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you (the loner) are the problem sadly and its time to face it
most loners are usually told from a young age that the way they are is fine and will succeed and all those who oppose them are rude mean bullies
The loner is always the problem, Every single time there's drama, tension, or some weird incident in a group, trace it back and you'll find the guy sitting in the corner who "keeps to himself." They don't communicate, they don't participate, but they sure as fuck expect everyone else to read their minds and accommodate their mysterious boundaries. Then when something goes wrong because nobody knew what they wanted, suddenly it's everyone else's fault for not "understanding" them. the loner usually blames others due to the brainwashing their parents gave them innocently to make light of their kid's situtation and not come to the terms that their kid is isolated . contrary to popular belief loners usually arent smart acaemcidally and spent most or their brainpower finding ways to cope with their social life. loners are not to be confused with geeks.geeks have more pros then cons as they excel in their classes, have their own ecosystems and social relationships and surpisingly respected by some of their peers and majority of teachers on their capability to stay true to themselves most loners have more cons than pros as they obsess over interacting with peers, constantly trying to impress such peers mostly blatantly disrespecting themselves to get barely acknowledged. to cope loners also believe everyone else hates them and is out to get them when in reality loners arent hated they are invisible. every microaggression they string out from interactions are almost always made up in their mind to cope with the fact theyre really shitty on talking to people. for convos they do manage to wiggle into they freeze usually resorting being quiet but trying to play it off as a "nonchalant act" to the people in the convo It's exhausting carrying the social weight for someone who contributes nothing but expects full inclusion when it suits them.
After highschool or university the loner transforms into its ugliest form a shut in. theyve now spent decades to perfect the art of being irrelevant while masking it with the terms of "independence" in their teens to late 20's were invitied to barbacques, weddings, pub hangouts or events they usually decline if not they sit in the corner or stand with a drink in hand and pretend to be mysterious or distraught hoping to trap someone in a dead end convo with them. in their 30's to 50's theyve been completely left alone hey burned every bridge with their constant ghosting and refusal to show up or reciprocate even basic emotional effort, until finally everyone just gave up. Now they have no one to call when their car breaks down, no one to check on them when they're sick, no one who even remembers their birthday. They want to cry about being "forgotten" but they weren't forgotten they were intentionally left behind because they made it clear a hundred times that they didn't value anyone enough to actually participate. Total isolation isn't tragic anymore as its expected of. they are usually unemployed as risk taking is typical hard for them to do if they are they work in a dead end job typical making minimum to a mediocre wage. in their old age they usually are stuck in a retirement home they have none to little vistors. they pester on the caretaker for help when in reality they are desparate for an human interaction the caretaker sadly brushes them off they spend majority of their time trying to talk to fellow senior citzens or remsicing on what could have been
@filthycurrycel @IStalkMyself @Jgns @primal_shitmuncher @pleasevanity
most loners are usually told from a young age that the way they are is fine and will succeed and all those who oppose them are rude mean bullies
The loner is always the problem, Every single time there's drama, tension, or some weird incident in a group, trace it back and you'll find the guy sitting in the corner who "keeps to himself." They don't communicate, they don't participate, but they sure as fuck expect everyone else to read their minds and accommodate their mysterious boundaries. Then when something goes wrong because nobody knew what they wanted, suddenly it's everyone else's fault for not "understanding" them. the loner usually blames others due to the brainwashing their parents gave them innocently to make light of their kid's situtation and not come to the terms that their kid is isolated . contrary to popular belief loners usually arent smart acaemcidally and spent most or their brainpower finding ways to cope with their social life. loners are not to be confused with geeks.geeks have more pros then cons as they excel in their classes, have their own ecosystems and social relationships and surpisingly respected by some of their peers and majority of teachers on their capability to stay true to themselves most loners have more cons than pros as they obsess over interacting with peers, constantly trying to impress such peers mostly blatantly disrespecting themselves to get barely acknowledged. to cope loners also believe everyone else hates them and is out to get them when in reality loners arent hated they are invisible. every microaggression they string out from interactions are almost always made up in their mind to cope with the fact theyre really shitty on talking to people. for convos they do manage to wiggle into they freeze usually resorting being quiet but trying to play it off as a "nonchalant act" to the people in the convo It's exhausting carrying the social weight for someone who contributes nothing but expects full inclusion when it suits them.
After highschool or university the loner transforms into its ugliest form a shut in. theyve now spent decades to perfect the art of being irrelevant while masking it with the terms of "independence" in their teens to late 20's were invitied to barbacques, weddings, pub hangouts or events they usually decline if not they sit in the corner or stand with a drink in hand and pretend to be mysterious or distraught hoping to trap someone in a dead end convo with them. in their 30's to 50's theyve been completely left alone hey burned every bridge with their constant ghosting and refusal to show up or reciprocate even basic emotional effort, until finally everyone just gave up. Now they have no one to call when their car breaks down, no one to check on them when they're sick, no one who even remembers their birthday. They want to cry about being "forgotten" but they weren't forgotten they were intentionally left behind because they made it clear a hundred times that they didn't value anyone enough to actually participate. Total isolation isn't tragic anymore as its expected of. they are usually unemployed as risk taking is typical hard for them to do if they are they work in a dead end job typical making minimum to a mediocre wage. in their old age they usually are stuck in a retirement home they have none to little vistors. they pester on the caretaker for help when in reality they are desparate for an human interaction the caretaker sadly brushes them off they spend majority of their time trying to talk to fellow senior citzens or remsicing on what could have been
@filthycurrycel @IStalkMyself @Jgns @primal_shitmuncher @pleasevanity
