Why the world punishes the grind

Jason Voorhees

Jason Voorhees

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Effort is unattractive. You know who work hard. It is peasants and slaves. I openly talk about my difficulties and struggles to get to where I am now on this forum because I like to keep it real and authentic with you niggas because at the end of the day y'all are just pixels on the screen for me and there's no point of me hiding anything but people irl don't know any of it because it's a huge barrier for people to publicly see how much effort we are putting.


We as humans reward ease and punish effort. There's an Italian word that comes up in mens fashion a lot. It is called Sprezzatura which comes from the word called Sprezzare. It is to despise, disdain. A distain for the difficult, a distain for the effort. It's like a soft contempt for the hard worker By hiding the effort it took to get there they are signalling they are above those things because those things and positon is the dream for many. It causes a sort of halo effect. It is this disdain that often reads as mastery because it reinforces people are where they are because of natural abilities and it ultimately soothes the anxiety of normies who believe they are where they are. Visible Effort threatens that comfort meaning people are chosing to be mediocre which is 100x worse than acceptance of the natural order.

Effort will always be met with contempt and hate. So always hide it. Work hard. Give it your evrything and but always hide it. Let them only see your wins and wins only, nothing else. Your real self must be concealed to a handful ride of die friends and family every one else needs to see the charade. You as the charector wearing a mask.

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i lowk made like 200bucks today off of speaking in a chat lol
efforts gay
 
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Trvke
 
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Always larp irl lol

No one likes the real you
 
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i lowk made like 200bucks today off of speaking in a chat lol
efforts gay
but i wanna be rich so i need to do something now
 
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@Prรธphet @Whatever
 
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Sprezzatura sounds like a sophisticated word ngl
 
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I know alot of spoiled brats who are ashamed of their fathers occupation even though they work hard, it makes me feel bad :rageJ:
 
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@dhusc @Sayori
 
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grinding to pay rent
what a life
 
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Probably why they say you need to appear effortlessly attractive
 
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Effort is unattractive. You know who work hard. It is peasants and slaves. I openly talk about my difficulties and struggles to get to where I am now on this forum because I like to keep it real and authentic with you niggas because at the end of the day y'all are just pixels on the screen for me and there's no point of me to hiding anything but people irl don't know any of it because it's a huge barrier for people to publicly see how much effort we are putting.


We as humans reward ease and punish effort. There's an Italian word that comes up in mens fashion a lot. It is called Sprezzatura which comes from the word called Sprezzare. It is to despise, disdain. A distain for the difficult, a distain for the effort. It's like a soft contempt for the hard worker By hiding the effort it took to get there they are signalling they are above those things because those things and positon is the dream for many. It causes a sort of halo effect. It is this disdain that often reads as mastery because it reinforces people are where they are because of natural abilities and it ultimately soothes the anxiety of normies who believe they are where they are. Visible Effort threatens that comfort meaning people are chosing to be mediocre which is 100x worse than acceptance of the natural order.

Effort will always be met with contempt and hate. So always hide it. Work hard. Give it your evrything and but always hide it. Let them only see your wins and wins only, nothing else. Your real self must be concealed to a handful ride of die friends and family every one else needs to see the charade. You as the charector wearing a mask.

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Water, but itโ€™s a must need message to push out constantly

Always pretend ur beauty or achievements are natural and easy :02Pat:

Even if ur hated for it
 
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Water, but itโ€™s a must need message to push out constantly

Always pretend ur beauty or achievements are natural and easy :02Pat:

Even if ur hated for it
when did u grow up
 
Did read.
Always larp showing the hard work is unnecessary. Showing people that you struggled to get where you are does nothing but ruin the appeal of the success.
 
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unbelievably hard ask to do. humans love bonding over their struggles together, to hide all your struggles is very very difficult.

any tips on how to resist the urge to tell the truth?
 

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