Why the majority of Dating app Matches DON'T MATTER

[mcmentalonthemic]

Many will say "water" but I've never seen this spoken about in my 3 years here. Many people here are blind

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Many people on this forum who are unnattractive get 5 matches in a month, 2 from obvious catfishes, and 3 from ltbs who are probably chubby.
They say
Ok, in a month, if I approached [x] amount of girls, 3 would think I'm attractive enough to date, and all of them would be below average.

And they use that as a baseline for how attractive their BASE is.

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Here's why that's wrong

GIRLS DO NOT USE DATING APPS TO GET DATES. THEY DO NOT USE DATING APPS TO FIND BOYFRIENDS. THEY DO NOT USE DATING APPS TO GET FREE DRINKS. THEY DO NOT USE DATING APPS TO GET QUICK DICK.

This is a lie that is extremely popular in the media, and girls say they use it for this reason alot of the time.

But, if you actually become FRIENDS with girls and talk to them about it [I know none of you are able to do this so let me enlighten you as this forum's chad] you will find out there is a 5TH reason they use dating apps, which is the MAIN reason.

COMPLIMENTS

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Expectations:

"Hey, you're hot, can we match?"

"Fuckkk no"

"You're cute I guess, sure!"

Reality:
"Hey, you're hot, can we match?"

"err this guy isn't hot enough to fish compliments out of and fuel my ego. Fuck no"


"You're cute enough for me to lead you on so you can give me compliments and fuel my ego, I'll match with you."

Does this mean that the ascended version of him will also be led on? FUCK NO!​

"Hey, you're hot, can we match?"

"I'm here to fish for compliments, but you're hot enough for me to actually go out with! sure!"


"I'm here to fish for compliments, but you're hot enough for me to actually go out with! sure!"

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Conclusion/Tl;Dr: Matches on dating apps, if you are average, low tier, or even slightly above average, just means you're hot enough to fish compliments out of. It does not mean you are hot enough to fuck or go out with.

THAT'S why stats like these are so brutal.

Because these men who aren't matched with aren't too ugly to fuck, they're TOO UGLY TO EVEN COMPLIMENT

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

@Sadist @Orka @Tenres @Former Shortcel @aids
probably should have posted this during peak activity hours but whatever

 

[Lookologist003]

Women do use dating apps to try find a chad. More often they use Instagram and TikTok, secret dating apps. If you're like me and don't have an Instagram, you basically don't have a birth certificate. Tinder for a while, as well as encouraging video, encourages men to link to their Instagram.

This isn't news. I've heard about women using dating apps for more validation. There's never enough validation for chads and women. There was a story in 2020 about a woman who killed herself because her IRL validation got cut off during the Quarantine. So this isn't news to any seasoned incel or blackpiller. Even when you get a girl, she can still keep Tinder on her phone primarily for the validation and to keep a look out for better height and face and money and status.

Women's value is always so high that they can use any social media as a dating app. Even fucking Valorant lobbies. Anywhere that it can be made apparent that a vagina-having human is present can be made into a dating app where men simp for her.

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

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