Why the people say that personality don't matters?

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I'm so fucking tired of idiots saying "personality don't matter" "if you were good looking they approach to you" they never talked to a girl, it's so obvious, if you weak, retarded and you have zero confidence, you can't have girls, if you're ND and you don't know how to mask, it's over, maybe not if you know an ND girl or a NT girl likes you, but personality matters, if you're boring and these shit, try to manipulate, it's not all about looks, I had a gf and a various opportunities to have a gf, but I hate the relationship, it's so fucking exhausting, only the sex it's the good part, you can have a gf if you not act weak or retarded, just be confident, believe in yourself and try to not be boring, this is very important, if you're boring, it's over, you can't have a relationship, you can't even have friends, you literally can't talk to people because you are too bored,
 
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If you truly believe that personality don't matters you are an idiot, just look at psychopaths, if you can't improve, just copy them or a person that have girls, a popular guy, that can works, but the looks just open the door, you can't have gf if your personality is shit
 
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Personality m-matters.... :Analyze:
 
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Personality m-matters.... :Analyze:
Yeah, I seen a lot of ltns with self confidence and they have girls, you need to act like you don't give a shit about anything, it's hard if you're ND, but it's possible, even me, a LTN had a gf, everyone can, it's just personality
 
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Yeah, I see a lot of post in this forum and the problems are not mostly the looks, they appear to be narcissistic or having a personality of shit, but it's more easy chanting the looks than the personality
 
Yeah, I see a lot of post in this forum and the problems are not mostly the looks, they appear to be narcissistic or having a personality of shit, but it's more easy chanting the looks than the personality
i mean obv without looks you aren't doing shit but without having social skill you aren't doing anything in this world
 
I'm so fucking tired of idiots saying "personality don't matter" "if you were good looking they approach to you" they never talked to a girl, it's so obvious, if you weak, retarded and you have zero confidence, you can't have girls, if you're ND and you don't know how to mask, it's over, maybe not if you know an ND girl or a NT girl likes you, but personality matters, if you're boring and these shit, try to manipulate, it's not all about looks, I had a gf and a various opportunities to have a gf, but I hate the relationship, it's so fucking exhausting, only the sex it's the good part, you can have a gf if you not act weak or retarded, just be confident, believe in yourself and try to not be boring, this is very important, if you're boring, it's over, you can't have a relationship, you can't even have friends, you literally can't talk to people because you are too bored,
It dosent
 
Most people tolerate a bitch just for the sex but they ended up old and stressed miserably.
 
i mean obv without looks you aren't doing shit but without having social skill you aren't doing anything in this world
Yeah, I see ltns with girls and good social life, but they act like a Chad, confidence, with no fear of rejecting and don't giving a fuck, that and reading people can works very good
 
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It dosent
What? Personality don't matters? I'm a LTN and I had a gf and various opportunities when I was less shy and introverted, being confident and trusting in myself it gave me various friends and opportunities, you just have to improve yourself, if you want to improve your looks, ok, but the personality needs to be improved too
 
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That's why you need to have a lot of bitches, so one can feel special and act like that
All of them acts like that. That's why you see chads in ltr with ugly bitches
 
All of them acts like that. That's why you see chads in ltr with ugly bitches
Well, they are women's, it's obvious that they act like crazy all the time, but it's possible control them or just using them if they are too annoying, but that happens when one gives them too much attention and care, they think that they are something of value and the can act like childs
 
All of them acts like that. That's why you see chads in ltr with ugly bitches
Maybe I'm wrong, you can use them and throw them, it's better than hearing a bitch complaining about that you are not giving enough attention to her, but maybe it's like that, throw the annoying and get another one more calm
 
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Just have a good personality, right?:forcedsmile:
 
It does matter, but looks get you in the door.
 
I'm so fucking tired of idiots saying "personality don't matter" "if you were good looking they approach to you" they never talked to a girl, it's so obvious, if you weak, retarded and you have zero confidence, you can't have girls, if you're ND and you don't know how to mask, it's over, maybe not if you know an ND girl or a NT girl likes you, but personality matters, if you're boring and these shit, try to manipulate, it's not all about looks, I had a gf and a various opportunities to have a gf, but I hate the relationship, it's so fucking exhausting, only the sex it's the good part, you can have a gf if you not act weak or retarded, just be confident, believe in yourself and try to not be boring, this is very important, if you're boring, it's over, you can't have a relationship, you can't even have friends, you literally can't talk to people because you are too bored,
Low inhib blue pilled brain
 
It does matter, but looks get you in the door.
Of course, but you can't enter if you are too ND, shy or don't know how to talk to people, they just are going see you and that's all, a physique wasted because too ND
 
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Low inhib blue pilled brain
Low inhib is law, I don't care if it's with drugs or born with it, but that's the answer for success, in all aspects, even in jobs
 
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Low inhib is law, I don't care if it's with drugs or born with it, but that's the answer for success, in all aspects, even in jobs
more like neurotypical***
 
more like neurotypical***
Yeah, but it's more complex and difficult if you're ND to be more low inhib, if it's just shy or introverted it's easy, but ND idk what improves it, drugs, therapy, being purely NT it's a little hard
 
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Personality doesn’t matter if you’re sub 3.
 
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Yeah, but it's more complex and difficult if you're ND to be more low inhib, if it's just shy or introverted it's easy, but ND idk what improves it, drugs, therapy, being purely NT it's a little hard
what are you saying being purely NT is not hard have you ever looked at people
 
i vocal stim whenever i talk to people
 
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I'm so fucking tired of idiots saying "personality don't matter" "if you were good looking they approach to you" they never talked to a girl, it's so obvious, if you weak, retarded and you have zero confidence, you can't have girls, if you're ND and you don't know how to mask, it's over, maybe not if you know an ND girl or a NT girl likes you, but personality matters, if you're boring and these shit, try to manipulate, it's not all about looks, I had a gf and a various opportunities to have a gf, but I hate the relationship, it's so fucking exhausting, only the sex it's the good part, you can have a gf if you not act weak or retarded, just be confident, believe in yourself and try to not be boring, this is very important, if you're boring, it's over, you can't have a relationship, you can't even have friends, you literally can't talk to people because you are too bored,
i belive that personality matters if you are average/ sligthly gl, if you are ugly asf personality doesn't matter at all and even if you are really good looking personality doesn't matter
 
Personality doesn’t matter if you’re sub 3.
It depends, you can have friends, gf and a good life, in a long term relationship, the personality is really important, the looks are nothing in that case
 
It depends, you can have friends, gf and a good life, in a long term relationship, the personality is really important, the looks are nothing in that case
You can have friends, but you won’t get a gf if you’re sub 3.
 
True definitely matters. People can never understand nuance
 
what are you saying being purely NT is not hard have you ever looked at people
Sorry, I writed hard, being ND and trying to be pure NT or near is hard, not that being NT is hard, being born NT is like a gift, it's the most easy way in life, but you have a high probability of being just a sheep without importance in the society
 
i belive that personality matters if you are average/ sligthly gl, if you are ugly asf personality doesn't matter at all and even if you are really good looking personality doesn't matter
Even Chad or chadlite needs a good personality to have a good life, he cant be outside doing whatever he wants because he's Chad, he ends isolated with no gf or friends, the personality matters all the time, if you're too proud it can be annoying
 
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You can have friends, but you won’t get a gf if you’re sub 3.
It's impossible not having a gf with a good personality, confidence and trust in yourself, personality it's all, even if you're not like that, you can appear to be and have bitches, not gf because they are too demanding and fucking annoying, all the time everything they do is complaining and be annoying, if you not put enough attention to them, they get crazy, gf=bad, bitches=good, they not feel special and not act like childs like just a gf
 
Even Chad or chadlite needs a good personality to have a good life, he cant be outside doing whatever he wants because he's Chad, he ends isolated with no gf or friends, the personality matters all the time, if you're too proud it can be annoying
a lot of coping in this thread
 
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Even Chad or chadlite needs a good personality to have a good life, he cant be outside doing whatever he wants because he's Chad, he ends isolated with no gf or friends, the personality matters all the time, if you're too proud it can be annoying
I still belive that if you are extremely good looking you can get away without having a good personality
 
a lot of coping in this thread
Is not cope, even Chad if acts bad gets rejected, looks at Bundy, he looks good, but he only had crazy bitches, they are good at the beginning, but after a time they are the worse, the more stable, if they exist, you can only have them with a good behavior and personality, the bitches just with confidence, they're retarded
 
I still belive that if you are extremely good looking you can get away without having a good personality
Maybe, idk any case, but manipulating yes, it works everytime, that's the answer, not looks
 
I'm so fucking tired of idiots saying "personality don't matter" "if you were good looking they approach to you" they never talked to a girl, it's so obvious, if you weak, retarded and you have zero confidence, you can't have girls, if you're ND and you don't know how to mask, it's over, maybe not if you know an ND girl or a NT girl likes you, but personality matters, if you're boring and these shit, try to manipulate, it's not all about looks, I had a gf and a various opportunities to have a gf, but I hate the relationship, it's so fucking exhausting, only the sex it's the good part, you can have a gf if you not act weak or retarded, just be confident, believe in yourself and try to not be boring, this is very important, if you're boring, it's over, you can't have a relationship, you can't even have friends, you literally can't talk to people because you are too bored,
personality only matters in one type of way

u can be good looking however if u are nd asf and dont approach girls first then dont expect girls to approach u

most girls will have a crush on u but never express their feelings with u, the chances of that happening is only in the end of the school year. it’s better to be dating while ur in school or etc. more time spent together.

so in conclusion yes personality matters in one way that don’t act like an asshole and think u can do whatever u want, u might end up meeting the wrong person that doesn’t like that

yes im including social skills in this
 
i belive that personality matters if you are average/ sligthly gl, if you are ugly asf personality doesn't matter at all and even if you are really good looking personality doesn't matter
Yeah, that's pretty much the personality bell curve
 
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I want you to take a guess
 
personality only matters in one type of way

u can be good looking however if u are nd asf and dont approach girls first then dont expect girls to approach u

most girls will have a crush on u but never express their feelings with u, the chances of that happening is only in the end of the school year. it’s better to be dating while ur in school or etc. more time spent together.

so in conclusion yes personality matters in one way that don’t act like an asshole and think u can do whatever u want, u might end up meeting the wrong person that doesn’t like that

yes im including social skills in this
This forum has a problem and it's that they think if they're Chad they can do whatever they want, but not, they don't gain confidence of the nothing, they're are going to be in hell, good looking but too ND for socialize, even approaches to girls it's going to be a mess, and just they are going to make fun of them because too ND, without low inhibit, NT or a good personality like confidence, good behavior, self-respect and make others respect you, there is no level of good looking that can save
 
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I want you to take a guess
A guess of what? Maybe I'm reading bad or something, but what? I have a good personality and I'm ltn, I look bad, I'm an example that personality matters, even in Chad levels or near, personality is relevant, in short to long term, if too ND, you get no girls
 
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If you truly believe that personality don't matters you are an idiot, just look at psychopaths, if you can't improve, just copy them or a person that have girls, a popular guy, that can works, but the looks just open the door, you can't have gf if your personality is shit
i mean if ur insanely good looking does it really matter the girl will just love to be around u and feel good no matter what
 
i mean if ur insanely good looking does it really matter the girl will just love to be around u and feel good no matter what
You need to be really good looking and having only bitches with daddy issues, but they are too promiscuous, a normal girl is not going to be around a person just for his looks, only if she need validation, daddy issues, not more
 

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