Why won’t sex workers see me for just a date?

[DarkHorizon]

So I like to meet sex workers in a totally legal casual manner first before trying to go into a full service session. Because I live in a place where paying for sex is illegal and enforced. I tell them I’m willing to pay them the full price of their one hour full service session but instead of doing sexual things, I just ask if they would be able to come hang out with me and just talk to me first. The way I am I just can’t meet someone for the first time, and five minutes later start hooking up with them. I need to see them first, talk to them, make sure they are legit and not police, and get comfortable with them before doing anything else. Isn’t that much easier than doing actual sex? Because they always just ghost when I ask for this. I mean they’ll get paid the same and all they have to do is come hang out with me at the mall and maybe get a bite to eat together. Why do they insist on not doing that? Are they set-up operations? Are they scams? I mean I’ve even video chatted with them and confirmed they are the women in the photos and still they won’t accept the simple date for an hour. Why is that? How is a date harder than actually going into a room and physically exerting yourself?

 

[POZZO]

i'm pretty sure many sex workers would offer that service.
it is pretty weird though, don't be suprised if they're extra cautious of you being a serial killer.

 

[saint]

You probably need to go with high end escort services that require vouching beforehand

 

[DarkHorizon]

i'm pretty sure many sex workers would offer that service.
it is pretty weird though, don't be suprised if they're extra cautious of you being a serial killer.

But I mean it’s more risky if they meet me inside a hotel room than if they meet me in a public place with tons of people around. Why are they being so uncooperative with that? I’m willing to pay their full price to just talk to me at a coffee shop, that’s literally like earning free money. What is their problem with that?

 

[POZZO]

But I mean it’s more risky if they meet me inside a hotel room than if they meet me in a public place with tons of people around. Why are they being so uncooperative with that? I’m willing to pay their full price to just talk to me at a coffee shop, that’s literally like earning free money. What is their problem with that?

Because it signifies that you're after emotional care which is actually more demanding from the worker as well as more likely to lead to an assault or something because you will get jealous and bitter at the girl for fucking other men. An ideal customer is just a rich dude who is looking for sex.

 

[superpsycho]

idk

do u think sex workers are worth the money though?

 

[160cmcurry]

ones that do gfe usually do those kinds of services

 

[DarkHorizon]

ones that do gfe usually do those kinds of services

I’m not looking for any emotional crap. I just want to see if the provider looks like her photos and is not the police or a scam. That’s it

 

[Vermilioncore]

You don’t wanna grab a burger with me @Luffymaxxing

 

[alurmo]

So I like to meet sex workers in a totally legal casual manner first before trying to go into a full service session. Because I live in a place where paying for sex is illegal and enforced. I tell them I’m willing to pay them the full price of their one hour full service session but instead of doing sexual things, I just ask if they would be able to come hang out with me and just talk to me first. The way I am I just can’t meet someone for the first time, and five minutes later start hooking up with them. I need to see them first, talk to them, make sure they are legit and not police, and get comfortable with them before doing anything else. Isn’t that much easier than doing actual sex? Because they always just ghost when I ask for this. I mean they’ll get paid the same and all they have to do is come hang out with me at the mall and maybe get a bite to eat together. Why do they insist on not doing that? Are they set-up operations? Are they scams? I mean I’ve even video chatted with them and confirmed they are the women in the photos and still they won’t accept the simple date for an hour. Why is that? How is a date harder than actually going into a room and physically exerting yourself?