Will halo effect still work on people who knew me before I ascended?

[copemaxxing123]

I have been in the same friend group since I was in 7th grade and have grew up in this boy and girl friend group for a while

I have ascended in the past year and am top one or two guys in this friend group

There is this one girl who I have liked for a while and she knew about it before I looked good, I still liked her but stopped pursuing and started working on myself and started looking a lot better.

She gives me the time of day now but still doesn’t want to commit.

On the other hand her bestfreind who just recently met me is pretty much infatuated with me and we hangout behind her back.

But I still like this other girl.

My theory is she still sees the emasculated version of me and doesn’t see me objectively.

Could this be true.

 

[Faavy]

yeah, she probably still sees the old version of you — people rarely update their perception of someone they’ve known since they were young. new girls see who you are now, but she’s still interacting with the guy you used to be.

 

[Dio Brando]

yeah, she probably still sees the old version of you — people rarely update their perception of someone they’ve known since they were young. new girls see who you are now, but she’s still interacting with the guy you used to be.

 

[copemaxxing123]

yeah, she probably still sees the old version of you — people rarely update their perception of someone they’ve known since they were young. new girls see who you are now, but she’s still interacting with the guy you used to be.

Any way to fix this?
I really like her.
It’s not very hard for me to get girls except the ones in this group I’ve known for a while which is very frustrating.

 

[Faavy]

Any way to fix this?
I really like her.
It’s not very hard for me to get girls except the ones in this group I’ve known for a while which is very frustrating.

you won’t fix it by chasing her — you fix it by breaking her old mental file on you. pull back, stop giving her the familiar version of you, and let distance + your new social value force her brain to re-evaluate who you’ve become.

 

[copemaxxing123]

you won’t fix it by chasing her — you fix it by breaking her old mental file on you. pull back, stop giving her the familiar version of you, and let distance + your new social value force her brain to re-evaluate who you’ve become.

I see her pretty much every weekend
Will this still work if I am distant as in don’t talk to her
Or should I not even let her see me for a while

 

[Faavy]

I see her pretty much every weekend
Will this still work if I am distant as in don’t talk to her
Or should I not even let her see me for a while

This is easier to explain in dm, there’s more to it than just going distant.
Shoot me a message

 

[copemaxxing123]

This is easier to explain in dm, there’s more to it than just going distant.
Shoot me a message

How ca I dm you when you limit who can view your profile
Pretty new to the forum not sure how

 

[AliSlayss]

How ca I dm you when you limit who can view your profile
Pretty new to the forum not sure how

Listen bitch ass nigger, imma make it pretty simple, you ascended. You don’t act the same way, even if you feel like being a beta cuck for her do NOT DO IT!!! Attraction is more than just looksmaxxing…. You need to learn how to charisma maxx, money maxx, social maxx… you got alot more to learn, jsut because you looksmaxxed don’t mean your whole life is 180 like alot of these incels believe. You need to practice how to act, how to talk, how to walk… etc. just stop obsessing over this bitch, even if you really fucking love her. Do NOT show it because you have options… if she comes along and starts fucking with you, GREAT if not WHATEVER MOVE ON