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Sure it's more fun for her to like a guy her own age but it's not ideal and is having potential catastrophe results
Moon," "Spoon," "June," "Falling in love," and "The stars above," have been synonymous with the worldwide romantic view of marriage.
But in fact, psychologists have been seriously examining the possible damage to human relationships that the concept of "romantic love" presents. It is indisputable that good marriages are built on faith, loyalty and trusts. That a deep and abiding love between two people does not necessarily have anything to do with heart-palpitating "romantic" love.
Young girls, in particular, are inundated with the notion that sexual ecstasy and marriage are synonymous. Consequently, many adolescent women hasten to marry their first sexually exciting lover without regard for the fact that "romantic" love invariably lessens with the continued proximity of two partners in a marriage. This disappointment, the realization that their marriage partner no longer "makes their knees tremble" or "sends their heart soaring," is the primary reason for the high divorce rate throughout the world.
It further complicates, the issue that, in the adolescent courting days, boys are primarily physically anxious for sex while girls are emotionally anxious to form a meaningful relationship. Young dating couples are usually, unfortunately, working at cross-purposes.
Should the "romantic" notion of love be lost to adolescent girls and the undeniable sexual needs of adolescent boys be tempered so they are able to sexually please the girls they desire to have intercourse with, it is generally acknowledged that future marital relationships between these same young people would stand a much greater chance of success.
Moon," "Spoon," "June," "Falling in love," and "The stars above," have been synonymous with the worldwide romantic view of marriage.
But in fact, psychologists have been seriously examining the possible damage to human relationships that the concept of "romantic love" presents. It is indisputable that good marriages are built on faith, loyalty and trusts. That a deep and abiding love between two people does not necessarily have anything to do with heart-palpitating "romantic" love.
Young girls, in particular, are inundated with the notion that sexual ecstasy and marriage are synonymous. Consequently, many adolescent women hasten to marry their first sexually exciting lover without regard for the fact that "romantic" love invariably lessens with the continued proximity of two partners in a marriage. This disappointment, the realization that their marriage partner no longer "makes their knees tremble" or "sends their heart soaring," is the primary reason for the high divorce rate throughout the world.
It further complicates, the issue that, in the adolescent courting days, boys are primarily physically anxious for sex while girls are emotionally anxious to form a meaningful relationship. Young dating couples are usually, unfortunately, working at cross-purposes.
Should the "romantic" notion of love be lost to adolescent girls and the undeniable sexual needs of adolescent boys be tempered so they are able to sexually please the girls they desire to have intercourse with, it is generally acknowledged that future marital relationships between these same young people would stand a much greater chance of success.