Why would you rather hookup than be in a long term relationship with someone who is attracted to you

[LooksOrDeath]

Hookups seem lame and dirty asf compared to being with someone who you are mutually attracted to. Idk why users here idolize hookups as the "reward" for looksmaxxing instead of being in a long term relationship with someone loyal cause shes attracted to you. Quality >>> Quantity.

 

[LTNUser]

I'm ugly,I wouldn't do either of the two

 

[LooksOrDeath]

@Kroker @ReadBooksEveryday @Saint Casanova

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I'm ugly,I wouldn't do either of the two

Then it's hypothetical. Your looks are irrelevant to the point of the thread.

 

[playxiing]

ltr is cope until its a women over 30

 

[LooksOrDeath]

ltr is cope until its a women over 30

Sounds pretty shitty at that point. No love, just settling for your resources.

 

[Chadeep]

Because hookups give you attention.

 

[MoggerGaston]

its way easier to get hookups than a LTR

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

LTR sex mogs any hook up sex.

It's comfy, and you can train your gf to do what you really like. Even turn her into a mommy gf.

Hook up is about conquest only.

 

[playxiing]

Sounds pretty shitty at that point. No love, just settling for your resources.

ltr just based on love ?its imposssible unless youre a chad

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Because hookups give you attention.

Only attractive guys get hookups really. You can get attention by going out in the street at that point, why would you need to hook up with randoms.
I'd rather have attention from 1 madonna than 100 whores.

 

[playxiing]

its way easier to get hookups than a LTR

common sense

 

[Xangsane]

Only attractive guys get hookups really. You can get attention by going out in the street at that point, why would you need to hook up with randoms.
I'd rather have attention from 1 madonna than 100 whores.

I've seen ltns get hookups here

 

[playxiing]

Only attractive guys get hookups really. You can get attention by going out in the street at that point, why would you need to hook up with randoms.
I'd rather have attention from 1 madonna than 100 whores.

madonna is whore tho

 

[tomcaelum]

Do both

 

[LooksOrDeath]

ltr just based on love ?its imposssible unless youre a chad

relax greycel
Love is rare but not that rare

 

[LooksOrDeath]

madonna is whore tho

I dont know the true story
you get my point

 

[MoggerGaston]

common sense

yes and it's why guys go for hookups instead of LTR.

Quality LTR is very hard to get so better to settle for hookups.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

its way easier to get hookups than a LTR

I thought men had commitment issues not women. Women dont hookup with guys they wouldnt want to be in ltrs with, assuming the guy doesnt lay around after committing.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Do both

Thats just hooking up while having a constant friends with benefits

 

[alriodai]

Users here are low IQ, they do shit on here because they're told so, they're NPCs, they see some narcy users here idolize hookups (to flex on users and get validation from them to feel superior)

The goal is to looksmax asf to find the girl of your dream that you're mutally attracted and personnality and integrity and morals fit in

 

[Chadeep]

Only attractive guys get hookups really. You can get attention by going out in the street at that point, why would you need to hook up with randoms.
I'd rather have attention from 1 madonna than 100 whores.

Finding a girl who'll be your Madonna is hard. Average foid these days 1-2 Relationships till she graduates high school. College is Hookups. After that a few short term relationships until she's 26-27. And Final when she's almost 30 and desperate for marriage she's a celibate and marries a oofy doofy. If you can you should hookup as much as possible.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

The goal is to looksmax asf to find the girl of your dream that you're mutally attracted and personnality and integrity and morals fit in

Exactly my intentions

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Finding a girl who'll be your Madonna is hard. Average foid these days 1-2 Relationships till she graduates high school. College is Hookups. After that a few short term relationships until she's 26-27. And Final when she's almost 30 and desperate for marriage she's a celibate and marries a oofy doofy. If you can you should hookup as much as possible.

Marry someone young?

 

[tomcaelum]

Thats just hooking up while having a constant friends with benefits

No lol, hookup when you want, but when you want to settle down get in a relationship.

 

[Chadeep]

Marry someone young?

That isn't easy. Jfl at thinking modern foids want to marry at anything below 25

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I've seen ltns get hookups here

General rule is that more attractive guys get hookups
LTNs hooking up are exceptions

 

[Xangsane]

General rule is that more attractive guys get hookups
LTNs hooking up are exceptions

nigga you haven't seen the uk

 

[Kroker]

Users here are low IQ, they do shit on here because they're told so, they're NPCs, they see some narcy users here idolize hookups (to flex on users and get validation from them to feel superior)

The goal is to looksmax asf to find the girl of your dream that you're mutally attracted and personnality and integrity and morals fit in

This.

 

[BimaxLaser]

I wouldnt nigga give me a loving relationship

 

[LooksOrDeath]

No lol, hookup when you want, but when you want to settle down get in a relationship.

Kind of valid, I used to think like this too.
But honestly I would rather not hookup before getting in a relationship. I am a virgin, would rather do it with one girl only.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Nigga they're both lame and dirty

The only semi option is a platonic relationship with someone u actually enjoy being with on a personal level, which is very rare between men and women tbh

 

[abracadabra]

LTR sex mogs any hook up sex.

It's comfy, and you can train your gf to do what you really like. Even turn her into a mommy gf.

Hook up is about conquest only.

reply of the year

 

[LooksOrDeath]

nigga you haven't seen the uk

enlighten me

 

[Xangsane]

jfl
No

I see ltns get hookups here all the time

 

[tomcaelum]

Kind of valid, I used to think like this too.
But honestly I would rather not hookup before getting in a relationship. I am a virgin, would rather do it with one girl only.

That’s respectable, savings it for one girl is a good thing. Don’t listen to these incels who try to tell you it’s impossible to find a loyal girl without a million bodies either. I get with women because I just want to get the experience of it (in moderation, I’m not gonna fuck like 100 bitches / sluts). But when I’m ready to settle down Im gonna be a good loyal boyfriend/husband

 

[LooksOrDeath]

That’s respectable, savings it for one girl is a good thing. Don’t listen to these incels who try to tell you it’s impossible to find a loyal girl without a million bodies either. I get with women because I just want to get the experience of it (in moderation, I’m not gonna fuck like 100 bitches / sluts). But when I’m ready to settle down Im gonna be a good loyal boyfriend/husband

GL Jin

 

[tomcaelum]

GL Jin

You too

 

[LooksOrDeath]

@JohnBaza

 

[ChimpBall]

its way easier to get hookups than a LTR

Not true for NT people with social circles

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Not true for NT people with social circles

Getting rare nowadays in younger people

 

[MoggerGaston]

Not true for NT people with social circles

For hookups you don't even need a mixed-gender socialcircle, therefore it's way easier to get. You are just proving my point.

 

[narcomogs]

LTR with someone you find attractive and is attracted to you (S-tier choosing signals from first interaction) accomplishes every real goal:

• Regular enthusiastic sex that evolves and becomes fun + you can keep the spark alive by doing freaky shit
• Intimacy and validation
• Motivation to do better in life so you can both enjoy the fruits of your labour ( not betabuxxing when she actually likes you )

So clearly it mogs hookups.

HOWEVER the primal part of conquering a new chick is also present, so I agree with my brother @tomcaelum that every man should experience hooking up and flings, to then settle down when you're ready. I mean girls do it so we should too tbh. The issue is you'll never really be satisfied with any amount of degeneracy so you just have to say goodbye to it at some point.

Also if you want a virgin or low body count girl, you should hide your past. It's weird because girls aren't attracted to the reality of a virgin ( balding incel ) but they also want a guy who hasn't been around

rant over

 

[ChimpBall]

For hookups you don't even need a mixed-gender socialcircle, therefore it's way easier to get. You are just proving my point.

Most guys can't get hookups in the first place, without asking a shit ton of girls. And that girl they eventually find is most likely gonna be ugly or fat. Looks aren't as big of a deal in LTRs, obviously still important but average looking NT guys have a very realistic chance of LTRing a looksmatch or even HTB.

Ive gone clubbing a fuck ton this year, both alone and with people from my uni class, and it's extremely rare to see a guy that isn't good looking get anything. And let's not even talk about online dating. Things could be different in America though, I live in Sweden.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Most guys can't get hookups in the first place, without asking a shit ton of girls. And that girl they eventually find is most likely gonna be ugly or fat. Looks aren't as big of a deal in LTRs, obviously still important but average looking NT guys have a very realistic chance of LTRing a looksmatch or even HTB.

Ive gone clubbing a fuck ton this year, both alone and with people from my uni class, and it's extremely rare to see a guy that isn't good looking get anything. And let's not even talk about online dating. Things could be different in America though, I live in Sweden.

clubbing sucks for hookups.

You get hookups through dating-apps and going on holidays, staying in hostels, going to house-parties, etc.

 

[tomcaelum]

LTR with someone you find attractive and is attracted to you (S-tier choosing signals from first interaction) accomplishes every real goal:

• Regular enthusiastic sex that evolves and becomes fun + you can keep the spark alive by doing freaky shit
• Intimacy and validation
• Motivation to do better in life so you can both enjoy the fruits of your labour ( not betabuxxing when she actually likes you )

So clearly it mogs hookups.

HOWEVER the primal part of conquering a new chick is also present, so I agree with my brother @tomcaelum that every man should experience hooking up and flings, to then settle down when you're ready. I mean girls do it so we should too tbh. The issue is you'll never really be satisfied with any amount of degeneracy so you just have to say goodbye to it at some point.

Also if you want a virgin or low body count girl, you should hide your past. It's weird because girls aren't attracted to the reality of a virgin ( balding incel ) but they also want a guy who hasn't been around

rant over

Well said

 

[narcomogs]

clubbing sucks for hookups.

You get hookups through dating-apps and going on holidays, staying in hostels, going to house-parties, etc.

+1 for house parties, vibe is just so much better than clubs

 

[ChimpBall]

clubbing sucks for hookups.

You get hookups through dating-apps and going on holidays, staying in hostels, going to house-parties, etc.

Don't know much about those scenarios, do you have experience with those yourselves? I have a hard time believing a guy with low sex appeal could easily get laid in those settings, even if he's NT

 

[MoggerGaston]

Don't know much about those scenarios, do you have experience with those yourselves? I have a hard time believing a guy with low sex appeal could easily get laid in those settings, even if he's NT

I have an easy time getting hookups because I don't mind lowering my standards just for sex. And those are standards not just for her looks, but also lifestyle, personality, everything.

It's hard to find a LTR-quality girl. And girls are the same in this: Their standards for men for a LTR are way higher than for hookups.
Girls will make out with guys not even knowing their name. And a hookup is not far away then.

 

[JohnBaza]

Hookups seem lame and dirty asf compared to being with someone who you are mutually attracted to. Idk why users here idolize hookups as the "reward" for looksmaxxing instead of being in a long term relationship with someone loyal cause shes attracted to you. Quality >>> Quantity.

I agree with you. LTR is much better