Women don't care about looks the same way men do

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This isn't a cope. Women have different brains, weird brains. Yes, it's true women may lie at times to spare feelings, but that's the female nature. She's not going to say "I don't date ugly men". But the truth is, she isn't necessarily going after the best looking man either. It has to be a whole package. To men, we see the woman as being hot or not , and usually settle. For women they are not just looking at the physique or the appearance but also she pictures her wedding day and all kinds of weird things and things we probably don't even know about. They do not think like we do, and to say they only care about looks that would mean they are just like men are, and nothing could be further from the truth. Most women don't even know what they want, but they do value certain things when looking for mates and are far more selective than men are. Dating apps are used for validation for women to feel better. They normally wouldn't care if the guy is attractive or not they just want to get a match for them . Women are also constantly comparing their looks to other women. They are probably more focused on other women's attractiveness than the mans.

How do I know this? I'm one of the oldest guys here so I have been around.
 
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Okaay Ok GIF by MOODMAN
 
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real shit richmond
 
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Tldr: everything matters
Didnt make it easier that its not only looks that matter, but everything does :lul:
 
Probably one the best threads I’ve actually read
 
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This isn't a cope. Women have different brains, weird brains. Yes, it's true women may lie at times to spare feelings, but that's the female nature. She's not going to say "I don't date ugly men". But the truth is, she isn't necessarily going after the best looking man either. It has to be a whole package. To men, we see the woman as being hot or not , and usually settle. For women they are not just looking at the physique or the appearance but also she pictures her wedding day and all kinds of weird things and things we probably don't even know about. They do not think like we do, and to say they only care about looks that would mean they are just like men are, and nothing could be further from the truth. Most women don't even know what they want, but they do value certain things when looking for mates and are far more selective than men are. Dating apps are used for validation for women to feel better. They normally wouldn't care if the guy is attractive or not they just want to get a match for them . Women are also constantly comparing their looks to other women. They are probably more focused on other women's attractiveness than the mans.

How do I know this? I'm one of the oldest guys here so I have been around.
The blackpill is really helpful for gauging your smv as a man. But in mate selction theirs always an X factor of human unpredictability, you can only control what you do, or are( in the case of attractiveness).
 
That's sad...
I'm not 50 years old. I'm in my early 40s and I had 3 dates actually if you include the time I took out Elizabeth May Wright for lunch when I was 17.
 
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I'm not 50 years old. I'm in my early 40s and I had 3 dates actually if you include the time I took out Elizabeth May Wright for lunch when I was 17.
Why don't you just get a girlfriend?
 
Why don't you just get a girlfriend?
There is more than one answer to that question

1. I'm autistic
2. I'm trying to get my life together because I start a new job soon and finishing school. I am trying to get in shape
3. I don't have any money.

You see, those things kind of work against any kind of relationship.
 
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There is more than one answer to that question

1. I'm autistic
2. I'm trying to get my life together because I start a new job soon and finishing school. I am trying to get in shape
3. I don't have any money.

You see, those things kind of work against any kind of relationship.
Only 1. is an issue from what I can see.

You can start a new job, finish school and get into shape while also having/getting a girlfriend. People do this all the time.
You don't need a lot of money to get a girlfriend. You're not buying a girlfriend afterall.

Idk how to fix the autism issue. I have autism too and I got a girlfriend by faking NT traits around her all the time, as best as I could. But it got tiresome after a while.
 
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There is more than one answer to that question

1. I'm autistic
2. I'm trying to get my life together because I start a new job soon and finishing school. I am trying to get in shape
3. I don't have any money.

You see, those things kind of work against any kind of relationship.
stay safe man and make some money. america is not kind to its sick and poor
 
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Only 1. is an issue from what I can see.

You can start a new job, finish school and get into shape while also having/getting a girlfriend. People do this all the time.
You don't need a lot of money to get a girlfriend. You're not buying a girlfriend afterall.

Idk how to fix the autism issue. I have autism too and I got a girlfriend by faking NT traits around her all the time, as best as I could. But it got tiresome after a while.
I'm not giving up
 
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This isn't a cope. Women have different brains, weird brains. Yes, it's true women may lie at times to spare feelings, but that's the female nature. She's not going to say "I don't date ugly men". But the truth is, she isn't necessarily going after the best looking man either. It has to be a whole package. To men, we see the woman as being hot or not , and usually settle. For women they are not just looking at the physique or the appearance but also she pictures her wedding day and all kinds of weird things and things we probably don't even know about. They do not think like we do, and to say they only care about looks that would mean they are just like men are, and nothing could be further from the truth. Most women don't even know what they want, but they do value certain things when looking for mates and are far more selective than men are. Dating apps are used for validation for women to feel better. They normally wouldn't care if the guy is attractive or not they just want to get a match for them . Women are also constantly comparing their looks to other women. They are probably more focused on other women's attractiveness than the mans.

How do I know this? I'm one of the oldest guys here so I have been around.
cope tbh
They care about things other than looks only for betabux and LTR. In sex drive they are men just with less. They are very fucking disgusting creatures ngl, those whores in general reward GL men more, they will let you fuck easily if you are chad and give you sex easily, meanwhile billy betabuxx has to work hard for less enthusiastic sex jfl:lul::lul::lul::lul:
 
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This isn't a cope. Women have different brains, weird brains. Yes, it's true women may lie at times to spare feelings, but that's the female nature. She's not going to say "I don't date ugly men". But the truth is, she isn't necessarily going after the best looking man either. It has to be a whole package. To men, we see the woman as being hot or not , and usually settle. For women they are not just looking at the physique or the appearance but also she pictures her wedding day and all kinds of weird things and things we probably don't even know about. They do not think like we do, and to say they only care about looks that would mean they are just like men are, and nothing could be further from the truth. Most women don't even know what they want, but they do value certain things when looking for mates and are far more selective than men are. Dating apps are used for validation for women to feel better. They normally wouldn't care if the guy is attractive or not they just want to get a match for them . Women are also constantly comparing their looks to other women. They are probably more focused on other women's attractiveness than the mans.

How do I know this? I'm one of the oldest guys here so I have been around.
are u the chad w 24 inch bidelts?
 
she isn't necessarily going after the best looking man either. It has to be a whole package.
Sometimes it kinda looks like.

Women want a total package. Attractive looking AND Tall AND decent Status AND certain income/education AND

While men, maybe more: Attractive looking AND .... well that's it, just don't be to annoying to life/deal with...
to say they only care about looks that would mean they are just like men are, and nothing could be further from the truth.
To add. blackpill mentions; looks it the most important factor. NOT the only factor.

They normally wouldn't care if the guy is attractive or not
Benny Hill What GIF

Women are also constantly comparing their looks to other women. They are probably more focused on other women's attractiveness than the mans.
I agree on this.It's basically checking out the competition.
How do I know this? I'm one of the oldest guys here so I have been around.
I dunno if that's a good factor/criteria.
I'm also old by the way. But maybe you mogg me a little in age, I dunno.
But age isn't perse a very good factor to go by. It's a small factor usually, in that with age more wise, but just that, a small factor.
 
I am real old and females even older ones have crazy looks hypergamy now. Since these dating sites and social media came around in addition to most of them working now it has changed things big time. 5/10 guy didn't have the crazy mess he has to deal with now and women were forced to looksmatch back then more and if they wanted money they usually had a non looksmatch husband. Now many good looking females would never marry that guy no matter the money.
 
I am real old and females even older ones have crazy looks hypergamy now. Since these dating sites and social media came around in addition to most of them working now it has changed things big time. 5/10 guy didn't have the crazy mess he has to deal with now and women were forced to looksmatch back then more and if they wanted money they usually had a non looksmatch husband. Now many good looking females would never marry that guy no matter the money.
she doesnt need to, she can get government or office job, and aford her own aparmtnet, and smash bard/chad, then when she gets older, if she fails to lock down a beta-provider, at least she has pension and money.
 
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giga cope they care a lot about looks.. only if you pass the looks threshold they will think of other things as well.
 
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