Mongrelcel
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I'm not going to generalize, I'm sure there are women who are not narcisstic and actually care for their sons, but let's be real here, most females are massive narcissists... (if not all, but I can't say that for sure)
Women only care about their sons in extension to themselves - for example, if the son fails something, she doesen't feel bad for the son, she feels bad because it was her son, and it reflects badly on her own parenting ability and her own persona itself.
Another example, if the son killed himself, the mother wouldnt feel bad for him, but she would feel bad:
That now shes the woman whose son roped.
That she spend many years and resources raising him.
That she can't have another kid because she's old.
etc..
Basically all negative feelings would come from the way the suicide impacts her, and not the actual loss of the son.
This can be seen in the phenomenon of hikikomori, where they will simply hide the failed son. I said "they" but it really is a "her" - since the woman is the head of the family in japanese culture, the man has no say, he's just an ATM. So it is the females decision to hide the son, rather than to help him - its a known fact that women care much more how their are precieved to the group, or society, or their immediate surroundings. Women always seek to comform to the group much more than men do. (Thats why there is much more male 'weirdos' than female ones, but thats a whole another topic). Having a 'problematic' son - which is that way simply because of the twisted family dynamic the female created in the first place (you can assume that nearly every japanese guy is the same as a guy who grew up without a father. The father is physically there, but not in any other way, the female takes on all the roles, strips him of any influence) - would reflect badly on her.
Any japs can confirm the last part of my theory?
@personalityinkwell @FastBananaCEO @TraumatisedOgre @Vermilioncore @AutisticR3tard
Women only care about their sons in extension to themselves - for example, if the son fails something, she doesen't feel bad for the son, she feels bad because it was her son, and it reflects badly on her own parenting ability and her own persona itself.
Another example, if the son killed himself, the mother wouldnt feel bad for him, but she would feel bad:
That now shes the woman whose son roped.
That she spend many years and resources raising him.
That she can't have another kid because she's old.
etc..
Basically all negative feelings would come from the way the suicide impacts her, and not the actual loss of the son.
This can be seen in the phenomenon of hikikomori, where they will simply hide the failed son. I said "they" but it really is a "her" - since the woman is the head of the family in japanese culture, the man has no say, he's just an ATM. So it is the females decision to hide the son, rather than to help him - its a known fact that women care much more how their are precieved to the group, or society, or their immediate surroundings. Women always seek to comform to the group much more than men do. (Thats why there is much more male 'weirdos' than female ones, but thats a whole another topic). Having a 'problematic' son - which is that way simply because of the twisted family dynamic the female created in the first place (you can assume that nearly every japanese guy is the same as a guy who grew up without a father. The father is physically there, but not in any other way, the female takes on all the roles, strips him of any influence) - would reflect badly on her.
Any japs can confirm the last part of my theory?
@personalityinkwell @FastBananaCEO @TraumatisedOgre @Vermilioncore @AutisticR3tard