ezio6
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The one she lusts for is the one she can potentially deeply love. The one she eventually marries is the one she likes enough to associate with to benefit from a lifestyle.
Women will gaslight you or themselves that lust is not love. Making both notions, especially, when she needs to find a husband, if not mutually exclusive, separate.
But love cannot be distinguished from lust. It is just a deeper bond.
You will only understand it later with “I love you I am just not in love with you” which is an overstatement for appreciation, nothing more.
Love was never going to be possible because genuine lust was never there to begin with.
Women will gaslight you or themselves that lust is not love. Making both notions, especially, when she needs to find a husband, if not mutually exclusive, separate.
But love cannot be distinguished from lust. It is just a deeper bond.
You will only understand it later with “I love you I am just not in love with you” which is an overstatement for appreciation, nothing more.
Love was never going to be possible because genuine lust was never there to begin with.