Whys it impossible to make friends

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

 

[kababcel]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

In today's modern society, being a slave to them is like setting yourself up to unfathomable utter disappointment, its not worth it.
Try to find happiness in solitude, difficult but doable if you are introverted and haven't gone through a spiritual process/rehabilitation one

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

In today's modern society, being a slave to them is like setting yourself up to unfathomable utter disappointment, its not worth it.
Try to find happiness in solitude, difficult but doable if you are introverted and haven't gone through a spiritual process/rehabilitation one

Im not introverted, thats not even a thing. Nobody is truely introverted they just end up that way through negative reinforcement. Im not being a slave to anyone, I just want to meet like minded people to be friends with

 

[Societal Reject]

Cause you're not good looking

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

Cause you're not good looking

I used to say this but on second thought i am definitely good looking ENOUGH to make friends

 

[BrutalMogger]

how tall are you

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

how tall are you

5'9 barefoot

 

[BrutalMogger]

5'9 barefoot

ok there is your problem
to have friends its minimum 6'2

i would look into limb lengthening surgery

 

[aryanroidfaper]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

Because you’re too chad for them

 

[NoExit]

you need to be MTN+ for people to want to ascociate with you

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

you need to be MTN+ for people to want to ascociate with you

Sometimes i get rated low mtn. But i am cutecel archetype lmfao

 

[BrutalMogger]

ok there is your problem
to have friends its minimum 6'2

i would look into limb lengthening surgery

in all seriousness its probably because you are not neurotypical

neurotypical people are a hivemind and hang out as groups
if you are neurodivergent you will be seen as different and stand out in a neurotypical group and be seen as weird

you need to befriend ND people as they are usually alone

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

in all seriousness its probably because you are not neurotypical

neurotypical people are a hivemind and hang out as groups
if you are neurodivergent you will be seen as different and stand out in a neurotypical group and be seen as weird

you need to befriend ND people as they are usually alone

Bro ive seen nd kids be friends with each other but i must be in that range where i dont fit into any group

 

[Societal Reject]

I used to say this but on second thought i am definitely good looking ENOUGH to make friends

You're probably a wristcel

 

[oijuyfdtrg]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

just be yourself and play to ur best
if u guys dont vibrate then its nobody's fault, not theirs or yours
you should find a group eventually
did u have friends when u were younger or were u alone then too?

 

[BrutalMogger]

You're probably a wristcel

unironically i am a wristcel and i am lonely so there might be something to it

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

You're probably a wristcel

Yes i am. But i see these other emo type kids even skinnier than me all be friends with each other. If youre thinking im trying to be friends with jock chads, then your logic applies but not in this case

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

just be yourself and play to ur best
if u guys dont vibrate then its nobody's fault, not theirs or yours
you should find a group eventually
did u have friends when u were younger or were u alone then too?

Just a couple friends but never popular and never had an established friend group. Lost all of them immediately after leaving high school. I was always known as the nerdy, ugly guy in middle school so it was already over, i was suicidal hating my life in fucking 6th grade, and my parents would cope and say its teenage hormones. Fast forward 6 years im still miserable

 

[YHWH's ghost]

Im not introverted, thats not even a thing. Nobody is truely introverted they just end up that way through negative reinforcement. Im not being a slave to anyone, I just want to meet like minded people to be friends with

Do you live in the US?

 

[cvskll]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

i have tried every type of friend except for a friend who has the same niche as me. I’ve basically dropped all of them because i cannot stand them and they all just seem so low iq which pmo. Only kept one day 1 who i’ve known for many years.

I cannot give a top 3 friends list because i have none


The worst friends i have ever had is the roadmen ones. They have no fucking personality at all and it actually irritates me so bad.

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

Do you live in the US?

Yes

 

[IwillRope2024]

Most people nowdays are unemphatetic and very rude and also more racist and hateful i have a hard time too.

i think society is just turning more low trust because i sure as hell didn’t have as hard of a time like 4 years ago making friends

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

i have tried every type of friend except for a friend who has the same niche as me. I’ve basically dropped all of them because i cannot stand them and they all just seem so low iq which pmo. Only kept one day 1 who i’ve known for many years.

I cannot give a top 3 friends list because i have none


The worst friends i have ever had is the roadmen ones. They have no fucking personality at all and it actually irritates me so bad.

I feel you bro, low iq friends are so dumb. You hang out with them they are high out of their mind 24/7 and cant even hold a conversation. U in the uk or something? "Roadmen"

 

[oijuyfdtrg]

Just a couple friends but never popular and never had an established friend group. Lost all of them immediately after leaving high school. I was always known as the nerdy, ugly guy in middle school so it was already over, i was suicidal hating my life in fucking 6th grade, and my parents would cope and say its teenage hormones. Fast forward 6 years im still miserable

like really young like when u were 5
if u did i think u r neurotypical enough to make friends again and ur just high inhib
but if not then its probably over
but from personal experience being high inhib def affects ur conversation a lot
in an ideal conversation u shouldnt be in ur head thinking abt anything at all

 

[cvskll]

I feel you bro, low iq friends are so dumb. You hang out with them they are high out of their mind 24/7 and cant even hold a conversation. U in the uk or something? "Roadmen"

yeah. I only say roadman because most of these people here won’t know any uk slang which i would’ve used to describe them. for example ‘charvas’

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

like really young like when u were 5
if u did i think u r neurotypical enough to make friends again and ur just high inhib
but if not then its probably over
but from personal experience being high inhib def affects ur conversation a lot
in an ideal conversation u shouldnt be in ur head thinking abt anything at all

Yeah had friends when i was younger. Im not high inhib, i can go approach and talk to anyone i want. Its just that im weird, id rather call it unique though

 

[cvskll]

I feel you bro, low iq friends are so dumb. You hang out with them they are high out of their mind 24/7 and cant even hold a conversation. U in the uk or something? "Roadmen"

all of them ‘roadmen’ friends want to do is drink every weekend and all they do is vape and then take the piss out of me for not wanting to do any of that shit

 

[oijuyfdtrg]

Yeah had friends when i was younger. Im not high inhib, i can go approach and talk to anyone i want. Its just that im weird, id rather call it unique though

dont hide it then
im nd like dat too a lil bit but i dont hide it and try to be normal
unless if it gets u shot or bashed around then hide it

 

[hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

dont hide it then
im nd like dat too a lil bit but i dont hide it and try to be normal
unless if it gets u shot or bashed around then hide it

Yeah the only thing i hide is my GIGA non nt music taste which is like black metal and stuff. Personality wise i say what i want

 

[buddhistking]

It's brutal in 2025, after the pandemic ppl got all quiet and shit

 

[iblamexyz]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

No friends for ur face

 

[Societal Reject]

Yes i am. But i see these other emo type kids even skinnier than me all be friends with each other. If youre thinking im trying to be friends with jock chads, then your logic applies but not in this case

Are you an emo?

 

[YHWH's ghost]

Most people nowdays are unemphatetic and very rude and also more racist and hateful i have a hard time too.

i think society is just turning more low trust because i sure as hell didn’t have as hard of a time like 4 years ago making friends

The internet ruined human societies

 

[YHWH's ghost]

Most people nowdays are unemphatetic and very rude and also more racist and hateful i have a hard time too.

i think society is just turning more low trust because i sure as hell didn’t have as hard of a time like 4 years ago making friends

It's also bad parenting, which is the root cause of basically every social issue that exists.

I wouldn't raise my kids to act like rude zoomers

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

I want to make friends of the same niche as me but i never meet them and even if i did i know they wouldnt want to be friends with me because they knew each other much longer. I tried to be friends with the nerdy kids with 100% polyester outfits out of incredible loneliness but it was super goofy because i stood out so much compared to them. Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

I feel like those homeless guys who are so lonely from getting ignored and avoided. Bc they end up going crazy and talking to everyone which is what i do and im giga failed normie maxxed

I met my college mates beacuse they started attending lectures way after most of us so they ended up approaching me since I'm one of the only guys there maybe you just need to find someone who also can't find any friends

 

[acm]

Then they eventually kicked me out of their group bc i was "living like im in gta"

you were too low inhib and fucked around?