why its so hard for me to become confident

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Why most people become confident ,like good looking people at least, is they have a positive feedback loop. So everything they say, you know, people tend to laugh or smile at them or just agree with them. And because they have this positive feedback loop, it's very easy for someone who's attractive to become confident. If you're ugly, however, you don't have this privilege, right? If you're ugly, people tend to argue against your point. People will just disagree for no reason, right? Just cuz ur ugly. And so if you're in that scenario, which is, you know oh man becoming confident is kind of hard the traditional way, right? Cause that's a traditional way. That's how most people you meet are confident. By the way, you know, I don't know if you've noticed this, but most people that you meet that are confident are good looking people. ,cuz you know, it was just gift to do them, right on a golden spoon fed to them. They didn't have to work for it. They didn't have to do anything.
 
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Because you are ugly.
 
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Everybody knows this and thats why a Board like this exists.
 
You need to differentiate your looks from your identity. Relying on a constantly changing loop outside of your control is just a recipe for disaster
 

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