Jason Voorhees
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To put it simply adult life absolutely sucks balls. it's nothing like in university where you are in close proximity to each other. Everyone stacked in the same buildings, same classes, same shitty parties. proximity carries, even if you were below average you still had shots just from being around.
Everything gets significantly harder after uni. work. commute. empty flat. repeat. This is the perpetual life cycle that millions of people get stuck in. Friends scatter. group chats die and evrything becomes significantly harder
The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.
Im not saying it's impossible to live a normal life once you missed out on the milestone. Heck I had my first gf at 21 and still have my friends group from my uni that I regularly talk to but I missed out on a lot of things as a teenager and played catch up for years trying to fill the void.
But after a certain point the loss of organic social circles makes evrything harder. You will have to put concious effort every time. The window does not slam shut it simply closes more tightly with every year of continued isolation.
And all this is true and I haven't even begun to talk about the decline of looks since you nighas already know that better than me. The agepill is hard to swallow because it is not a dramatic catastrophe. It is the slow, quiet burn that for anyone who fails to force movement
Everything gets significantly harder after uni. work. commute. empty flat. repeat. This is the perpetual life cycle that millions of people get stuck in. Friends scatter. group chats die and evrything becomes significantly harder
The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.
Im not saying it's impossible to live a normal life once you missed out on the milestone. Heck I had my first gf at 21 and still have my friends group from my uni that I regularly talk to but I missed out on a lot of things as a teenager and played catch up for years trying to fill the void.
But after a certain point the loss of organic social circles makes evrything harder. You will have to put concious effort every time. The window does not slam shut it simply closes more tightly with every year of continued isolation.
And all this is true and I haven't even begun to talk about the decline of looks since you nighas already know that better than me. The agepill is hard to swallow because it is not a dramatic catastrophe. It is the slow, quiet burn that for anyone who fails to force movement
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