Woman draws up a 17 page dating contract 2 weeks after dating a guy who mogs her

[Xangsane]

Girlfriend draws up 17-page ‘contract’ for man she’s been dating TWO WEEKS

A GIRLFRIEND drew up a 17-page ‘relationship contract’ with her boyfriend just two weeks after they met on Tinder – demanding he pay for date nights, buy flowers twice a month and…

www.thesun.co.uk

 

[sorrowfulsad]

jfl

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Shortly after Annie and Michael, 23,

Anyone on here who still argues that women in their early 20s are acceptable LTR prospects is delusional.

 

[Xangsane]

Anyone on here who still argues that women in their early 20s are acceptable LTR prospects is delusional.

Why? I'm 23 and happy to date someone, in fact prefer, a woman in my age category.

Does he mog her?

jfl

Yes.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Why? I'm 23 and happy to date someone, in fact prefer, a woman in my age category.

Does he mog her?

I'm a few years older than you and cannot fathom taking a woman around my age seriously for LTR. The article you linked furthers my point. Sex/romance (with other men) and university ruin women. And yeah, the guy in those pics is more attractive.

 

[Xangsane]

I'm a few years older than you and cannot fathom taking a woman around my age seriously for LTR. The article you linked furthers my point. Sex/romance (with other men) and university ruin women. And yeah, the guy in those pics is more attractive.

She's probably scared she'd lose him because he mogs her to Gandy and back?

Also why not?

 

[Reckless Turtle]

She's probably scared she'd lose him because he mogs her to Gandy and back?

Also why not?

Probably not that much since he isn't extremely attractive. Most women by their 20s have either had sexual intimacy or have attended university.

 

[AlexAP]

Sex/romance (with other men) ruin women.

No, having 100+ guys can ruin women, but there's nothing wrong if she has experience at all.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

No, having 100+ guys can ruin women, but there's nothing wrong if she has experience at all.

It only takes one bad intimate situation (and I'm not even necessary talking about sex) with a man to damage a woman for future LTRs.

 

[AlexAP]

It only takes one bad intimate situation (and I'm not even necessary talking about sex) with a man to damage a woman for future LTRs.

What kind of bad situations are you talking about?

 

[Reckless Turtle]

What kind of bad situations are you talking about?

The list can go on and on, but the simple fact that she failed to form a lasting LTR from her experience with a man sets a bad precedent for future LTRs. And this is just me speaking anecdotally, @BrendioEEE can link the stats if you need that backing.

 

[AlexAP]

The list can go on and on, but the simple fact that she failed to form a lasting LTR from her experience with a man sets a bad precedent for future LTRs. And this is just me speaking anecdotally, @BrendioEEE can link the stats if you need that backing.

A woman who is in her mid-20s is likely to have had 1-3 boyfriends at least, and there's nothing bad with that. Women won't wait until some of the users here ascend lol. If she has been very promiscuous, that's another thing, but you can't expect her to have no experience at all.

And I know Brendios stats. They aren't really convincing. Divorce rates for women with a bodycount of 1 are the lowest. But these women are likely to be very religious or had luck that it did work out with their first bf she met when she was 16 (EVERY girl has a first bf, but >90% don't stay with him forever, so Just Be First is COPE). And looking at the other stats, divorce rates of women with a bodycount of 9 are lower than for women with a bodycount of 2 jfl. It means nothing, having had less experience doesn't make a better partner.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Girlfriend draws up 17-page ‘contract’ for man she’s been dating TWO WEEKS

A GIRLFRIEND drew up a 17-page ‘relationship contract’ with her boyfriend just two weeks after they met on Tinder – demanding he pay for date nights, buy flowers twice a month and…

www.thesun.co.uk

I love it! Smart vagina. I guarantee you, she doesn't swallow and her asshole's tight.

 

[metagross]

No, having 100+ guys can ruin women, but there's nothing wrong if she has experience at all.

Incorrect.
It is worse with 100+ guys, but it actually gets bad very early on and just gets worse and worse with every additional sex partner she has.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

A woman who is in her mid-20s is likely to have had 1-3 boyfriends at least, and there's nothing bad with that. Women won't wait until some of the users here ascend lol. If she has been very promiscuous, that's another thing, but you can't expect her to have no experience at all.

And I know Brendios stats. They aren't really convincing. Divorce rates for women with a bodycount of 1 are the lowest. But these women are likely to be very religious or had luck that it did work out with their first bf she met when she was 16 (EVERY girl has a first bf, but >90% don't stay with him forever, so Just Be First is COPE). And looking at the other stats, divorce rates of women with a bodycount of 9 are lower than for women with a bodycount of 2 jfl. It means nothing, having had less experience doesn't make a better partner.

Speak for yourself. My anecdotal experiences have already convinced me otherwise. The data support what I was already aware of.

 

[Deleted member 275]

A woman who is in her mid-20s is likely to have had 1-3 boyfriends at least, and there's nothing bad with that. Women won't wait until some of the users here ascend lol. If she has been very promiscuous, that's another thing, but you can't expect her to have no experience at all.

And I know Brendios stats. They aren't really convincing. Divorce rates for women with a bodycount of 1 are the lowest. But these women are likely to be very religious or had luck that it did work out with their first bf she met when she was 16 (EVERY girl has a first bf, but >90% don't stay with him forever, so Just Be First is COPE). And looking at the other stats, divorce rates of women with a bodycount of 9 are lower than for women with a bodycount of 2 jfl. It means nothing, having had less experience doesn't make a better partner.

I personally find that the more relationships/boyfriends girls have had, the higher their expectations and demands become. Which is a terrible deal as a guy.

With their first/second boyfriend, girls have few expectations because they are inexperienced and feel more in love, they are less rational/calculated. As they learn what they like and don't like, they will impose those demands on their next boyfriend.

Also with age, women in general will expect you to be more put together and have higher demands on your lifestyle. If all you do is play videogames you can get away with that in your teens. But in your 20s it will be a dealbreaker. Women will go: 'my last boyfriend also played videogames and I am not longer accepting this. You should know better at your age. etc'

Young women are unwritten and open to new experiences, new lifestyles, a new view on life. The older women become, the more you have to fullfill this ideal they start putting in their head of what they 'deserve'.

This is why just be first is very much legit. Young women have the lowest demands. Not just on looks, but also on lifestyle, wealth, ambition, everything. While also at the same time they have the most to offer: fertility, bubbly and clingy personalities, warmth, high libido, etc.

 

[RichardSpencel]

The boyfriend replied with "0"

 

[AlexAP]

Incorrect.
It is worse with 100+ guys, but it actually gets bad very early on and just gets worse and worse with every additional sex partner she has.

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Speak for yourself. My anecdotal experiences have already convinced me otherwise. The data support what I was already aware of.

Well here's the graph about marital stability. Women with 0-1 partner before marriage have the lowest divorce rates, but there's no much difference between 2-9 partners, in fact women with 9 partners have lower divorce rates. So either get an Amish girl or don't worry.

 

[AlexAP]

This is why just be first is very much legit. Young women have the lowest demands. Not just on looks, but also on lifestyle, wealth, ambition, everything.

Then why do so few girls stay with their fist?

With their first/second boyfriend, girls have few expectations because they are inexperienced and feel more in love, they are less rational/calculated. As they learn what they like and don't like, they will impose those demands on their next boyfriend.

Also with age, women in general will expect you to be more put together and have higher demands on your lifestyle. If all you do is play videogames you can get away with that in your teens. But in your 20s it will be a dealbreaker. Women will go: 'my last boyfriend also played videogames and I am not longer accepting this. You should know better at your age. etc'

Young women are unwritten and open to new experiences, new lifestyles, a new view on life. The older women become, the more you have to fullfill this ideal they start putting in their head of what they 'deserve'.

Ok, the example with playing videogames all day is bad, because as you get older, you should do more than that. But in general, higher expectations as they get older?

I doubt that. Very young girls (14-16) may have lower expectations, but as soon as they see how much power they have, they become more demanding (even if they stay with their first bf). Women in the age range 17-25 might be more demanding than above that age, as women who are single after that age want to settle down in most cases, so they begin to drop many requirements they had when they were younger.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Then why do so few girls stay with their fist?

Because you don't study, work and live in the same place for the rest of your life? Just one example.

Many highschool relationships break-up where I live because people start studying and living in different cities. And there's a shitton of more practical life reasons why people don't stay with their first.

When people buy a house and are doing their 9-5 job for the rest of their life, a lifestyle that often starts in a person's early 30s, you are not as likely to break up from impracticality anymore.

Ok, the example with playing videogames all day is bad, because as you get older, you should do more than that. But in general, higher expectations as they get older?

Disagree with you. It's not a bad example, it's just one example. It's not even that bad if you play videogames once you get home from your studies/work, but it quickly becomes a dealbreaker to older women.

And yes, higher expectations as they get older. On your fashionstyle, financial status, everything. As I already pointed out.

I doubt that. Very young girls (14-16) may have lower expectations, but as soon as they see how much power they have, they become more demanding (even if they stay with their first bf). Women in the age range 17-25 might be more demanding than above that age, as women who are single after that age want to settle down in most cases, so they begin to drop many requirements they had when they were younger.

Women might lower their expectations and accept a subpar relationship/marriage, for settling down.

I am talking about expectations for REAL love. The girl that is in love with you at age 18, truly thinks 'you are the one' and you are high on her priority list. That's totally different than a woman thinking 'oh he is good enough' at age 30. Uncompareable.

 

[AlexAP]

Because you don't study, work and live in the same place for the rest of your life? Just one example.

Many highschool relationships break-up where I live because people start studying and living in different cities. And there's a shitton of more practical life reasons why people don't stay with their first.

When people buy a house and are doing their 9-5 job for the rest of their life, a lifestyle that often starts in a person's early 30s, you are not as likely to break up from impracticality anymore.

Well I think it's in most cases because the relationship wasn't good enough for them anymore. I literally don't know a single girl who broke up with her first bf because she or he moved to another place, their second bf came from the exact same social circle.

Disagree with you. It's not a bad example, it's just one example. It's not even that bad if you play videogames once you get home from your studies/work, but it quickly becomes a dealbreaker to older women.

And yes, higher expectations as they get older. On your fashionstyle, financial status, everything. As I already pointed out.

Maybe it's just that both men and women have other interests as they get older? Most men don't want to play videogames all day after 25, they have other hobbys at that age. I also wouldn't want a gf who is on Tiktok all day, that would be ok with 16 but not now.

Women might lower their expectations and accept a subpar relationship/marriage, for settling down.

I am talking about expectations for REAL love. The girl that is in love with you at age 18, truly thinks 'you are the one' and you are high on her priority list. That's totally different than a woman thinking 'oh he is good enough' at age 30. Uncompareable.

In many cases, yeah. But Chad can make fall in love any women no matter which age ("I feel young again" - 35 year-old married women who are cheating with Chad).

And sometimes, a Normie can make that too, if he's genuinely the best guy she met in her life. But it's more difficult, I agree with that.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Well I think it's in most cases because the relationship wasn't good enough for them anymore. I literally don't know a single girl who broke up with her first bf because she or he moved to another place, their second bf came from the exact same social circle.

Those reasons come on top of lifestyle practicality reasons that I mentioned.

Maybe it's just that both men and women have other interests as they get older? Most men don't want to play videogames all day after 25, they have other hobbys at that age. I also wouldn't want a gf who is on Tiktok all day, that would be ok with 16 but not now.

You are changing the discussion to something that wasn't the point at all. Not sure why you are doing this.

The point was not that men and women change as they get older, the point was that less is accepted of your partner as viable lifestyles, standards going up. A teenage girl will accept a guy that plays videogames, a guy that just skates all day, a guy that plays sports, and so on. For 25+ girls, they will find you childish/weird/and so on if you don't fit a certain 'normie' image of what hobbies an adult man is allowed to have.

In many cases, yeah. But Chad can make fall in love any women no matter which age ("I feel young again" - 35 year-old married women who are cheating with Chad).

And sometimes, a Normie can make that too, if he's genuinely the best guy she met in her life. But it's more difficult, I agree with that.

Chad always wins, nothing is new. But even chad looks worse in his 30s than in his 20s. And that woman most likely has had several chads in her life already, which hurt her and broke up with her, etc. So is less likely to completely fall for chad this time, knowing that he can break her heart again.