autistic_tendencies
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s video challenges the common online advice to "control your lust," arguing that for most men, lusting more, not less, is beneficial (1:15-1:19). The speaker distinguishes between healthy and unhealthy forms of lust, stating that problematic lust involves engaging in activities like buying OnlyFans subscriptions, chatting with bots, sending unsolicited explicit pictures, or paying for sexual services (1:34-1:57, 4:50-5:13).
The video outlines three main reasons why men need to lust more:
1. Strangling your primal instinct (3:07-3:13): Suppressing the natural desire to approach attractive women is seen as a form of avoidance rather than empowerment. The speaker suggests that many men use "controlling lust" or "focusing on themselves" as an excuse for being scared of women or rejection (3:20-4:23, 5:51-6:06). This can lead to a lifetime of coping and missing out on relationships (5:27-5:50).
2. Need for experience (6:12-6:14): Avoiding interactions with women leads to a lack of experience in approaching, dating, and even in the bedroom. This inexperience can make interactions awkward and lead to missed opportunities with good women (6:16-7:14, 7:18-8:10). Consistent practice leads to natural and confident interactions (6:34-6:40).
3. Dating is a numbers game (8:13-8:16): To succeed in dating, men need to actively engage with women, whether through approaching them in person, using dating apps, or direct messaging on social media (8:19-8:35, 9:20-9:30). Men who are actively "lustful" in a healthy way are more likely to meet partners and have a good dating life because they are consistently putting themselves out there and gaining validating experiences (9:33-9:42). The speaker emphasizes that for the average man, the "game is never coming to you" – you need to pursue it (10:17-10:22).