 looking dudes can struggle on tinder.

 

[soggra]

Tinder has an inflation dilemma where girls are WAY more picky about looks due to multiple reasons i wont get into but its that way. When you meet a girl irl its not all about looks. Its about vibes, personality, confidence, social circle, etc. Those facts are usually where men shine. Tinder gets rid of that natural fact completely and because of other reasons, girls will only meet with a dude when hes way better looking than what she would naturally consider irl, or like the other guy said, alot of them are terminally online and wont meet with a dude anyways unless its like an unrealistically good deal for her. Even 8/10 looking dudes can struggle on tinder.

Id say half the girls on there atleast are just on there for cheap validation and wouldnt meet unless its an unrealistically good deal for her like a celebrity comes into town or a really rich dude

Its bogus. Do irl game instead. You will have a much better success rate.

Even irl game is shit success rate. 6’0 and htn minimum for irl game. And cold approaching sucks ass anyways I’m too high inhib for that. Warm approaching also sucks ass since I don’t know any female friends

 

[mikeperry271]

it's very easy
TINDER'S ALGORITHM PUSHES GOODLOOKING GUYS
if u are average looking or ugly, you won't make it

 

[Johanjohan]

Even irl game is shit success rate. 6’0 and htn minimum for irl game. And cold approaching sucks ass anyways I’m too high inhib for that. Warm approaching also sucks ass since I don’t know any female friends

Why are women so looks-focused when most guys are ugly? It doesnt make sense

 

[soggra]

Why are women so looks-focused when most guys are ugly? It doesnt make sense

Because they get simped on by many ugly guys so they have to increase their standards because they know they got options and have high SMV

 

[actualunderstander]

Tales from mumbai

I mean its true. Dudes who are considered good looking irl struggle on tinder depending on where youre located

 

[Johanjohan]

I mean its true. Dudes who are considered good looking irl struggle on tinder depending on where youre located

Tales from mumbai

8/10 male model wont struggle on tinder

 

[soggra]

I mean its true. Dudes who are considered good looking irl struggle on tinder depending on where youre located

Show me a pic of a 8/10, your probably just overrating what an actual 8/10 is

 

[soggra]

I mean its true. Dudes who are considered good looking irl struggle on tinder depending on where youre located

I mean to be fair tinder is kind of shit. I went on a jb app and had so many girls messaging me wanting me n shit but then when I went on tinder I only got like 4 likes and 0 matches after using 1 week

 

[Johanjohan]

I only got like 4 likes and 0 matches after using 1 week

Cuz ur ethnic cel

 

[soggra]

Cuz ur ethnic cel

I’m white, also rep me

 

[klamus]

I mean, yes, but no. It’s possible they’re praising their personality because it’s the only redeeming feature they have. But ironically, it’s the feature that pretty much everyone has.

Personality matters to relationships in the way that everyone (99%) of people have the same personality. Chads and sub5’s alike. You don’t need interesting hobbies, good “characteristics”, or to “improve” your personality.

Are you kind to people who are kind to you? Check

Are you willing to act polite in public and hold the door for people after you? Check

Do you want to be intimate with your girlfriend and make more money? Check

To summarize, you’re a kind, well mannered, loving and ambitious young man.

Of course, I want to emphasize personality specifically extroversion does affect the breadth of your social circle which dictates how often you naturally interact with women. However, once you start talking with women, looks and status is what matters.

Everyone can talk about helping the homeless, helping a grandma cross the street, having fun surfing or gaming or hiking with their friends, having a dog or a cat or a fish, and it will have zero effect on your appeal.

Personality doesn't matter.

Very Well put. NT, extrovertness and Being fake and Gay matters much More.

 

[actualunderstander]

Tales from mumbai

8/10 male model wont struggle on tinder

I mean whatever you say i guess. Maybe not struggle in the sense where they get nothing, but its most likely not even close to how you imagine it, and even in some places exactly how i said it was. But believe wut u want

 

[Deleted member 25705]

Tyler maher has no followers despite having 1 in a million face

Maher seems very humble and laid back, which is unironic given the narcy roaches that worship him.

 

[Johanjohan]

Very Well put. NT, extrovertness and Being fake and Gay matters much More.

But @kevinwang19991@gmai says girls dont care about personality

 

[FrenchareMedCucks]

IRL is as hard as Tinder since 2020

It just shows how desperate you are when you're MTN or LTN when you cold approach

 

[Johanjohan]

IRL is as hard as Tinder since 2020

It just shows how desperate you are when you're MTN or LTN when you cold approach

Cold approach is a meme

 

[Deleted member 16280]

Pareto principle. 5% of guys on there are good looking and they get 98% of all the matches

 

[Johanjohan]

Pareto principle. 5% of guys on there are good looking and they get 98% of all the matches

Do girls really care so much about looks?

 

[glaruz]

Cuz by definition you are probably ugly too. The question makes no sense.

 

[puniteking]

Go outside in the city and most guys look deformed and bloated
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I almost never see goodlooking guys

Yet on tinder you need to be goodlooking to slay

How does that make sense when most guys are so ugly?

society is based on hypergamy women only date the top 20% of men

Everyone else is is an animal to them

If you ask the average woman about a guy most likely she will rate him “below average” in attractiveness, whereas men tend to rate women more evenly across the spectrum.

 

[Deleted member 119413]

Go outside in the city and most guys look deformed and bloated
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I almost never see goodlooking guys

Yet on tinder you need to be goodlooking to slay

How does that make sense when most guys are so ugly?

because the good looking guys are in relationships

 

[LongForgotten]

Actually bro I did a bumble experiment a while ago, and alot of the guys are chads honestly bro Makes sense cause ltns haveno matches anyway so they prob delete

 

[Deleted member 60565]

Go outside in the city and most guys look deformed and bloated
View attachment 3572995

I almost never see goodlooking guys

Yet on tinder you need to be goodlooking to slay

How does that make sense when most guys are so ugly?

how about you go to where are the ugly guys are an cold approach there mtn min req.

 

[Hammy29]

Dating apps in general are pointless unless you're maxxing out your profile. That means having the best (ideally professionally taken) pictures in your absolute best outfits, paying for the premium features, good bio, and knowing the right things to say when you do get matches. If you're not putting in the maximum effort then you're not going to have success.