Why most of you should work on personality [brutal]

[x69]

Yes you're right that personality doesn't matter and looks/genetics are the only thing that matter... FOR SHORT-TERM MATING.

For short-term mating you need great genetics (most of the time) or just be really lucky to be at the right place and time but don't count on that.
Great genetics are needed for short-term mating and most of you just don't have it (me neither).

The only chance for most incels is LTR's and you need personality for that.
It's beta yes. But how do you wanna act alpha when everything about you screams beta?


No mockery you just weren't meant to be a Chad-lite/Chad. If you are kind of good-looking you can looksmax your way into Chad-lite territory.

 

[Deleted member 281]

The only chance for most incels is LTR's

That would end in a train wreck for more most incels, tbh.

 

[x69]

That would end in a train wreck for more most incels, tbh.

It's still the only way for them to ascend. Short-term mating is something only big framed good-looking males can pull of.

 

[Deleted member 281]

It's still the only way for them to ascend. Short-term mating is something only big framed good-looking males can pull of.

If you still have the "looks" of an incel, meaning if you're ugly, your gf/wife will cheat on you with a chad, plus why would a incel want to enter a ltr and potentially pass on his bad genes? A incel should look to ascend by whatever means possible, but if they can't, they should stick to hookers/escorts. If they need surgery, then again, they shouldn't enter a ltr and consider passing on their genes.

 

[x69]

If you still have the "looks" of an incel, meaning if you're ugly, your gf/wife will cheat on you with a chad, plus why would a incel want to enter a ltr and potentially pass on his bad genes? A incel should look to ascend by whatever means possible, but if they can't, they should stick to hookers/escorts. If they need surgery, then again, they shouldn't enter a ltr and consider passing on their genes.

Nobody thinks like that. Nobody thinks "I am not enough. I shouldn't do anything".
Every male tries to pass on their genes

 

[Deleted member 281]

Every male tries to pass on their genes

Every man tries to have sex with attractive looking women in order to boost his self esteem/ ego and to have fun, most dudes don't want children.

 

[Deleted member 39]

better incel than cuck.

 

[x69]

better incel than cuck.

That's cope.

 

[Deleted member 39]

That's cope.

No it's not. You're just a cuck and apparently you like it

 

[x69]

No it's not. You're just a cuck and apparently you like it

You're just a virgin who likes to rot without doing anything and appearantly you like it.

Cuck doesn't mean anything that isn't chad

 

[Deleted member 39]

You're just a virgin who likes to rot without doing anything and appearantly you like it.

Cuck doesn't mean anything that isn't chad

An ugly guy will be cucked in a relationship.
You just don't understand because you're not ugly.
Incels often absolutely hate women already (I don't). Guess what happens when they get cheated on in a relationship (most likely to happen!).

 

[x69]

An ugly guy will be cucked in a relationship.
You just don't understand because you're not ugly.
Incels often absolutely hate women already (I don't). Guess what happens when they get cheated on in a relationship (most likely to happen!).

Nobody said people weren't getting cucked. Even chad is getting cucked.
It's normal for women to cuck men and let those men kill each other. It's nature.

Just saying that LTR is probably the highest chance for incels (average looking) to ascend.

 

[Deleted member 209]

Having a perfect personality is a must in 2018. As a man, you need to be perfect

 

[Littleboy]

Yes you're right that personality doesn't matter and looks/genetics are the only thing that matter... FOR SHORT-TERM MATING.

For short-term mating you need great genetics (most of the time) or just be really lucky to be at the right place and time but don't count on that.
Great genetics are needed for short-term mating and most of you just don't have it (me neither).

The only chance for most incels is LTR's and you need personality for that.
It's beta yes. But how do you wanna act alpha when everything about you screams beta?


No mockery you just weren't meant to be a Chad-lite/Chad. If you are kind of good-looking you can looksmax your way into Chad-lite territory.

Agreed. Alternatively you could build up multiple LTR's with many different Women. Social Friendmax & then go FWB after getting then to like something about yourself?

Having a perfect personality is a must in 2018. As a man, you need to be perfect

Agreed.

 

[Deleted member 176]

Looks matter for LTR's as well, it’s how they begin.

 

[Deleted member 39]

Nobody said people weren't getting cucked. Even chad is getting cucked.
It's normal for women to cuck men and let those men kill each other. It's nature.

Just saying that LTR is probably the highest chance for incels (average looking) to ascend.

FWB is the highest an incel should go for. Everything else will end in a disaster.

 

[JustChris]

An ugly guy will be cucked in a relationship.
You just don't understand because you're not ugly.
Incels often absolutely hate women already (I don't). Guess what happens when they get cheated on in a relationship (most likely to happen!).

That is true.
But do you know why ugly guys also get cucked? Because they’re boring as fuck. Their « I’m a nice guy » attitude is what drives women away.
Take initiative for once, be enthusiastic and high energy.

You guys have this vision where 99% of women only care about looks, when in reality only sluts care about looks, while attractive women want someone they can count on and be just above average.

 

[Deleted member 176]

But do you know why ugly guys also get cucked? Because they’re boring as fuck. Their « I’m a nice guy » attitude is what drives women away.

No, it’s due to hypergamy.

 

[JustChris]

No, it’s due to hypergamy.

Yeah, keep telling yourself that because we’re still living in the 19th century. JFL

 

[Deleted member 176]

Yeah, keep telling yourself that because we’re still living in the 19th century. JFL

Women always want more. You wouldn’t know because you’ve probably never been mogged, since you’re a Chad.

I can tell you have a good personality.

 

[JustChris]

Women always want more. You wouldn’t know because you’ve probably never been mogged, since you’re a Chad.
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I can tell you have a good personality.

This is the main problem when it comes to people and relationships. They always bring in looks. It has nothing to do with fucking looks. You approach for the looks and you stay for the personality. I dumped so many 8s and 9s because they weren’t even remotely interesting and I would get bored as fuck.

 

[Tricky]

This is the main problem when it comes to people and relationships. They always bring in looks. It has nothing to do with fucking looks. You approach for the looks and you stay for the personality. I dumped so many 8s and 9s because they weren’t even remotely interesting and I would get bored as fuck.

Let's propose that it's true. What about those of us who aren't good looking enough to even reach the phase where personality matters?

 

[JustChris]

This is the main problem when it comes to people and relationships. They always bring in looks. It has nothing to do with fucking looks. You approach for the looks and you stay for the personality. I dumped so many 8s and 9s because they weren’t even remotely interesting and I would get bored as fuck.

Let's propose that it's true. What about those of us who aren't good looking enough to even reach the phase where personality matters?

There is always an instance where a girl will be interested in you. No matter how ugly you are.
But in order for that to happen you need to increase your chances. How do you do that? By going out and talking to people. The more people you meet, the more likely it is for one of them to be interested in you.

I know that every guy dreams about fucking supermodels. But when you’re self conscious about reality, you lower your standards.

 

[Deleted member 39]

That is true.
But do you know why ugly guys also get cucked? Because they’re boring as fuck. Their « I’m a nice guy » attitude is what drives women away.
Take initiative for once, be enthusiastic and high energy.

You guys have this vision where 99% of women only care about looks, when in reality only sluts care about looks, while attractive women want someone they can count on and be just above average.

You're bluepilled as fuck. Wanna know why you're bluepilled? Because you're a chad. You can't understand the blackpill because you'll never experience all that, so I can't hate you for that.

By the way, when an ugly guy is high energy he's seen as a clown.

 

[JustChris]

You're bluepilled as fuck. Wanna know why you're bluepilled? Because you're a chad. You can't understand the blackpill because you'll never experience all that, so I can't hate you for that.

By the way, when an ugly guy is high energy he's seen as a clown.

There’s high energy and then there’s HIGH ENERGY. It’s like everything in life. You have to do it with moderation. Too much is not good, and not enough is not good either.

 

[Deleted member 281]

There is always an instance where a girl will be interested in you. No matter how ugly you are

 

[Deleted member 39]

There’s high energy and then there’s HIGH ENERGY. It’s like everything in life. You have to do it with moderation. Too much is not good, and not enough is not good either.

It doesn't matter.
When a chad is low energy, he's seen as a laid back, calm and chill guy.
When a chad is high energy, he's seen as that charismatic guy.

It really doesn't matter.

 

[Deleted member 176]

There is always an instance where a girl will be interested in you. No matter how ugly you are.

You really don’t belong here, you’re too bluepilled. Go to Reddit or something.

 

[JustChris]

It doesn't matter.
When a chad is low energy, he's seen as a laid back, calm and chill guy.
When a chad is high energy, he's seen as that charismatic guy.

It really doesn't matter.

Any personal experience to back up that claim?

 

[Deleted member 281]

Any personal experience to back up that claim?

Look dude, what you fail to understand is, 5 seconds after a girl looks at you, she knows whether she will spread her legs for you or not, doesn't matter how good your personality is if you're ugly, if she likes your personality you can still be friends but she will never want to fuck.

 

[JustChris]

Look dude, what you fail to understand is, 5 seconds after a girl looks at you, she knows whether she will spread her legs for you or not, doesn't matter how good your personality is if you're ugly, if she likes your personality you can still be friends but she will never want to fuck.

That I agree on. But saying that average guys can’t get girls is a load of crap. Otherwise this world would be made out of supermodels couples

 

[Deleted member 281]

But saying that average guys can’t get girls is a load of crap

They can, although they will have a harder time compared to gl men. If a average dude who is a 5, has a gf, who has a 9 psl male model looking dude interested in her, chances are, 9.9 times out of 10 she will cheat regardless of the dude's personality, doesn't matter if he is boring/interesting, low/high energy, funny etc.

 

[Oak]

Yes you're right that personality doesn't matter and looks/genetics are the only thing that matter... FOR SHORT-TERM MATING.

For short-term mating you need great genetics (most of the time) or just be really lucky to be at the right place and time but don't count on that.
Great genetics are needed for short-term mating and most of you just don't have it (me neither).

The only chance for most incels is LTR's and you need personality for that.
It's beta yes. But how do you wanna act alpha when everything about you screams beta?


No mockery you just weren't meant to be a Chad-lite/Chad. If you are kind of good-looking you can looksmax your way into Chad-lite territory.

Tbh I'd rather stay alone than be some girl's emotional support, knowing she'd never look at me like she looked at the dudes she let fuck her first night they met. The thought would eat me inside out.

Shit genetics or not, gotta have a little self respect.

 

[Deleted member 281]

Tbh I'd rather stay alone than be some girl's emotional support, knowing she' never look at me like she looked at the dudes she let fucm her first night they met. The thought would eat me inside out.

Shit genetics or not, gotta have a little self respect.

^^

 

[averageblokecel]

Tbh I'd rather stay alone than be some girl's emotional support, knowing she'd never look at me like she looked at the dudes she let fuck her first night they met. The thought would eat me inside out.

Shit genetics or not, gotta have a little self respect.

Everytime I see based comments like these I gain a lilttle bit of faith in this forum again

 

[Dude420]

For long-term mating value (where looks indeed is less important (but still of great value)) what becomes the most important is your ability to provide and your willingness to invest in her/offspring, that manifests itself in your wealth and continuous display of your love/attention/investment in her, not personality. lmfao.

For the little it is worth, personality tends actually more towards potentially increasing your short-term SMV, if you have good social skills and a strong sense of humor, you are displaying a high level of social/emotional intelligence which is an indicator of good genes, genes that she would like to pass on to her offspring.

Who do you think women took as long-term mate in ancestral time, the brute jerk alpha leader of the pack or the nice and funny skinny subhuman. She won't give a single fuck about the subhuman.

You guys are newbies when it comes to evolutionary concepts here.

 

[Weishaupt]

To to get into a LTR with a girl you have to talk to her first and let her you know you're interested. And if you're ugly and your genetics are shit, she won't talk to you in the first place.
LMAO

The only LTR where personality matters is the relationship with sex once a year or never where girls are using you for money.

I'd rather ldar then have someone take my money and act like the reason she's with me is because of my looks LOL, how beta

 

[JustChris]

They can, although they will have a harder time compared to gl men. If a average dude who is a 5, has a gf, who has a 9 psl male model looking dude interested in her, chances are, 9.9 times out of 10 she will cheat regardless of the dude's personality, doesn't matter if he is boring/interesting, low/high energy, funny etc.

I don’t know what age range you’re going out with, but the majority of women prefer being honest when it comes to sex. They’ll break up with the guy in question before sleeping with another dude.
And it’s proven with studies that men cheat a lot more than women.

 

[Deleted member 281]

I don’t know what age range you’re going out with, but the majority of women prefer being honest when it comes to sex. They’ll break up with the guy in question before sleeping with another dude.
And it’s proven with studies that men cheat a lot more than women.

No, women are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on the next one.

I don’t know what age range you’re going out with, but the majority of women prefer being honest when it comes to sex. They’ll break up with the guy in question before sleeping with another dude.
And it’s proven with studies that men cheat a lot more than women.

Iv dealt with teens only since i'm 18. How old are you?

 

[JustChris]

No, women are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on the next one.

Iv dealt with teens only since i'm 18. How old are you?

Oooooh, that explains everything.
We’re not playing in the same field, so yes, I might understand your point of view better now.

 

[Afrikancel]

betabuxxing doesnt appeal to me.


As a user said already, better incel than cuck