loseratgenes
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First highER quality post, kinda nervous. I am not american native, so my english wording is bad. Good luck reading this abomination. Do not nominate this for BOTB, this post is an embarrassment for my grammar.
Introduction
Personality is cope for one good reason. Hypergamy. There's plenty of proof of this everywhere around you. Women don't date a 5'3 LTN with a "good personality" unless they're 4'11 Sub5 becky themselves and are settling.
Here's an example of a manlet getting brutally rejected by a tall-ish woman.
Absolutely brutal. Yes I use tiktok as a source because I am a tiktokcel.
Why it's practically over for anyone that's not at least 6'0
There was a published statistic for some dating app that showed women's preferences for men's height. Also brutal - anyone under the 6' territory got filtered out.
By consulting the chart you'll see that a much larger set of women filter out anyone that is <6'0, with there being a minor bump going from 5'9 to 5'11.
This proves that personality is not sought after in most situations, and height is more preferred among women. A good personality won't bring you anywhere, and at the very best you'll just get lolcowed.
Debunking claims that "personality is above all, height is second"
Biologically, women are programmed to prefer men with taller bodies, more defined frames or overall stronger bodies. Because the hunter-prey hierarchy still applies even today, nothing's really changed. If you're short, weak, fat and recessed - biologically women are designed to avoid you.
We also know that women are better manipulators than men, hence my earlier mention of "lolcows". If a woman has decided that there's not much to get from a weak manlet (aka. "can't get healthy offspring from him"), she can use tactics to take advantage of said man to use him. She achieves that by dangling the taste of love in front of him, which a short manlet is likely to get attached to. Once she gets what she wants she drops you and moves on to Chad.
According to some research (too lazy to cite), biologically the only real "personality" part that matters in men is either being a psychopath or not, as humans do feel uneasy around psychopaths. A psychopath by definition is able to understand emotions but unable to actually feel emotions, and this is really the only thing that nudges anyone toward saying "oooh personality is above all". Since psychopaths are maybe 0.1% of the population, it doesn't really matter since statistically every man a woman meets is unlikely to be a psychopath anyway, thus tossing the personality theory out of the window.
The last section: Why it's cope
There are tens of thousands of men, if not millions, that genuinely have recognized the heightpill in real life (e.g: them being ignored because they're essentially looking like a toy to a taller woman) and now have to convince themselves that height is not a deciding factor in getting a partner (it absolutely is) and that personality matters (99.99% of cases it doesn't)
The reality is: a woman is physically and mentally unable to fall in love with you if you're a coping manlet.
The only case where personality matters is where a woman settles. She's maybe 35, ugly, wrinkled up, she's underway to getting menopause, and the biological factors in her (hormones) stop telling her brain to prefer extremely tall men and to widen the market for her since she's getting desperate. Again - biologically, younger women tend to go for much taller and stronger men because their ovulation and hormones are on fire and basically BEGGING for healthy and strong offspring. Older women stop getting periods, therefore no ovulations, and the thinking shifts from the vagina to the brain. Only then do they start thinking "Maybe I should give the 5'8 Joe a chance, because my egg timer is already ticking up and I can't bag any taller men, so to maximize the chances of my bloodline continuing, I must settle with worse."
And that's exactly why people like 5'8 Joe exist. The short men are always eager for any action, and when women start settling, they immediately take the chance, thus creating yet another short, ugly, recessed failure, and birthing it upon this Earth. The older woman creates a version of a man that he'd never date. The loop never ends.
BONUS: How to recognize if you're being lolcowed
(formatted on a phone)
Those who saw the first failed post - stop, it was not funny. I fatfingered the post button.
Introduction
Personality is cope for one good reason. Hypergamy. There's plenty of proof of this everywhere around you. Women don't date a 5'3 LTN with a "good personality" unless they're 4'11 Sub5 becky themselves and are settling.
Here's an example of a manlet getting brutally rejected by a tall-ish woman.
Absolutely brutal. Yes I use tiktok as a source because I am a tiktokcel.
Why it's practically over for anyone that's not at least 6'0
There was a published statistic for some dating app that showed women's preferences for men's height. Also brutal - anyone under the 6' territory got filtered out.
By consulting the chart you'll see that a much larger set of women filter out anyone that is <6'0, with there being a minor bump going from 5'9 to 5'11.
This proves that personality is not sought after in most situations, and height is more preferred among women. A good personality won't bring you anywhere, and at the very best you'll just get lolcowed.
Debunking claims that "personality is above all, height is second"
Biologically, women are programmed to prefer men with taller bodies, more defined frames or overall stronger bodies. Because the hunter-prey hierarchy still applies even today, nothing's really changed. If you're short, weak, fat and recessed - biologically women are designed to avoid you.
We also know that women are better manipulators than men, hence my earlier mention of "lolcows". If a woman has decided that there's not much to get from a weak manlet (aka. "can't get healthy offspring from him"), she can use tactics to take advantage of said man to use him. She achieves that by dangling the taste of love in front of him, which a short manlet is likely to get attached to. Once she gets what she wants she drops you and moves on to Chad.
According to some research (too lazy to cite), biologically the only real "personality" part that matters in men is either being a psychopath or not, as humans do feel uneasy around psychopaths. A psychopath by definition is able to understand emotions but unable to actually feel emotions, and this is really the only thing that nudges anyone toward saying "oooh personality is above all". Since psychopaths are maybe 0.1% of the population, it doesn't really matter since statistically every man a woman meets is unlikely to be a psychopath anyway, thus tossing the personality theory out of the window.
The last section: Why it's cope
There are tens of thousands of men, if not millions, that genuinely have recognized the heightpill in real life (e.g: them being ignored because they're essentially looking like a toy to a taller woman) and now have to convince themselves that height is not a deciding factor in getting a partner (it absolutely is) and that personality matters (99.99% of cases it doesn't)
The reality is: a woman is physically and mentally unable to fall in love with you if you're a coping manlet.
The only case where personality matters is where a woman settles. She's maybe 35, ugly, wrinkled up, she's underway to getting menopause, and the biological factors in her (hormones) stop telling her brain to prefer extremely tall men and to widen the market for her since she's getting desperate. Again - biologically, younger women tend to go for much taller and stronger men because their ovulation and hormones are on fire and basically BEGGING for healthy and strong offspring. Older women stop getting periods, therefore no ovulations, and the thinking shifts from the vagina to the brain. Only then do they start thinking "Maybe I should give the 5'8 Joe a chance, because my egg timer is already ticking up and I can't bag any taller men, so to maximize the chances of my bloodline continuing, I must settle with worse."
And that's exactly why people like 5'8 Joe exist. The short men are always eager for any action, and when women start settling, they immediately take the chance, thus creating yet another short, ugly, recessed failure, and birthing it upon this Earth. The older woman creates a version of a man that he'd never date. The loop never ends.
BONUS: How to recognize if you're being lolcowed
I've noticed a lot of people on this forum asking "Why is she being like this" or "why does she sometimes give me attention?" – you're most likely getting lolcowed.
Definition of "lolcow"
A lolcow is a weak man who is being actively targeted by a woman, and get's deceived with signals of "love" in exchange for time, info or work. To sum it up for the IQcels that didn't understand my highly advanced grammar - a man that gets fooled by a woman that shows fake love in return for something and to get blocked later.
How to know if you're a lolcow
Someone is giving you attention in return for something? Someone pressures info from you while dangling love in front of your face? Someone is literally using you because you think you can pursue a romantic relationship? Congratulations, you're a lolcow. You're essentially an idiot that clings on just because she gave you a cute little smile or complimented you.
How to stop being a lolcow
For the incels starved of love that seem to keep sticking on to the woman actively lolcowing them - here's how to stop.
Block her. You already know it's no good for you and you'll get nothing back. If you block her, you'll maybe feel the "oohhhh but I was this close to getting her" temporarily, but over time you'll realize you freed yourself from embarrassment and a waste of time. If you don't block her.. good luck, idiot.
Definition of "lolcow"
A lolcow is a weak man who is being actively targeted by a woman, and get's deceived with signals of "love" in exchange for time, info or work. To sum it up for the IQcels that didn't understand my highly advanced grammar - a man that gets fooled by a woman that shows fake love in return for something and to get blocked later.
How to know if you're a lolcow
Someone is giving you attention in return for something? Someone pressures info from you while dangling love in front of your face? Someone is literally using you because you think you can pursue a romantic relationship? Congratulations, you're a lolcow. You're essentially an idiot that clings on just because she gave you a cute little smile or complimented you.
How to stop being a lolcow
For the incels starved of love that seem to keep sticking on to the woman actively lolcowing them - here's how to stop.
Block her. You already know it's no good for you and you'll get nothing back. If you block her, you'll maybe feel the "oohhhh but I was this close to getting her" temporarily, but over time you'll realize you freed yourself from embarrassment and a waste of time. If you don't block her.. good luck, idiot.
(formatted on a phone)
Those who saw the first failed post - stop, it was not funny. I fatfingered the post button.
