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(thread is purely for laughs and also i'm sorry for the terrible formatting please tell me how to include spoilers)
In this thread i'm going to try my best to explain why you're being disrespected and treated like a fucking dog by your so called friends, especially when there's girls around or in public spaces where they actively seek and humiliate you. I will also try to provide solutions I personally came up with, but this thread is mostly for myself to come back and remind myself when these BS happen to me again in the near future. So read it if you're bored, or don't idgaf.
Have you ever wondered why every single time you hang out with 'friends', family, other people your age and even with older people, you seem to be the target everyone always somehow manages to attack to make a joke out of you?
Have you ever been hated on & roasted & laughed at little, normal things you do at school or work?
Have you ever been wanting to defend yourself, but it made the situation even worse?
Have you ever had to hold yourself from crashing out because of the constant disrespect but you don't have energy & don't want to ruin friendships because they think your overracting?
Have you ever wondered why nobody fucking cares about you and the only time they care is when they can get something out of you reacting to their taunts, so they're waiting for your reaction?
Have you ever teared up like a pathetic bitch nigger in public and had to wipe it out real fast before anyone saw it because the insults and 'jokes' about you just wouldn't stop?
Have you ever talked about your passion, hobbies and your opinion with actual excitement only to be turned down instantly by the person or group you were talking to?
Have you ever been walking in a group and you just happen to get left behind every single freaking time?
I could go on forever, but the point is, if you experienced anything similar to any of these, it's not because your friends hate you, (well maybe they do), but it's because long story short, you have NO AURA. (ik this is corny, but it's true)
Intro
Aura is a slang word that basically means the halo in a vibrational way.
Where do aura come from? They come from your attractiveness, height (the more inches the more aura) and maybe your personality (often falsely believed to give you more aura than looks).
As we all know by now, by nature, humans love what looks good and doesn't like what looks bad. Kids will smile at the sight of a Golden Retriever, but cry when they see a spider. Both are harmless, good animals with good intentions but kids will fear spiders due to their creepy looks and other minor factors like its association with fear and decay in many cultures.
Same goes for humans. When a person sees someone handsome or beautiful, they subconsciously associate that person with 'good', and will assume other characteristiques such as high intelligence, charisma, and friendliness. When they see an ugly person they will label them with being less intelligent, less charismatic and less friendly than the good looking person. This is the halo effect in summary, and something we need to understand vaguely in order to identify why people go out of their way to disrespect you.
The halo effect and the first impression
Normies loveee to deny the existence of the halo effect, yet talks about someone having aura and no aura every day. Halo effect is when humans have a first interaction with someone and label them with the personality, status and hobbies and whatever people do in a daily basis. Most common practices of this type of bias is present in highschool, and the dating world; An HTN on tinder, can lie all they want in their descriptions about their personalities, but girls will not give a shit and automatically going to assume that their personality matches their looks and will swipe right.
He could lie and say he's an outgoing, social person, when in reality, he is an introvert. The girl may be an introvert at heart, but she will force her brain to think the following: "Of course he's outgoing, he's good looking and social, so must I. I don't like being social, but I'm going to pretend and rewire my brain to match his personality so he likes me back."
In the contrary, if the guy is an LTN with the exact same personality, the girl's brain will tell her: "Meh, he's alright, I wouldn't do him. Anyway, his personality doesn't match mine since he's an extrovert and I'm not." Both guys lied about their personalities, but it doesn't matter for the girl as it's in human nature to have halo effect bias in the brain and she just assumed both guys' personalities, social skills and outcome simply through looks and a single sentence on a black screened hand held device. That's the halo effect. She decided to change her entire persona when meeting this guy because she simply assumed they would be compatible.
What does this have to do with first impressions?
Well, to explain this, we have first to try to understand why first impressions matter, and than tie it together with the halo effect.
First impressions matter when you're >HTN as it defines your whole aura for a big chunk of your time in the first seconds that other people see you.
I've moved countries and cities multiple times in primary, middle and highschools. Each time, I presented my 'new, improved' self to others, but it was always terrible. I was a fat chud, boneless, LTN, short, absolutely dumb as beans, had no confidence, been drinking in sorrow since middle school, started smoking heavily at 13 and was depressed as fuck and hated everyone. I obviously was nervous, had my shoulders tensed up, unble to look anyone in the eye and couldn't smile at people in fear of scaring them away. I ate alone during lunch and stayed home during the weekends. It was only when I was brave enough to talk to other people after a month or two in the school that I started to have half hearted friends, meaning if I never engaged in a conversation at all I'd still have no friends right now. In the first few days at every new school I went to, my LTN ass was automatically given the negative halo effect, girls probably labeled me an ugly nerd and most kids probably thought I was just another ethnic ND loser and I was just dismissed from everyone's sights. But this wasn't true. Even if I was suffering from extreme isolation, I was still a fun person to hang out with if I opened up. I wasn't too cringe or weird, could fit in with NT kids if I tried hard, (I'm observant and love studying people with my eyes so I can just copy other people's actions) and had normie hobbies like playing fortnite, soccer, and listening to rap music. However, due to me messing up my first impressions, I never got the chance to share my hobbies and activities with anyone at all.
That is why first impressions matter when regarding the halo effect. I could have at least prevented total isolation from others should I had chosen a disguise personality in the earliest days of attending a new school and stuck with it with confidence. If i had done that, yes, more than half the students would have labeled me with negative traits due to the halo effect and me being LTN back then, but those who could associate themselves with the personality I chose would have maybe gaven me a chance to fit into their group. I would have been able to raise my eyes to meet the other students. I would have been able to introduce myself like a normal human being in a social interaction. But i never could, and developped an extreme lack in skills to pointless, meaningless small talk ever since. It's gotten pretty bad that I need to carefully think for a while what to say after a hi, how are you when meeting a person I'll have to see again after this interaction like a classmate, teacher, or a manager at a job. Because of this, the "becoming more social after drinking" doesn't work on me as alcohol messes my brain up and I need to think for twice the usual time to craft a conversation up.
Why they go out of their way to bully you
Why people choose to get out of their comfort zones purposfully to roast and laugh at you ties directly to the first impressions, and the halo effect plays a role in it too. There are 3 main reasons that I identified throughout my own life experiences.
Number one is when you are being an insecure, miserable chud like me, people will label you a loser without you asking and see you as inferior to them. When people see you are inferior to them, it makes you an easy target. When someone's an easy target, they get laughed at and bullied at, because it's what the social pyramid is there for. People will now go out of their ways to taunt you, disrespect you, as they know you are inferior to them. This is also caused by the fact that there's always a bigger fish out there, and they probably got some sort of disrespect from a person higher than them in the social pyramid, so they must abuse their position over you and feel the dopamine by reminding their brains that they're superior to you in the social structure.
Another reason why, is because people tend to dislike ugly beings. They will hate everything that an ugly person does, even if it's normal actions and behaviour. Examples such as hating on random chopped kids at school because they're watching youtube on their ipads during lunch, they hate on a skinny guy at the gym, they hate on fat people when they're getting a normal amount of food at a fast food restaurant. When you're below LMTN, there pretty much isn't anything you can do to prevent people from at hating on everything you do at least subconsciously. Girls laugh and look at their friends when they're paired up with you in group projects, some guys film tiktoks with you to fulfill a humiliation ritual disguised as an innocent joke, colleagues takes a side step and try their best to not look at you in the elevator, all while subconsciously getting pissed at your simple existance and praying you don't engage in a conversation with them.
And when you try to open up about these to your goy therapist, trusted adults, somehow, you are the problem. You are not talkative enough, you don't socialise, you don't show confidence. Yet everytime I tried to talk, I was dismissed, ignored, and simply rejected. When I tried to socialise, every little actions, walking and standing up stances, looks, everything was joked about and laughed at. Nobody took me seriously, and nobody still does to this day. I don't show confidence, yet when I try my best to be confident, I'm told to lower my ugly ass' ego, and reminded that i'm chopped. I haven't properly talked to a female in more than 3 years.
The last reason that in my opinion is the most enraging, but the most common one, is people purposfully harm you to gain their own auras. As stated before, the social structure is a pyramid, and there's always a bigger fish out there. I always wanted to talk about this specific example for a while, now looks like the perfect chance. Let's imagine this: a course seller guru with an M4 flexing and humiliating a 9-5 guy with a Toyota Corolla, but he gets bitched by a day trader with a Aston Martn Vanquish. Because the M4 guy got bitched on by the Vanquish guy, the M4 guy will be even more resenting towards the Corolla guy to vent his inner rage and humiliation onto him for example. He'll randomly start ganging up on the Corolla guy with his friends and his switch, accusing him of scratching his M4 pressing him and feeling the dopamine of him cowarding like a pussy on the hood of his car. This allows the M4 guy to reclaim his lost aura from the Vanquish guy, and doesn't need to be humble anymore. Now the M4 guy is satisfied since he exerted his social pyramid power, the Vanquish guy is proud since he bitched his lower status guy (The M4 guy), and the only loser of this story is the Corolla guy, who is left with nothing but humilition to carry out on his back. This is the same scenario in every. single. social interaction when you are the 'easy target'. People go out to mistreat you because they gain aura by taking the little aura you have away from you via humiliation rituals, big dopamine rush from performing said rituals.
In all three reasons why your being targeted as a victim, the results are the same for all. You're being directly bullied, laughed at, joked about behind AND infront of your back, ignored, even teachers may join in the momentum and make crude remarks about you and your existance to their world. Your an absolute piece of garbage, and the luckiest day of your life may be when the cool kids all dab you up in the hallway once, but it's not because they accept you as one of them, but because they want to fill their own aura and ego. But one important factor remains; These reasons I stated above are only when you have no friends, or only have friends in the same social pyramid level, (which in most cases would be the bottom of the barrel if you're constantly bullied on).
What if you had normie NT friends, but it was them laughing at you, (excluding all the other random peple laughing at you)?
You are the joke
It's sad but it's the truth: You are the joke itself. They don't care about anything else, but use you as an aura farm and only keep you around because they can't use anybody else in the group. They're probably not your real friends, but only see you as a 'friend' because you serve a purpose to them. The sole purpose of you in that friend group is you being the role of the joke itself. You may have heard these lines before: "No, you should come, please". "Bro, we want you to come out". "We want you to be here bro". These are some of the things your friends say when their they planned something without you. However they feel bad, so they're still asking you if you want to tag along like a pet. They only include you in the end, where your opinion doesn't and will not matter in crafting that plan. The only thing that mattered to them is you showing up to their plans, so they can farm aura in public spaces with you. If they were reall your friends, and wanted your input, they should have asked: "Yo, you want to do something this weekend? I was thinking we hit the (cool club name) on friday. What you think?" Instead of "Yo, me and (friend names) are going to (Cool club name) on friday, you want to come or nah? It's cool if you don't." Now the second one isn't inherently bad, but if that's the case every single time your friend group is making a plan to go out, you might want to reconsider if they're your actual friends. In case you haven't realised, the first question implies your opinion, thoughts and input. The second however, is a simple yes or no question with no room for your thoughts. Should you try to express your opinion other than a yes or a no in the second dialogue, you will be dismissed or brushed off, or even simply removed from the plan definately.
Just like every single other animals on God's green earth, a group, or a pack, have social dynamics that they must subconsciously accept and respect till the seperation of said group or pack. There's the group leader, the person sucking up to the leader, the rest of the group, and the aura farm in dead last rank.
When you happen to have the misery of being the group's aura farm, life is hard. You simply exist in the group so the rest of the group can make fun of you, play and toy you around like a good little pet to farm their auras and try to rank up in the social hirearchy pyramid. They're competing subconsciously against each other, but they're still able to meet good standards with each other, and they will most likely plan things together with each one having an opinion and an input without you even knowing. The groups' aura farm pet doesn't get that luxury of having his own opinion and thoughts that are respected.
People may actually enjoy consciously disrespecting you due to the reaction you gave the first time, during the phase where they're testing your limits on how many cruel jokes they can make, wheres' the boundary where you start to get mad at them for. You need to absolutely not give any reactions at all, as reacting is giving them even more dopamine. You raging, fake punching them, crashing out, or any sort of reactions tied to a lebeled emotion WILL worsen the situation. They will find it entertaining that a loser like you is trying to fight back. They are actively waiting for you to start swinging at you so they can beat you up. Or they're simply waiting for you to say something back in return, so they can film it and post it on social media for likes. The truth is, whatever you do after the initial jokes, taunts, or anything aimed to disrespect you, disguised as a joke, is designed as a trap to set you up for embarrassement. Because they know there's the barrier of you being friends with them, that you won't have anybody else without them, they know very well you'll eventually come back. This is why the jokes are made constantly, non-stop, every day, like a daily routine. They're not worried you'll leave at all. They don't care. You messed up your first impression, you parents didn't give you the best genetics, and now it's your time to pay the price of things you never chose to own. The amount of humiliation, depression, mental suffering you can get due to this social pyramid and the art of humiliations rituals and aura farming is not spoken about, nor researched about enough. People associate everything with the victim's being at fault in most studies. They say the victim has to fix stand up so he doesn't get bullied in the future. They believe it's the victim's personalities, presentations of themselves that causes bullying. But how can they act like normal human beings when they were never considered one their whole lives?
The Final solution
When there's a will, there's a will. If you don't take action, how do you expect things to change.
Here are my opinions and actions I believe will help you get out of this miserable life cycle that just won't go away on its own:
These solutions are what I'm actively doing to preserve my mental health and ascend in peace and in solitude.
The reason why many chopped niggaz are blue pilled is because they're coping to think if they accept themselves, embrace themselves, they'll be bullied less and regarded as humans. Sadly, just because they change their minds doesn't mean society or the world around him has. Their feelings towards him remain the same, the only difference it being more subconscious opinions, jokes, because they think there is more censorship around you. Just like how we don't insult trans people and drag queens infront of their faces in public. (wonder who made freedom of speech illegal)
You, you don't need to be a blue pilled reddit mod. Your first solution to getting rid of this issue is ascending. By ascending, you will increase your status. Start looking into different softmaxes and hardmax prices, your nutrition, posture, BF% and exercice. It's not a fast journey to slayer, but as you improve your looks to its maximum genetic potential, the halo around you will change. You will find life a little better. It won't take a day to recover from the injuries for sure, the scars are still left, the damage has been done, however it's a good way to do some damage control, just like when warships are hit in battle. "Ascend and forget" is a myth. You won't forget all the sufferings and BS you're going through, but you will find some sort of comfort in a life that was meant to be yours, not you being a ritual sacrifice.
Another option you can do in the short term is just not reacting at all to their jokes. Some people tell us to say something 'cold' back in return when insulted, but this also triggers a reaction, therefore giving them a reason to laugh and mock you even more. Do NOT say anything back, especially things like saying something bad back, or a new insult you found online. Next time someone makes a random crude comment about you, simply ignore it and continue doing what you were doing. This is easier for better looking people, as better looking people always have something going around for them. If you're not attractive enough like me, try to go on your phone's settings and pretend like you're figuring out something there, or scroll on instagram reels and pretend you didn't hear their jokes at all.
By not reacting at all, you're not instigating and giving up your aura, nor feeding into their dopamine levels voluntarily. Even better if you're mid conversation, and you just continue talking like what they said wasn't even heard by anyone. What this does is even when people around you heard the comment, if you give no reaction they most likely will dismiss the comment & start shifting their attention towards the person who said the joke, who have now lost some aura due to your no reaction plan working out.
Even if you're sitted and lifted your head up to listen to the crude comment, just say: "Alright" with 0 interest in your eyes and immediately break eye contact, going back to whatever you were doing seconds before.
After doing this method for many jokes, and nothing seems to change, simply cut everyone involved in this off, and go ghost mode. Do not cause a scene nor crash out in the process, just discreetly distance yourself from them until you can full sprint out of there without them noticing.
To conclude...
Don't let anyone disrespect you and going overboard with their jokes and rude comments. Let people know that even if you're a chud incel, you're still human, have feelings, and have self respect. Don't have the mentality of "I'm not letting that slide", as it only causes more harm and escalation than anything else, however keep in mind on what your so called friends have trated you, and make your own decisions from there. Your not weak or a pussy because you're not saying anything back to them or getting physical, because you know you fucking IQ mog them (and hopefully will mog them in general in the future). After getting rid of the bullied life behind, be nice to others, and because understand how it feels to be treated this way, make sure you don't become the aggressor next.
It sucks that society is designed to keep the ugly losers and the pretty on the top, but since you can't change nature you have to do your best to take that to your advantage and use it for your own good and hopefully the goods of others.
The end
In this thread i'm going to try my best to explain why you're being disrespected and treated like a fucking dog by your so called friends, especially when there's girls around or in public spaces where they actively seek and humiliate you. I will also try to provide solutions I personally came up with, but this thread is mostly for myself to come back and remind myself when these BS happen to me again in the near future. So read it if you're bored, or don't idgaf.
Have you ever wondered why every single time you hang out with 'friends', family, other people your age and even with older people, you seem to be the target everyone always somehow manages to attack to make a joke out of you?
Have you ever been hated on & roasted & laughed at little, normal things you do at school or work?
Have you ever been wanting to defend yourself, but it made the situation even worse?
Have you ever had to hold yourself from crashing out because of the constant disrespect but you don't have energy & don't want to ruin friendships because they think your overracting?
Have you ever wondered why nobody fucking cares about you and the only time they care is when they can get something out of you reacting to their taunts, so they're waiting for your reaction?
Have you ever teared up like a pathetic bitch nigger in public and had to wipe it out real fast before anyone saw it because the insults and 'jokes' about you just wouldn't stop?
Have you ever talked about your passion, hobbies and your opinion with actual excitement only to be turned down instantly by the person or group you were talking to?
Have you ever been walking in a group and you just happen to get left behind every single freaking time?
I could go on forever, but the point is, if you experienced anything similar to any of these, it's not because your friends hate you, (well maybe they do), but it's because long story short, you have NO AURA. (ik this is corny, but it's true)
Intro
Aura is a slang word that basically means the halo in a vibrational way.
Where do aura come from? They come from your attractiveness, height (the more inches the more aura) and maybe your personality (often falsely believed to give you more aura than looks).
As we all know by now, by nature, humans love what looks good and doesn't like what looks bad. Kids will smile at the sight of a Golden Retriever, but cry when they see a spider. Both are harmless, good animals with good intentions but kids will fear spiders due to their creepy looks and other minor factors like its association with fear and decay in many cultures.
Same goes for humans. When a person sees someone handsome or beautiful, they subconsciously associate that person with 'good', and will assume other characteristiques such as high intelligence, charisma, and friendliness. When they see an ugly person they will label them with being less intelligent, less charismatic and less friendly than the good looking person. This is the halo effect in summary, and something we need to understand vaguely in order to identify why people go out of their way to disrespect you.
The halo effect and the first impression
Normies loveee to deny the existence of the halo effect, yet talks about someone having aura and no aura every day. Halo effect is when humans have a first interaction with someone and label them with the personality, status and hobbies and whatever people do in a daily basis. Most common practices of this type of bias is present in highschool, and the dating world; An HTN on tinder, can lie all they want in their descriptions about their personalities, but girls will not give a shit and automatically going to assume that their personality matches their looks and will swipe right.
He could lie and say he's an outgoing, social person, when in reality, he is an introvert. The girl may be an introvert at heart, but she will force her brain to think the following: "Of course he's outgoing, he's good looking and social, so must I. I don't like being social, but I'm going to pretend and rewire my brain to match his personality so he likes me back."
In the contrary, if the guy is an LTN with the exact same personality, the girl's brain will tell her: "Meh, he's alright, I wouldn't do him. Anyway, his personality doesn't match mine since he's an extrovert and I'm not." Both guys lied about their personalities, but it doesn't matter for the girl as it's in human nature to have halo effect bias in the brain and she just assumed both guys' personalities, social skills and outcome simply through looks and a single sentence on a black screened hand held device. That's the halo effect. She decided to change her entire persona when meeting this guy because she simply assumed they would be compatible.
What does this have to do with first impressions?
Well, to explain this, we have first to try to understand why first impressions matter, and than tie it together with the halo effect.
First impressions matter when you're >HTN as it defines your whole aura for a big chunk of your time in the first seconds that other people see you.
I've moved countries and cities multiple times in primary, middle and highschools. Each time, I presented my 'new, improved' self to others, but it was always terrible. I was a fat chud, boneless, LTN, short, absolutely dumb as beans, had no confidence, been drinking in sorrow since middle school, started smoking heavily at 13 and was depressed as fuck and hated everyone. I obviously was nervous, had my shoulders tensed up, unble to look anyone in the eye and couldn't smile at people in fear of scaring them away. I ate alone during lunch and stayed home during the weekends. It was only when I was brave enough to talk to other people after a month or two in the school that I started to have half hearted friends, meaning if I never engaged in a conversation at all I'd still have no friends right now. In the first few days at every new school I went to, my LTN ass was automatically given the negative halo effect, girls probably labeled me an ugly nerd and most kids probably thought I was just another ethnic ND loser and I was just dismissed from everyone's sights. But this wasn't true. Even if I was suffering from extreme isolation, I was still a fun person to hang out with if I opened up. I wasn't too cringe or weird, could fit in with NT kids if I tried hard, (I'm observant and love studying people with my eyes so I can just copy other people's actions) and had normie hobbies like playing fortnite, soccer, and listening to rap music. However, due to me messing up my first impressions, I never got the chance to share my hobbies and activities with anyone at all.
That is why first impressions matter when regarding the halo effect. I could have at least prevented total isolation from others should I had chosen a disguise personality in the earliest days of attending a new school and stuck with it with confidence. If i had done that, yes, more than half the students would have labeled me with negative traits due to the halo effect and me being LTN back then, but those who could associate themselves with the personality I chose would have maybe gaven me a chance to fit into their group. I would have been able to raise my eyes to meet the other students. I would have been able to introduce myself like a normal human being in a social interaction. But i never could, and developped an extreme lack in skills to pointless, meaningless small talk ever since. It's gotten pretty bad that I need to carefully think for a while what to say after a hi, how are you when meeting a person I'll have to see again after this interaction like a classmate, teacher, or a manager at a job. Because of this, the "becoming more social after drinking" doesn't work on me as alcohol messes my brain up and I need to think for twice the usual time to craft a conversation up.
Why they go out of their way to bully you
Why people choose to get out of their comfort zones purposfully to roast and laugh at you ties directly to the first impressions, and the halo effect plays a role in it too. There are 3 main reasons that I identified throughout my own life experiences.
Number one is when you are being an insecure, miserable chud like me, people will label you a loser without you asking and see you as inferior to them. When people see you are inferior to them, it makes you an easy target. When someone's an easy target, they get laughed at and bullied at, because it's what the social pyramid is there for. People will now go out of their ways to taunt you, disrespect you, as they know you are inferior to them. This is also caused by the fact that there's always a bigger fish out there, and they probably got some sort of disrespect from a person higher than them in the social pyramid, so they must abuse their position over you and feel the dopamine by reminding their brains that they're superior to you in the social structure.
Another reason why, is because people tend to dislike ugly beings. They will hate everything that an ugly person does, even if it's normal actions and behaviour. Examples such as hating on random chopped kids at school because they're watching youtube on their ipads during lunch, they hate on a skinny guy at the gym, they hate on fat people when they're getting a normal amount of food at a fast food restaurant. When you're below LMTN, there pretty much isn't anything you can do to prevent people from at hating on everything you do at least subconsciously. Girls laugh and look at their friends when they're paired up with you in group projects, some guys film tiktoks with you to fulfill a humiliation ritual disguised as an innocent joke, colleagues takes a side step and try their best to not look at you in the elevator, all while subconsciously getting pissed at your simple existance and praying you don't engage in a conversation with them.
And when you try to open up about these to your goy therapist, trusted adults, somehow, you are the problem. You are not talkative enough, you don't socialise, you don't show confidence. Yet everytime I tried to talk, I was dismissed, ignored, and simply rejected. When I tried to socialise, every little actions, walking and standing up stances, looks, everything was joked about and laughed at. Nobody took me seriously, and nobody still does to this day. I don't show confidence, yet when I try my best to be confident, I'm told to lower my ugly ass' ego, and reminded that i'm chopped. I haven't properly talked to a female in more than 3 years.
The last reason that in my opinion is the most enraging, but the most common one, is people purposfully harm you to gain their own auras. As stated before, the social structure is a pyramid, and there's always a bigger fish out there. I always wanted to talk about this specific example for a while, now looks like the perfect chance. Let's imagine this: a course seller guru with an M4 flexing and humiliating a 9-5 guy with a Toyota Corolla, but he gets bitched by a day trader with a Aston Martn Vanquish. Because the M4 guy got bitched on by the Vanquish guy, the M4 guy will be even more resenting towards the Corolla guy to vent his inner rage and humiliation onto him for example. He'll randomly start ganging up on the Corolla guy with his friends and his switch, accusing him of scratching his M4 pressing him and feeling the dopamine of him cowarding like a pussy on the hood of his car. This allows the M4 guy to reclaim his lost aura from the Vanquish guy, and doesn't need to be humble anymore. Now the M4 guy is satisfied since he exerted his social pyramid power, the Vanquish guy is proud since he bitched his lower status guy (The M4 guy), and the only loser of this story is the Corolla guy, who is left with nothing but humilition to carry out on his back. This is the same scenario in every. single. social interaction when you are the 'easy target'. People go out to mistreat you because they gain aura by taking the little aura you have away from you via humiliation rituals, big dopamine rush from performing said rituals.
In all three reasons why your being targeted as a victim, the results are the same for all. You're being directly bullied, laughed at, joked about behind AND infront of your back, ignored, even teachers may join in the momentum and make crude remarks about you and your existance to their world. Your an absolute piece of garbage, and the luckiest day of your life may be when the cool kids all dab you up in the hallway once, but it's not because they accept you as one of them, but because they want to fill their own aura and ego. But one important factor remains; These reasons I stated above are only when you have no friends, or only have friends in the same social pyramid level, (which in most cases would be the bottom of the barrel if you're constantly bullied on).
What if you had normie NT friends, but it was them laughing at you, (excluding all the other random peple laughing at you)?
You are the joke
It's sad but it's the truth: You are the joke itself. They don't care about anything else, but use you as an aura farm and only keep you around because they can't use anybody else in the group. They're probably not your real friends, but only see you as a 'friend' because you serve a purpose to them. The sole purpose of you in that friend group is you being the role of the joke itself. You may have heard these lines before: "No, you should come, please". "Bro, we want you to come out". "We want you to be here bro". These are some of the things your friends say when their they planned something without you. However they feel bad, so they're still asking you if you want to tag along like a pet. They only include you in the end, where your opinion doesn't and will not matter in crafting that plan. The only thing that mattered to them is you showing up to their plans, so they can farm aura in public spaces with you. If they were reall your friends, and wanted your input, they should have asked: "Yo, you want to do something this weekend? I was thinking we hit the (cool club name) on friday. What you think?" Instead of "Yo, me and (friend names) are going to (Cool club name) on friday, you want to come or nah? It's cool if you don't." Now the second one isn't inherently bad, but if that's the case every single time your friend group is making a plan to go out, you might want to reconsider if they're your actual friends. In case you haven't realised, the first question implies your opinion, thoughts and input. The second however, is a simple yes or no question with no room for your thoughts. Should you try to express your opinion other than a yes or a no in the second dialogue, you will be dismissed or brushed off, or even simply removed from the plan definately.
Just like every single other animals on God's green earth, a group, or a pack, have social dynamics that they must subconsciously accept and respect till the seperation of said group or pack. There's the group leader, the person sucking up to the leader, the rest of the group, and the aura farm in dead last rank.
When you happen to have the misery of being the group's aura farm, life is hard. You simply exist in the group so the rest of the group can make fun of you, play and toy you around like a good little pet to farm their auras and try to rank up in the social hirearchy pyramid. They're competing subconsciously against each other, but they're still able to meet good standards with each other, and they will most likely plan things together with each one having an opinion and an input without you even knowing. The groups' aura farm pet doesn't get that luxury of having his own opinion and thoughts that are respected.
People may actually enjoy consciously disrespecting you due to the reaction you gave the first time, during the phase where they're testing your limits on how many cruel jokes they can make, wheres' the boundary where you start to get mad at them for. You need to absolutely not give any reactions at all, as reacting is giving them even more dopamine. You raging, fake punching them, crashing out, or any sort of reactions tied to a lebeled emotion WILL worsen the situation. They will find it entertaining that a loser like you is trying to fight back. They are actively waiting for you to start swinging at you so they can beat you up. Or they're simply waiting for you to say something back in return, so they can film it and post it on social media for likes. The truth is, whatever you do after the initial jokes, taunts, or anything aimed to disrespect you, disguised as a joke, is designed as a trap to set you up for embarrassement. Because they know there's the barrier of you being friends with them, that you won't have anybody else without them, they know very well you'll eventually come back. This is why the jokes are made constantly, non-stop, every day, like a daily routine. They're not worried you'll leave at all. They don't care. You messed up your first impression, you parents didn't give you the best genetics, and now it's your time to pay the price of things you never chose to own. The amount of humiliation, depression, mental suffering you can get due to this social pyramid and the art of humiliations rituals and aura farming is not spoken about, nor researched about enough. People associate everything with the victim's being at fault in most studies. They say the victim has to fix stand up so he doesn't get bullied in the future. They believe it's the victim's personalities, presentations of themselves that causes bullying. But how can they act like normal human beings when they were never considered one their whole lives?
The Final solution
When there's a will, there's a will. If you don't take action, how do you expect things to change.
Here are my opinions and actions I believe will help you get out of this miserable life cycle that just won't go away on its own:
These solutions are what I'm actively doing to preserve my mental health and ascend in peace and in solitude.
The reason why many chopped niggaz are blue pilled is because they're coping to think if they accept themselves, embrace themselves, they'll be bullied less and regarded as humans. Sadly, just because they change their minds doesn't mean society or the world around him has. Their feelings towards him remain the same, the only difference it being more subconscious opinions, jokes, because they think there is more censorship around you. Just like how we don't insult trans people and drag queens infront of their faces in public. (wonder who made freedom of speech illegal)
You, you don't need to be a blue pilled reddit mod. Your first solution to getting rid of this issue is ascending. By ascending, you will increase your status. Start looking into different softmaxes and hardmax prices, your nutrition, posture, BF% and exercice. It's not a fast journey to slayer, but as you improve your looks to its maximum genetic potential, the halo around you will change. You will find life a little better. It won't take a day to recover from the injuries for sure, the scars are still left, the damage has been done, however it's a good way to do some damage control, just like when warships are hit in battle. "Ascend and forget" is a myth. You won't forget all the sufferings and BS you're going through, but you will find some sort of comfort in a life that was meant to be yours, not you being a ritual sacrifice.
Another option you can do in the short term is just not reacting at all to their jokes. Some people tell us to say something 'cold' back in return when insulted, but this also triggers a reaction, therefore giving them a reason to laugh and mock you even more. Do NOT say anything back, especially things like saying something bad back, or a new insult you found online. Next time someone makes a random crude comment about you, simply ignore it and continue doing what you were doing. This is easier for better looking people, as better looking people always have something going around for them. If you're not attractive enough like me, try to go on your phone's settings and pretend like you're figuring out something there, or scroll on instagram reels and pretend you didn't hear their jokes at all.
By not reacting at all, you're not instigating and giving up your aura, nor feeding into their dopamine levels voluntarily. Even better if you're mid conversation, and you just continue talking like what they said wasn't even heard by anyone. What this does is even when people around you heard the comment, if you give no reaction they most likely will dismiss the comment & start shifting their attention towards the person who said the joke, who have now lost some aura due to your no reaction plan working out.
Even if you're sitted and lifted your head up to listen to the crude comment, just say: "Alright" with 0 interest in your eyes and immediately break eye contact, going back to whatever you were doing seconds before.
After doing this method for many jokes, and nothing seems to change, simply cut everyone involved in this off, and go ghost mode. Do not cause a scene nor crash out in the process, just discreetly distance yourself from them until you can full sprint out of there without them noticing.
To conclude...
Don't let anyone disrespect you and going overboard with their jokes and rude comments. Let people know that even if you're a chud incel, you're still human, have feelings, and have self respect. Don't have the mentality of "I'm not letting that slide", as it only causes more harm and escalation than anything else, however keep in mind on what your so called friends have trated you, and make your own decisions from there. Your not weak or a pussy because you're not saying anything back to them or getting physical, because you know you fucking IQ mog them (and hopefully will mog them in general in the future). After getting rid of the bullied life behind, be nice to others, and because understand how it feels to be treated this way, make sure you don't become the aggressor next.
It sucks that society is designed to keep the ugly losers and the pretty on the top, but since you can't change nature you have to do your best to take that to your advantage and use it for your own good and hopefully the goods of others.
The end
