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Would a woman ever look at me, or any of us really, and think of us as the man of their dreams
It's so frustrating to think about, you can be so in love with somebody that you'd move mountains for her but there's a chance that she'll still have remnant feelings for people that she used to date in the past. She won't tell you out of respect for you but deep down she's longing to fix things with the man who truly earned her heart. You do so much for her and try to please her in any way you can but in hindsight you realise were just wasting your time. Her eyes were never truly set on you.
As a man, you're either born that person or you're not. If you're a neurodivergent manlet you never even had a chance to enter her heart and earn her love. You were never going to be important to her and of course, you know it. But it's too hard of a pill to swallow so you keep dating, you keep trying, you keep loving. Because there was never anything wrong with wanting a loving wife and spending time with her for the rest of your life was there?
Compared to women, where their methods of appealing to the opposite sex are bound to superficial attributes that can very easily be frauded. I can't change my height, I can't change my dimorphism, I can't change my dick size, I can't change my frame, I can't change my muscle insertions, I can't change my ratios and above all else I can't change my genetics. This isn't about being "enough" this about being the best she could ever have so she has no reason to leave for someone better.
I don't understand the "women we're blackpilled before men" thing because what could women really be trying to change? I love a woman with a small ass or small tits the same as I love a woman with bigger. There's an objective metric of attraction for men that's way more brutal than anything women could ever experience in relations to dating.
If she's been with a man at all, it's very likely that she is settling down for you.
It's so frustrating to think about, you can be so in love with somebody that you'd move mountains for her but there's a chance that she'll still have remnant feelings for people that she used to date in the past. She won't tell you out of respect for you but deep down she's longing to fix things with the man who truly earned her heart. You do so much for her and try to please her in any way you can but in hindsight you realise were just wasting your time. Her eyes were never truly set on you.
As a man, you're either born that person or you're not. If you're a neurodivergent manlet you never even had a chance to enter her heart and earn her love. You were never going to be important to her and of course, you know it. But it's too hard of a pill to swallow so you keep dating, you keep trying, you keep loving. Because there was never anything wrong with wanting a loving wife and spending time with her for the rest of your life was there?
Compared to women, where their methods of appealing to the opposite sex are bound to superficial attributes that can very easily be frauded. I can't change my height, I can't change my dimorphism, I can't change my dick size, I can't change my frame, I can't change my muscle insertions, I can't change my ratios and above all else I can't change my genetics. This isn't about being "enough" this about being the best she could ever have so she has no reason to leave for someone better.
I don't understand the "women we're blackpilled before men" thing because what could women really be trying to change? I love a woman with a small ass or small tits the same as I love a woman with bigger. There's an objective metric of attraction for men that's way more brutal than anything women could ever experience in relations to dating.
If she's been with a man at all, it's very likely that she is settling down for you.
If you read this post and finished it all and feel upset, please know that you're too narrow minded to comprehend the fact that a man can truly suffer even under a "patriarchy".
