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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

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Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

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He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
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However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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They do want

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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

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Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

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He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
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However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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They do want

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Will read latr I skim through it tho
 
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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

View attachment 4171382

Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

View attachment 4171372



He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
View attachment 4171400
However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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They do want

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He only looks autistic in modeling shoots. He has insane JB appeal when he's not giving the thousand-yard stare.

 
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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

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Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

View attachment 4171372



He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
View attachment 4171400
However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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View attachment 4171373

View attachment 4171379

View attachment 4171378

They do want

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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

View attachment 4171382

Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

View attachment 4171372



He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
View attachment 4171400
However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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View attachment 4171373

View attachment 4171379

View attachment 4171378

They do want

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View attachment 4171381

View attachment 4171380

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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

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Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

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He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
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However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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@HighIQ ubermensch @unon @MaracasMogs @Orc

"they dont want good looks but they do want good looks" lol. ill still bump it for you.
 
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"they dont want good looks but they do want good looks" lol. ill still bump it for you.
Thanks but I meant that neurotypicality is as important as looks
 
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"they dont want good looks but they do want good looks" lol. ill still bump it for you.
Also the title is more clickbait :forcedsmile:
 
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Thanks but I meant that neurotypicality is as important as looks
i wouldnt say so. 3/10 NT ness + 7/10 looks > 7/10 NT ness + 3/10 looks.
 
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Personality is relevant for a long-term relationship only. Looks are relevant for a short-term relationship and the immediate of a long-term relationship.
If I was ugly, my girlfriend would not have ever messaged me after we had class together.
Need not debate this, anybody with half a brain should know this.
 
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Mirin the effort!!:LOL:
 
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dnr yet but amen to the title
 
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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

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Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

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He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
View attachment 4171400
However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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They do want

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@HighIQ ubermensch @unon @MaracasMogs @Orc

I mean being NT mostly matters on your development in childhood. if you were ugly from the start, it's over already..
 
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My old customer title used to be: "Extraversion = the #1 predictor of sexual success"

I stand by it, though you could expand it to say ND is the biggest predictor of lack of sexual success

People like to claim that manletism or being baldcel or recessed are the biggest death sentences when it comes to dating, however men with such failos are more likely to have had some success with women in their lives than not so long as they're NT

There is no single physical failo that truly serves as a death sentence because I always see guys who have one of those failos with foids

I worked in a hotel one night where abomination tier lower class whites were staying and they pretty much all had a foid to fuck who I'd be able to fuck myself
What did all these subhumans have in common? They were all NT

The only true death sentence is being ND because the traits required to overcome it are so extreme and rare that you become barely statistically relevant
 
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It’s a well known fact that almost all normies when you ask them ‘how do I get laid’ or ‘how do I get a girlfriend’ they will say ‘just be confident bro’ or ‘have a good personality’ but how true is this really? and does this saying actually hold any weight in the real world?

What I would define as personality is probably not how normies would define it. I’d say there are 2 main parts
  1. neurotypicality
  2. Inhibition
These parts make up your personality and actually have an effect on your dating life. Not normie cope of just ‘being nice’ etc.

Now let’s start with neurotypicality I would define this as how autistic you act/ are perceived. This is influenced by many factors but mostly by brain chemistry and social interactions. Generally speaking almost everyone in this site are on the spectrum or somewhat neurodivergent.

The worst thing about neurotypicality is it’s almost impossible to change, even with drugs. This is because as stated earlier it’s influenced by social factors and people like you and me probably didn’t socialize enough to be neurotypical and are left somewhat socially underdeveloped.

Now why should this concern you?

Well Neurotypicality is as much of a dating indicator as attractiveness and height!

Even in your personal life I think you can think of a lot of examples of ugly people slaying due to just being ‘popular’ even though you mog them.

Now as for statistics at the age of 38, 44.6% of autistic men were virgins as opposed to 0% of NT men.

Now you may say that this was a self report and holds no truth. Even if you were somewhat right it’s too much of a percentage difference to really have any effect on the general results (for example the real numbers might be closer to a 30% difference but even still it’s a huge difference)


To reinforce my point in another study it shows that 60% of autistic people had no form of sexual experience compared to only 18% of NT people. Obviously both these studies are slightly worse case of neurodivergence than people here but they still have a lot of merit.


Now compared to height which shows a far smaller difference of sexual success between heights. Again you can argue that they could have lied etc. But the difference is so large it wouldn’t really change this theory


In addition the correlation of sexual partners and attractiveness is very closely related however it seems that neurotypicality is even more of a correlation.


However due to how the attractiveness studies are done (eg that won’t accurately rate people and someone who might be called ‘attractive’ is a 4.5 psl but someone in the same category as ‘attractive’ is a 5.5 psl if you get what I mean). I would conclude that neurotypicality would hold a similar weight in terms of dating to attractiveness and maybe more for LTR (and probably attractiveness holding more weight for ONS)

Now Inhibition.

Inhibition generally refers to your anxiety levels or how extroverted and introverted you are. Low inhibition means you are extroverted and reckless, and high inhibition means you’re introverted and timid. Though there is some hope for high inhibcels as drugs are a very effective remedy to this problem as inhibition is more due to brain chemistry rather than social interaction (even though it does have a small effect).

Now why should this concern you?

A study shows a key correlation between introversion and lower sexual partners and higher extroversion having higher amount of sexual partners.


However these correlations aren’t to the same extent as something like attractiveness but more comparable to height

In addition higher risk taking and lower inhibition results in more sexual partners. This backs up the prior claim showing that risk taking/ inhibition will have a similar effect to sexual partners as height but not quite to the same effect as looks and neurotypicality


As said before inhibition can be easily fixed with certain drugs however how worth it would it be for someone with high inhibition and high levels of neurodivergence to take them?

Well the lower your inhibition the more apparent your autism will be due to the fact you’ll probably talk a lot about non socially acceptable topics. So this needs to be thought about before taking drugs that will lower your inhibition, whether it would be worth the failo of being seen as more neurodivergent for the halo of being more low inhib. Obviously it goes without saying if you are NT and high inhib you should 100% take drugs to lower your inhibition.

Now I will talk about a couple of anecdotes/ anecdotal evidence to prove just how important neurotypicality and inhibition are.

i think it’s quite common knowledge here that David Gandy was a virgin until 21 due to being as he puts it ‘a social loner’. Even though he is a 6’3 giga Chad he was still a virgin due to being ND (tbf he has stated he has said that he was fat for most of his childhood so that could be a factor)

View attachment 4171382

Another example is Sean O’pry who has stated he was a virgin until 24 and was rejected to prom. And didn’t even go to parties until he was 18.

View attachment 4171372



He is another example of a giga Chad that loses out to the NT pill.

An example closer to .org is @Clavicular . People here used to clown him for dating a below average foid who he obviously facially mogs by quite a large margin (even if you don’t like him you have to admit this to be true).
View attachment 4171400
However unknown to the average low iq greycel here there were actually looksmatched due to the fact that she wasn’t an autist and clav (and you and I) are. And to add fuel to the fire she breaks up with him. Years of looksmaxxing and you still won’t be able to beat the NT pill. It truly shows the true brutality of the NTpill.

Conclusion

Personality (in terms of inhibition and neurotypicality) is as important as looks and height. And probably significantly more important for LTR. This thread shows that foids are even more hypergamous than you thought. They don’t just want a tall and attractive guy. But a tall, jacked, neurotypical, extroverted, popular and attractive guy.

They don’t want

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They do want

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@HighIQ ubermensch @unon @MaracasMogs @Orc

u cannot explain it better than in this thread like actually ur persona matters in ALL Social events even on an family gathering...
I am autistic myself (my diagnosis is like a weak version of autism) and it's not hard at all to get over the NT pill when you are not that deep in th NT pill. Just act like you act and change your attitude from the reactions from the other. BE YOUR OWN PERSONA BUT STILL APROACHABLE
 
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Good thread but almost everyone on this site is neurotypical, they just don’t have good enough social skills.
 
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what's your current understanding of those two aspects - neurotypicality and inhibition in the context of dating/social interactions? i think it's definitely true that confidence and personality play a huge role...but you also have to consider things like physical attributes too.
 
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Very good thread! The way your brain works affects your body language and vibe and how people will react/perceive you.

I remember back in high school a "friend" of mine recorded a video of the two of us walking at the school, but what caugh my attention was my body language and vibe: my eyes looked tired, always on alert... and I'm pretty sure that was the vibe I gave to people.

Brutal.
 
personality doesn't matter unless you pass the looks filter first. sure being nt is important but what use is there if your foot isn't even in the door yet?
 
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bookmarking this in case the search function goes down again.

How much do you think being nonchalant contributes to your percieved NT levels
 
bookmarking this in case the search function goes down again.

How much do you think being nonchalant contributes to your percieved NT levels
Not much it’s more about micro expressions and body language
 
Sean O Pry is a bad example as he's fake and bluepilled liar
 
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And what you say like if it’s socially acceptable or not
lmao bruh RIP i actually have good body language, i just be willing to talk about whatever, i even showed people face&lms videos before

It was mad funny when some hoes at this one party made fun of me for having never seen a Friday the 13th movie, because it really drove home the point that I don't consume any content that people would normally relate to or interact with.

me when the convo isn't about lifting or drinking
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