Why the fuck do girls do this shit?

This happens all the time, girls show enthusiasm like tons then flake 45 min before a date and dont even tell u, until U are the one confirming. Girls are all flakes and do stuff that makes no sense.

It is what it is, it's a numbers game dawg. Until a girl is literally there in person choking on ur cock assume they are gunna never meet u or have any intention to do so either

This is the truth... women are incapable of logical thought and their emotions run them into the ground which is why we see so many spinsters in this generation. For example, I was dating a girl I met online before I left to have my bimax in Italy and things were going perfect. After the surgery the texting from her decreases and I know she is losing interest... when I get back we go to dinner and I can tell she isn't that interested anymore so a few days later she breaks it off via text. The thing is I had a feeling before I left that it would happen so it didn't surprise me at all, when she broke things off via text she was shocked that I didn't get mad.

Just remember comrades, it IS more difficult to get women nowadays but you also don't have to get stuck with them when they are old. It's essentially a double edged sword.
 
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Alright I'm about to rope. Literally spent 4+ hours on dating apps today and contacted 100+ women. Not a single one was down to meet. So many close calls and last second "actually can't make it today". I even tried the ugly ones.

Time to watch some porn and jerk off like a fucking loser. Hope I die in my sleep
 
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Maybe she found out you weren't real?
 
Online dating in 2020

Dating2020



Maybe she found out you weren't real?

Bruh I'm real
 
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Op is lifefuel for everyone here
 
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We discussed this on Skype did we not?

You either need to phrase your request differently or play the slightly longer game - by asking for a drink that early it telegraphs neediness, in my view.
 
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We discussed this on Skype did we not?

You either need to phrase your request differently or play the slightly longer game - by asking for a drink that early it telegraphs neediness, in my view.

I am not convinced. Longer game is more investment on my part for a chance to get rejected. Sometimes I have a good discussion/vibe, then ask them to come over, and they say "I don't know you tee-hee". It's just not worth it
 
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Bitches will use guys for temporary attention when they got no one else to text at the moment

brutal
 
Today's failure: cute Tinder Japanese girl. Told her to come over, she pushed back a bit, we met outside. She couldn't speak English so we used a bit of Google translate. Seemed receptive to kino. She was thin, short. Came back to mine without hesitation. We had tea. I tried escalating. Kiss rejected.

Tried 2-3 more times over the course of 30 minutes, she kept saying "I don't know you". I shrugged and started doing shit on my phone, she put on her coat and left.

I want to fucking die. JBW is bullshit. Not even a tiny Japanese girl feels attracted enough. Couldn't even build more rapport as she couldn't fucking speak English. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
 
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I am not convinced. Longer game is more investment on my part for a chance to get rejected. Sometimes I have a good discussion/vibe, then ask them to come over, and they say "I don't know you tee-hee". It's just not worth it
Agreed. Stop coping with longer game, building a connection blah blah blah

Either the bitch likes you or not.
So no point in wasting your time and entertain those stupid monkeys
 
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I want to fucking die. JBW is bullshit. Not even a tiny Japanese girl feels attracted enough. Couldn't even build more rapport as she couldn't fucking speak English. What the fuck am I supposed to do
JBW applies to more pretty boy white boys

You don't have much appeal with your beard
 
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Today's failure: cute Tinder Japanese girl. Told her to come over, she pushed back a bit, we met outside. She couldn't speak English so we used a bit of Google translate. Seemed receptive to kino. She was thin, short. Came back to mine without hesitation. We had tea. I tried escalating. Kiss rejected.

Tried 2-3 more times over the course of 30 minutes, she kept saying "I don't know you". I shrugged and started doing shit on my phone, she put on her coat and left.

I want to fucking die. JBW is bullshit. Not even a tiny Japanese girl feels attracted enough. Couldn't even build more rapport as she couldn't fucking speak English. What the fuck am I supposed to do?

Because you are 5'6 and low tier normie max.
 
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JBW applies to more pretty boy white boys

You don't have much appeal with your beard

Beard hides the lack of chin and jawline, so unfortunately it needs to stay
 
Because you are 5'6 and low tier normie max.

Honestly I am happier knowing that is the real reason rather than mulling over "what did I do wrong? what could I have done better? should I have said anything else?"
 
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The thing I don't understand: why would she even bother going home with me if she doesn't even feel like kissing me?

In Japanese culture, they are not assertive at all. She may have felt it was not polite to flake you on the spot... so went through the length of going back to your place.
 
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Today's failure: cute Tinder Japanese girl. Told her to come over, she pushed back a bit, we met outside. She couldn't speak English so we used a bit of Google translate. Seemed receptive to kino. She was thin, short. Came back to mine without hesitation. We had tea. I tried escalating. Kiss rejected.

Tried 2-3 more times over the course of 30 minutes, she kept saying "I don't know you". I shrugged and started doing shit on my phone, she put on her coat and left.

I want to fucking die. JBW is bullshit. Not even a tiny Japanese girl feels attracted enough. Couldn't even build more rapport as she couldn't fucking speak English. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
why did she come to your place if she wasn't ready for sex?
 
why did she come to your place if she wasn't ready for sex?

Beats me. She also knew it was on the table as I immediately pushed for a hookup on Tinder, and only reverted to briefly meeting outside after she pushed back a bit.
 
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Beats me.
i had a similar experience with a korean girl but turned it towards sex in the end, just took a bit longer since they all act mega robotic and autistic
 
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i had a similar experience with a korean girl but turned it towards sex in the end, just took a bit longer since they all act mega robotic and autistic

I've had a few like this. Usually pushing back a bit, waiting, and trying again is enough to get her going.

One girl in particular I remember: she was completely cold and rejected a kiss twice. Then I kissed her neck and she literally jumped on me. Some girls have triggers like that. I kissed the Japanese hoe's neck but that didn't work with her.

Any technique that worked well for you worth sharing?
 
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Literally the same shit happened to me. Worst is she was the one wanting to talk, she was the one who wanted to hang out as well. She even messaged me first ffs. So we had a good conversation, we get along, have similar hobbies and interests, and we talked alot, and we said good night to each other and said we’ll talk again tomorrow. What do I wake up to? Blocked, unmatched. This has happened several times to me as well. Fuck man
Virtual signaling on maxxxxx
 
I've had a few like this. Usually pushing back a bit, waiting, and trying again is enough to get her going.

One girl in particular I remember: she was completely cold and rejected a kiss twice. Then I kissed her neck and she literally jumped on me. Some girls have triggers like that. I kissed the Japanese hoe's neck but that didn't work with her.

Any technique that worked well for you worth sharing?
especially with non-westernized asians that are on business-/travel-trips in europe you have to play it real slow from what i've experienced
some don't give you any IOIs during the date and aren't receptive to dirty talk.

so what i do is just sit on the couch with them with a good distance between each other keep talking and slowly start to go through their hair while talking and getting away from the more robotic/small-talk shit they are used to

and most of the times things start from there, she will come closer to you, start touching your face etc. and then you can go for the kiss etc.


if you ever meet one of those traveling asian girls again, ask her where she's been so far in europe and talking about racist stuff is like a golden ticket to crack her up, they are filled with stereotypes since their home countries are so ethnically homogenous
 
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also dimming the lights is a good idea.
they aren't the most confident with their thin bodies, and are raised in a more conservative society where getting nude and jumping on the dick of a guy isn't as much celebrated as it is here, so they are more shy than western girls i know
 
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Jfl imagine trying to get a girl if you aren't psl 6-7, waste of energy, time, and sometimes even more money than you'd expect. So much easier to just pay a whore.
 
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Jfl imagine trying to get a girl if you aren't psl 6-7, waste of energy, time, and sometimes even more money than you'd expect. So much easier to just pay a whore.

My N-count is 35
 
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My N-count is 35
What does that have to do with what I said? I'm saying it's easier to just pay a whore. People who do tinder game and try to fuck whores who give them hassle do it for an ego boost. In fact what you just said proves my point exactly, "My n count is 35" you're simply feeding into your ego.
 
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Jfl imagine trying to get a girl if you aren't psl 6-7, waste of energy, time, and sometimes even more money than you'd expect. So much easier to just pay a whore.
jfl if you rather rot or pay hookers than fuck your looksmatch. even if you get every surgery in the book you will come out beyond autistic if you didn't interact and fuck girls in the meantime

you'll be a @Chad1212 who's a 7-8/10 and to autistic to utilize it
 
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jfl if you rather rot or pay hookers than fuck your looksmatch. even if you get every surgery in the book you will come out beyond autistic if you didn't interact and fuck girls in the meantime

you'll be a @Chad1212 who's a 7-8/10 and to autistic to utilize it

Bro, I'm just here to softmax, I'm not hardmaxxing. I'm mostly here because it's entertaining as hell. Why would I fucking waste thousands of dollars to just fuck random whores on tinder for an ego boost? Whores who probably will flake on me. I can just pay a big booty Latina 40 or 60 dollars and fuck her how I want.
 
What does that have to do with what I said? I'm saying it's easier to just pay a whore. People who do tinder game and try to fuck whores who give them hassle do it for an ego boost. In fact what you just said proves my point exactly, "My n count is 35" you're simply feeding into your ego.

No, you're missing the point. The validation you get from turning a girl on and seeing her truly excited to fuck you is something that you could never buy with money.

I'd rather fuck a flashlight than a whore.
 
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No, you're missing the point. The validation you get from turning a girl on and seeing her truly excited to fuck you is something that you could never buy with money.

I'd rather fuck a flashlight than a whore.

I don't get validation from sexually pleasing a girl. It's just a lose situation for me , spending so much time just to get validated by some slut.
 
See this is why jestermaxxing on Tinder and other apps is cringe and bluepilled.
 
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I don't get validation from sexually pleasing a girl. It's just a lose situation for me , spending so much time just to get validated by some slut.
it developes your social skills more than it is about the validation you get.
 
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it developes your social skills more than it is about the validation you get.
Social skills? I can just get that from normally talking to people.
 
Social skills? I can just get that from normally talking to people.
bro it‘s pathetic if you are a grown man and can‘t flirt with girls

talking to friends/collegues is something completely different
 
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bro it‘s pathetic if you are a grown man and can‘t flirt with girls

It's not, there's much more to life than flirting with women. I've never flirted with a girl IRL in my life and I'm doing just fine. I'm catching that bag.
 
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It's not, there's much more to life than flirting with women. I've never flirted with a girl IRL in my life and I'm doing just fine. I'm catching that bag.
what‘s your long time plan? mgtow?

sounds sad tbh
 
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what‘s your long time plan? mgtow?

sounds sad tbh

Fuck whores when I feel like it, I wont EVER chase a girl, they have to chase me and even then I'd just smash and dump. Yeah I'm going MGTOW and just working on other things.
 
Fuck whores when I feel like it, I wont EVER chase a girl, they have to chase me and even then I'd just smash and dump. Yeah I'm going MGTOW and just working on other things.

there is no such thing as men going their own way. It is men sent their own way.
 
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Thank god I got my nut for the day. Chick from Hinge, was very cute in the pictures but was chubbier in person "due to lockdown". She was an inch or two taller as well. Bubbly, came over without hesitation, was DTF but a lot of resistance because she was on her period. I continued escalating until panties went off and then fucked her with a towel underneath.

Fun.
 

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