Will I be less attractive if I wear archive fashion instead of old money

[IanIachimoe2491]

i need to know will it fuckup my PSL if i wear more alternative/underground clothing as opposed to posh normie larper cunts that wear ralph and act like they aer the shit even though they still have to use public transport

nah foids love this shit especially the alt baddies i have a friend who's trans (trans guy) that dresses like that and real foids still want him and always like and compliment his style

 

[HostSamurai]

I feel that. Back in my high school days there were so many supreme/hypebeast fashioncels, getting zero women and spending their entire allowance on brands. They never worked on their face or physique or anything. it's crazy now that I think about it.

Nigger/spic/wigger/curry/ghetto gook cope usually

 

[FiendFiend]

nah man its not mentalcelling im pretty sure some of my best friends have been trying to exclude me from shit, even though im a complete normie around them and they dont know that im actually tweaking on org all night. i have super bad social anxiety and the only thing that helps is either weed, alcohol or taking lots of ashwaghanda to stop all the thoughts in my head.

My social anxiety stops me from doing certain things like talking to people or using certain machines in the gym.
And its not like im a twink bitch that cant handle rejection or anything, i just have millions of thoughts in my head that are all stuck on max volume, on loop.
How do i stop this/treat this?????

You cant bro, your neurodivergent. Dude friends always exclude you from shit, and it isnt always correlated to looks. Dude sergi for example is a good looking guy but the whole comment sections are flooded saying how he has a punchable face. The issue is that you believe the bp so hard that u think looks determine if others like u or not. Some people just dont like you, its not really based on how good you look. It could come out of envy, it could just be cus u remind them of someone.

Dude I can relate to you so much. The one NT friend I hang out with, rarely texts me first. At the end of the day my nigga if u hang out with ur friends and have a good time, thats all there is to it. Dont add on shit that they didnt say to you directly. And if they dont like you so fucking what? Fuck them nigga. Dont take yourself too seriously. Your always going to feel this way because you overthink like I do. I literally told my friend over the phone the exact same shit, and he told me exactly what im telling u.

Which city do u live in btw?

 

[wat]

You cant bro, your neurodivergent. Dude friends always exclude you from shit, and it isnt always correlated to looks. Dude sergi for example is a good looking guy but the whole comment sections are flooded saying how he has a punchable face. The issue is that you believe the bp so hard that u think looks determine if others like u or not. Some people just dont like you, its not really based on how good you look. It could come out of envy, it could just be cus u remind them of someone.

Dude I can relate to you so much. The one NT friend I hang out with, rarely texts me first. At the end of the day my nigga if u hang out with ur friends and have a good time, thats all there is to it. Dont add on shit that they didnt say to you directly. And if they dont like you so fucking what? Fuck them nigga. Dont take yourself too seriously. Your always going to feel this way because you overthink like I do. I literally told my friend over the phone the exact same shit, and he told me exactly what im telling u.

Which city do u live in btw?

Thanks man this kinda helps.
I sometimes act really fucking autistic (jestermaxxing) because if i dont i feel like im boring and bring nothing to the table.

I'm not that autistic, im HF, i just have issues with anxiety, but i am fine with most of my friends, maybe its in my head, maybe some are just drifting away from me. I get on pretty good with most people, but with some people it feels like everything they say to me is them taking the piss out of me/trying to mock me.

Idek man i dont wanna sit here and moan about it because thats not how i am, i just wish there was a cure to autism or atleast social anxiety because a lot of the time i question how ill live a full life with some of the shit that is in my head.

I live in ireland btw, cant say the city openingly because it is relatively small, wbu

 

[wat]

You cant bro, your neurodivergent. Dude friends always exclude you from shit, and it isnt always correlated to looks. Dude sergi for example is a good looking guy but the whole comment sections are flooded saying how he has a punchable face. The issue is that you believe the bp so hard that u think looks determine if others like u or not. Some people just dont like you, its not really based on how good you look. It could come out of envy, it could just be cus u remind them of someone.

Dude I can relate to you so much. The one NT friend I hang out with, rarely texts me first. At the end of the day my nigga if u hang out with ur friends and have a good time, thats all there is to it. Dont add on shit that they didnt say to you directly. And if they dont like you so fucking what? Fuck them nigga. Dont take yourself too seriously. Your always going to feel this way because you overthink like I do. I literally told my friend over the phone the exact same shit, and he told me exactly what im telling u.

Which city do u live in btw?

i feel like i have 3 personalities. and because of the way i am thats not okay with me, i believe that 1 thing has to define me. e.g: i cant dress classy and listen to bladee or any of that shit, orrr that if i smoke/vape too much in one day that im not really a gym guy, orrr that i cant dress alt and go to the gym. i hope you or even anyone can relate to what im saying here.
this is kinda the whole reason ive started this thread, it goes a bit deeper than just fashion, but mainly i just wanna know how ill be perceived and will i be less attractive.
sorry for dumping on you here

 

[wat]

You cant bro, your neurodivergent. Dude friends always exclude you from shit, and it isnt always correlated to looks. Dude sergi for example is a good looking guy but the whole comment sections are flooded saying how he has a punchable face. The issue is that you believe the bp so hard that u think looks determine if others like u or not. Some people just dont like you, its not really based on how good you look. It could come out of envy, it could just be cus u remind them of someone.

Dude I can relate to you so much. The one NT friend I hang out with, rarely texts me first. At the end of the day my nigga if u hang out with ur friends and have a good time, thats all there is to it. Dont add on shit that they didnt say to you directly. And if they dont like you so fucking what? Fuck them nigga. Dont take yourself too seriously. Your always going to feel this way because you overthink like I do. I literally told my friend over the phone the exact same shit, and he told me exactly what im telling u.

Which city do u live in btw?

its really rare to me that someone feels how i do (in regards to autism)

 

[FiendFiend]

Thanks man this kinda helps.
I sometimes act really fucking autistic (jestermaxxing) because if i dont i feel like im boring and bring nothing to the table.

I'm not that autistic, im HF, i just have issues with anxiety, but i am fine with most of my friends, maybe its in my head, maybe some are just drifting away from me. I get on pretty good with most people, but with some people it feels like everything they say to me is them taking the piss out of me/trying to mock me.

Idek man i dont wanna sit here and moan about it because thats not how i am, i just wish there was a cure to autism or atleast social anxiety because a lot of the time i question how ill live a full life with some of the shit that is in my head.

I live in ireland btw, cant say the city openingly because it is relatively small, wbu

Lol im in UK. Friendships are very transactional and social circles make fun of each other and jestermax so often there. They say "muh its just bants bro". Honestly most Gen Z are just fucking dickheads or thugs for no reason in our countries. I am finnish and russian, and back home people are quiet, and polite.

Everything they say comes off backhanded. I personally never liked people from this area of the world. Male friendships in UK and Ireland are always about doing some sort of cope like watching a football game, or clubbing, or some fucking bs. "Banter" is just people projecting their insecurities on others. For people who overthink its hell, cuz once someone insults u, even if its "bants" it sticks in your mind.

fukcing unbearable creatures.

 

[wat]

Lol im in UK. Friendships are very transactional and social circles make fun of each other and jestermax so often there. They say "muh its just bants bro". Honestly most Gen Z are just fucking dickheads or thugs for no reason in our countries. I am finnish and russian, and back home people are quiet, and polite.

Everything they say comes off backhanded. I personally never liked people from this area of the world. Male friendships in UK and Ireland are always about doing some sort of cope like watching a football game, or clubbing, or some fucking bs. "Banter" is just people projecting their insecurities on others. For people who overthink its hell, cuz once someone insults u, even if its "bants" it sticks in your mind.

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fukcing unbearable creatures.

i much rather prefer countires like sweden/anywhere outside of the UK for this reason.
I'm not a total freak, i mask my autism really well and most of the time you wouldnt know i had it unless i told you, its all just the shit thats in my head. I can hang out with the chavvy burnouts, normies or really anyone, i just have difficulties starting/keeping conversations going, especially with strangers.

I completely understand how irish/UK banter works, and i admit sometimes i use it because it can be part of my mask, i cant wait til i get the fuck out of here tho bro, the plan is to move to canada where im not getting slagged off by pricks or feeling out of place in every situation

 

[wat]

Lol im in UK. Friendships are very transactional and social circles make fun of each other and jestermax so often there. They say "muh its just bants bro". Honestly most Gen Z are just fucking dickheads or thugs for no reason in our countries. I am finnish and russian, and back home people are quiet, and polite.

Everything they say comes off backhanded. I personally never liked people from this area of the world. Male friendships in UK and Ireland are always about doing some sort of cope like watching a football game, or clubbing, or some fucking bs. "Banter" is just people projecting their insecurities on others. For people who overthink its hell, cuz once someone insults u, even if its "bants" it sticks in your mind.

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fukcing unbearable creatures.

also should i stop jestermaxxing? does it make me look like a retard or is it actually funny sometimes

 

[FiendFiend]

also should i stop jestermaxxing? does it make me look like a retard or is it actually funny sometimes

nah everyone is jestermaxxing. There is no leader of friend groups usually. Everyone equally jesters, and does stupid shit, if u dont jester u lose friends. Yeah they may be shit friends but none the less better than having no friends at all

 

[kevinwang19991@gmai]

also should i stop jestermaxxing? does it make me look like a retard or is it actually funny sometimes

It's not jestermaxxing if you're just being humorous to entertain your friend, so long as you're not the butt of the joke. There's a difference between them laughing at your jokes, and them laughing at you.

 

[looks>books]

Both are horrbile

Imagine wearing old money normally in a casual setting if you arent white

 

[wat]

It's not jestermaxxing if you're just being humorous to entertain your friend, so long as you're not the butt of the joke. There's a difference between them laughing at your jokes, and them laughing at you.

i make myself the butt of the joke relatively often but i dont mind the laughter because i know im somewhat fitting in.
jesus christ the more i listen to myself the more i sound like a loser mentalcel, IRL i appear normal, but as i said im battling social anxiety and all this overthinking shit in my head a lot, and as of lately im just so sick of it

 

[wat]

Both are horrbile

Imagine wearing old money normally in a casual setting if you arent white

im blonde blue eyes white as fuck so its alright for me. but i dont wanna dress like a normal anymore, i like having my own sort of style, but i still wanna be taken seriously and not miss out on oppurtunities because of the way i dress

 

[FiendFiend]

i much rather prefer countires like sweden/anywhere outside of the UK for this reason.
I'm not a total freak, i mask my autism really well and most of the time you wouldnt know i had it unless i told you, its all just the shit thats in my head. I can hang out with the chavvy burnouts, normies or really anyone, i just have difficulties starting/keeping conversations going, especially with strangers.

I completely understand how irish/UK banter works, and i admit sometimes i use it because it can be part of my mask, i cant wait til i get the fuck out of here tho bro, the plan is to move to canada where im not getting slagged off by pricks or feeling out of place in every situation

yh im the exact same. I hate interacting with the guy behind the counter or strangers, when Im with friends im alright and lower inhib. It means your an extrovert, where u gain energy and lower inhibition through high energy envireonments that dont exclude you.

Everyone is in their social groups in UK and I assume its the same in Ireland. Its fucking funny if you observe, you see everyone in their own social circle and they dont interact with anyone else.

If you were in the southern US the cashier would talk to you and u would be his friend, u would go hunting with ur neighbour, random people would invite you over to eat with them. I have similiar shit happen to me in my home town. Conversation starting would come easy. Yeah im not sure why people in UK and Ireland are like this rofl. They seem like really low trust societies.

 

[FiendFiend]

i make myself the butt of the joke relatively often but i dont mind the laughter because i know im somewhat fitting in.
jesus christ the more i listen to myself the more i sound like a loser mentalcel, IRL i appear normal, but as i said im battling social anxiety and all this overthinking shit in my head a lot, and as of lately im just so sick of it

dude you could be chad, and thats how the conversation would go. Its "bants bro" . They would say the most vile and personal shit to your face and when u react how u should react they would say its bants. Thats why I often like hanging out with some of my curry friends, because I dont have to fear this weird cycle.

 

[FiendFiend]

It's not jestermaxxing if you're just being humorous to entertain your friend, so long as you're not the butt of the joke. There's a difference between them laughing at your jokes, and them laughing at you.

Everyone does it though. Some jestermax more than others, but everyone jestermaxxes in UK and ireland.

Sub 5 fights a high MTN. Ofc sub5 loses as usual. But looks dont carry you for shit, u always have to prove yourself through jestering or doing something mental to get the respect of the group. Its fucking stupid. People cant just be friends and sit around a campfire and talk about life and have a laugh, it always has to be doing some dumb shit.

 

[wat]

yh im the exact same. I hate interacting with the guy behind the counter or strangers, when Im with friends im alright and lower inhib. It means your an extrovert, where u gain energy and lower inhibition through high energy envireonments that dont exclude you.

Everyone is in their social groups in UK and I assume its the same in Ireland. Its fucking funny if you observe, you see everyone in their own social circle and they dont interact with anyone else.

If you were in the southern US the cashier would talk to you and u would be his friend, u would go hunting with ur neighbour, random people would invite you over to eat with them. I have similiar shit happen to me in my home town. Conversation starting would come easy. Yeah im not sure why people in UK and Ireland are like this rofl. They seem like really low trust societies.

exactly the same with you on that first part

 

[wat]

dude you could be chad, and thats how the conversation would go. Its "bants bro" . They would say the most vile and personal shit to your face and when u react how u should react they would say its bants. Thats why I often like hanging out with some of my curry friends, because I dont have to fear this weird cycle.

i can take a slagging and stuff im not a snowflake or anything, i just dont like interacting with people i dont know

 

[wat]

i can take a slagging and stuff im not a snowflake or anything, i just dont like interacting with people i dont know

im making myself out to be more of a loser than i look like irl, i can have a convo with people on public transport, can just about make small talk etc. i just get super super socially anxcious when playing sports or when im at the gym, unless ive taken stuff which will calm me down (ash/cbd) i want that stuff to stop

 

[wat]

Everyone does it though. Some jestermax more than others, but everyone jestermaxxes in UK and ireland.
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Sub 5 fights a high MTN. Ofc sub5 loses as usual. But looks dont carry you for shit, u always have to prove yourself through jestering or doing something mental to get the respect of the group. Its fucking stupid. People cant just be friends and sit around a campfire and talk about life and have a laugh, it always has to be doing some dumb shit.

yeah everybody is so performative in UK&ireland, nobody seems to just enjoy a moment

 

[wat]

Everyone does it though. Some jestermax more than others, but everyone jestermaxxes in UK and ireland.
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Sub 5 fights a high MTN. Ofc sub5 loses as usual. But looks dont carry you for shit, u always have to prove yourself through jestering or doing something mental to get the respect of the group. Its fucking stupid. People cant just be friends and sit around a campfire and talk about life and have a laugh, it always has to be doing some dumb shit.

guy got fucked up lmao

 

[wat]

yh im the exact same. I hate interacting with the guy behind the counter or strangers, when Im with friends im alright and lower inhib. It means your an extrovert, where u gain energy and lower inhibition through high energy envireonments that dont exclude you.

Everyone is in their social groups in UK and I assume its the same in Ireland. Its fucking funny if you observe, you see everyone in their own social circle and they dont interact with anyone else.

If you were in the southern US the cashier would talk to you and u would be his friend, u would go hunting with ur neighbour, random people would invite you over to eat with them. I have similiar shit happen to me in my home town. Conversation starting would come easy. Yeah im not sure why people in UK and Ireland are like this rofl. They seem like really low trust societies.

i mask so good irl that every time i read over what ive said in this forum i feel like im larping as an autist lmao, just to clarify im not a full blown loser, i have friends and a girlfriend etc but i just struggle with social anxiety when i dont really know the person. i can get on fine with my mates and that, i just get super nervous and insecure when playing sports or at gym, or most of all on public transport, or crowded places etc

 

[wat]

yh im the exact same. I hate interacting with the guy behind the counter or strangers, when Im with friends im alright and lower inhib. It means your an extrovert, where u gain energy and lower inhibition through high energy envireonments that dont exclude you.

Everyone is in their social groups in UK and I assume its the same in Ireland. Its fucking funny if you observe, you see everyone in their own social circle and they dont interact with anyone else.

If you were in the southern US the cashier would talk to you and u would be his friend, u would go hunting with ur neighbour, random people would invite you over to eat with them. I have similiar shit happen to me in my home town. Conversation starting would come easy. Yeah im not sure why people in UK and Ireland are like this rofl. They seem like really low trust societies.

do you get me here or am i waffling

 

[FiendFiend]

i mask so good irl that every time i read over what ive said in this forum i feel like im larping as an autist lmao, just to clarify im not a full blown loser, i have friends and a girlfriend etc but i just struggle with social anxiety when i dont really know the person. i can get on fine with my mates and that, i just get super nervous and insecure when playing sports or at gym, or most of all on public transport, or crowded places etc

yh brev i fucking get u, i touch grass too i go mall, bro no ones gonna judge u. My advice is just only go out when with friends. I avoid taking the tube, I dont even go gym unless im with a friend, cuz once ur mind is on idle mode u just overthink like i do.

 

[FiendFiend]

i mask so good irl that every time i read over what ive said in this forum i feel like im larping as an autist lmao, just to clarify im not a full blown loser, i have friends and a girlfriend etc but i just struggle with social anxiety when i dont really know the person. i can get on fine with my mates and that, i just get super nervous and insecure when playing sports or at gym, or most of all on public transport, or crowded places etc

autism is not restricted to non nt people. Dude there are days where I rot fucking miserable, there are days when Im going to a party. People mistaken autism for being the one sped kid in the back of the classes who needs an assistant teacher, thats not what it is at all. I think even Hitler had aspergers. He had a bunch of friends and a whole country behind him lol. But tbf initially he wasnt like that i think he drugmaxxed

 

[wat]

autism is not restricted to non nt people. Dude there are days where I rot fucking miserable, there are days when Im going to a party. People mistaken autism for being the one sped kid in the back of the classes who needs an assistant teacher, thats not what it is at all. I think even Hitler had aspergers. He had a bunch of friends and a whole country behind him lol. But tbf initially he wasnt like that i think he drugmaxxed

lmao nice comparison. thanks for talking to me and relating to me on this bro, it really helps to have someone on the same wavelength because even the closest people arent really like me in the autism sense. i appreciate this so much more than you may think

 

[wat]

autism is not restricted to non nt people. Dude there are days where I rot fucking miserable, there are days when Im going to a party. People mistaken autism for being the one sped kid in the back of the classes who needs an assistant teacher, thats not what it is at all. I think even Hitler had aspergers. He had a bunch of friends and a whole country behind him lol. But tbf initially he wasnt like that i think he drugmaxxed

have a good night mate