Mansur
Every Cope has an End
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This applies to pretty much any altercation you had with anyone
Starting off everything the main point here is the ego of the people
At first you might think there is levels to forgiveness and regret but Im gonna explain why thats not the case
Taking some light argument as an example, lets say you and your friend hypothetically had an argument about a certain topic and it didnt end in a good way. You guys have broke contact.
You should realise that this person who you had an argument with was ready to give up the entire friendship just solely because of his opinion on some topic, all the shit you guys been through and the things you share together meant absolutely nothing to your friend. His opinion on smth was more important than your relationship.
Why this may be the end you might ask, well could you imagine why this dude maybe apologized to you after? You genuinely think he gave a fuck all of a sudden about you? Well no he didnt, he just realised the things you have done to him that was in his favor, like beeing his therapist, giving him money, get rid of his boredom.
Humans always need smth, if you wouldnt have behaved this way, he wouldnt even look at you. Now you might think well if a dude doesnt put any effort in making his friend happy or benefit him hes not his friend.
Lets imagine you used to help him in certain ways, now as you had an argument and he realizes you wont help him out in the future if its financially, mentally etc. you think hed still stay by your side? Hell no, he wouldnt even consider it, despite the good things you may have done to him. Once this satisfactions over it doesnt benefit the other.
You might think well what if he felt nostalgia and couldnt just let go, well then he wouldnt have an argument with you in the first place, if it really meant to him in any way.
And by argument I mean where it ended by splitting contact
Now the benefit point also applies to people like parents, how do you think they would react if you have took out the trash your entire life but one day you were too lazy to do so? Your damn right, theyd forget every single time you helped them out and focus on this bad thing.
Once then you tell them since they are so unthankful you wont do this again, they would try to apologize for you. Because they felt bad for their words? No, because you simply would benefit them in that way.
Now we could use a lot of situations here but primarily, disrespect applies to the so called light altercations
If a dude would force you to wait for a long time at some spot, its over with.
And without even explaining this, how would you think hed behave if you were some random chick? Hed be there like flash I promise you.
He simply sees you as a bitch, youll stay there anyways, and this also means he wouldnt have respect for you in general and wouldnt take you serious
If there is/was never respect from either side then there wasnt a friendship to begin with, because it would be onesided the whole time.
Take an abusive wife as an example, what would happen if she slapped you even once, youd realise she doesnt see you as someone shes looking up to, your not the man in the house. And since she has done it she never respected you in any way. You were never an authority to her.
And forgiveness in these situations is useless, because when in anger or intoxicated, people show their true colors. If they insult you thats how they always felt about you. And by forgiving them you just show them more of how much of a bitch you truly are and theyd repeat the same process again because theyd knew you would eventually come back.
For these situations you can also take an example how theyd behave infront of important people like the president, their boss etc.
Why wouldnt they allow themselves to act this way? Because they know if they do smth bad, smth way worse would happen and this wouldnt benefit them in any way.
Now lastly is betrayal, idrk who is that level of a cuck to forgive that. But you should realize that betrayal isnt a mistake its a choice, this person made up their mind to turn on you leaving you behind, if its switching teams, beeing friends with your enemies, breaking a promise, whatever the cause might have been, it was more important than you to them. Theyd let you burn to ashes and wouldnt give a shit.
For perspective you can also see what the government does to traitors, they get publicly burned/ stoned alive. Same as with other things like disrespect.
Its all about respect
Starting off everything the main point here is the ego of the people
At first you might think there is levels to forgiveness and regret but Im gonna explain why thats not the case
Taking some light argument as an example, lets say you and your friend hypothetically had an argument about a certain topic and it didnt end in a good way. You guys have broke contact.
You should realise that this person who you had an argument with was ready to give up the entire friendship just solely because of his opinion on some topic, all the shit you guys been through and the things you share together meant absolutely nothing to your friend. His opinion on smth was more important than your relationship.
Why this may be the end you might ask, well could you imagine why this dude maybe apologized to you after? You genuinely think he gave a fuck all of a sudden about you? Well no he didnt, he just realised the things you have done to him that was in his favor, like beeing his therapist, giving him money, get rid of his boredom.
Humans always need smth, if you wouldnt have behaved this way, he wouldnt even look at you. Now you might think well if a dude doesnt put any effort in making his friend happy or benefit him hes not his friend.
Lets imagine you used to help him in certain ways, now as you had an argument and he realizes you wont help him out in the future if its financially, mentally etc. you think hed still stay by your side? Hell no, he wouldnt even consider it, despite the good things you may have done to him. Once this satisfactions over it doesnt benefit the other.
You might think well what if he felt nostalgia and couldnt just let go, well then he wouldnt have an argument with you in the first place, if it really meant to him in any way.
And by argument I mean where it ended by splitting contact
Now the benefit point also applies to people like parents, how do you think they would react if you have took out the trash your entire life but one day you were too lazy to do so? Your damn right, theyd forget every single time you helped them out and focus on this bad thing.
Once then you tell them since they are so unthankful you wont do this again, they would try to apologize for you. Because they felt bad for their words? No, because you simply would benefit them in that way.
Now we could use a lot of situations here but primarily, disrespect applies to the so called light altercations
If a dude would force you to wait for a long time at some spot, its over with.
And without even explaining this, how would you think hed behave if you were some random chick? Hed be there like flash I promise you.
He simply sees you as a bitch, youll stay there anyways, and this also means he wouldnt have respect for you in general and wouldnt take you serious
If there is/was never respect from either side then there wasnt a friendship to begin with, because it would be onesided the whole time.
Take an abusive wife as an example, what would happen if she slapped you even once, youd realise she doesnt see you as someone shes looking up to, your not the man in the house. And since she has done it she never respected you in any way. You were never an authority to her.
And forgiveness in these situations is useless, because when in anger or intoxicated, people show their true colors. If they insult you thats how they always felt about you. And by forgiving them you just show them more of how much of a bitch you truly are and theyd repeat the same process again because theyd knew you would eventually come back.
For these situations you can also take an example how theyd behave infront of important people like the president, their boss etc.
Why wouldnt they allow themselves to act this way? Because they know if they do smth bad, smth way worse would happen and this wouldnt benefit them in any way.
Now lastly is betrayal, idrk who is that level of a cuck to forgive that. But you should realize that betrayal isnt a mistake its a choice, this person made up their mind to turn on you leaving you behind, if its switching teams, beeing friends with your enemies, breaking a promise, whatever the cause might have been, it was more important than you to them. Theyd let you burn to ashes and wouldnt give a shit.
For perspective you can also see what the government does to traitors, they get publicly burned/ stoned alive. Same as with other things like disrespect.
Its all about respect
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