Why you should not get other people to rate you

[Deleted member 240873]

I think people should acquire the ability to rate others well themself if they want to know their own rating.

Then they will also have an idea of how to rate themselves

And this is easier on your conscience compared to you asking someone to rate you, you getting a unfulfilling rating and falling into depression

And in a way is realer than any rating you recieve from others as you don't actually ever know and are always trusting others.

But this requires you to be able to stay somewhat objective and dedication

While there for sure are good enough raters for you to know roughly where you lie I think this is the best way to go about it for people who fulfill the previous kriteria

This yealds higher accuracy.

Because it is not dependent on 1 or 2 pictures, but on you as you actually are

This can also incorporate reception of others irl

And you can see where you lie relative to others irl

Again however I do realize this requires you to be able to be somewhat objective and strict with yourself, which is an ability many fail to have

So it is not good for everybody

Contrary to the title

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

It’s not that deep.

 

[Deleted member 175541]

what u say about israel boii

 

[choppedpajeet]

I think people should acquire the ability to rate others well themself if they want to know their own rating.

Then they will also have an idea of how to rate themselves

And this is easier on your conscience compared to you asking someone to rate you, you getting a unfulfilling rating and falling into depression

And in a way is realer than any rating you recieve from others as you don't actually ever know and are always trusting others.

But this requires you to be able to stay somewhat objective and dedication

While there for sure are good enough raters for you to know roughly where you lie I think this is the best way to go about it for people who fulfill the previous kriteria

This yealds higher accuracy.

Because it is not dependent on 1 or 2 pictures, but on you as you actually are

This can also incorporate reception of others irl

And you can see where you lie relative to others irl

Again however I do realize this requires you to be able to be somewhat objective and strict with yourself, which is an ability many fail to have

So it is not good for everybody

Contrary to the title

its always better to have someone else rate you cuz when you see yourself in a mirror ur so used to seeing urself in a way that you wont easily understand the significance of certain failos. Your brain is so used to seeing the everyday image it gets hard to pinpoint some flaws but if someone else mentions a flaw and you go check yourself again youll understand on how you were overrating urself

 

[Deleted member 240873]

its always better to have someone else rate you cuz when you see yourself in a mirror ur so used to seeing urself in a way that you wont easily understand the significance of certain failos. Your brain is so used to seeing the everyday image it gets hard to pinpoint some flaws but if someone else mentions a flaw and you go check yourself again youll understand on how you were overrating urself

Yes for most people who cannot sufficiently be objective and strict about their looks