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even my abusive old oneitis had chosen me in a way since she was the one to like me first on tinder.

if she doesnt choose you first, if you ahve to like/follow/approach etc. its not gonna go well because you are the one invading her life not the other way around.

but if she likes you first then you have leverage over her, its her fault if things dont end well.
 
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everybody's always given me shit for saying that foids should chase you and not the other way around

leverage is everything imo
 
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Yeah those redpill copers who tell men "muuhhhh as a man you MAST be the pursuerrrr you most CHASEE:soy::soy:!!" Are fucking retarded.

If she dont give you the first sign she isn't that attracted to you
 
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but yeah entering relationships with no leverage is retarded
 
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leverage is everything imo
sucks that i didnt realize this when i was younger. if you dont like me then its your fault for going out of your way to meet me
 
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even my abusive old oneitis had chosen me in a way since she was the one to like me first on tinder.

if she doesnt choose you first, if you ahve to like/follow/approach etc. its not gonna go well because you are the one invading her life not the other way around.

but if she likes you first then you have leverage over her, its her fault if things dont end well.
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even my abusive old oneitis had chosen me in a way since she was the one to like me first on tinder.

if she doesnt choose you first, if you ahve to like/follow/approach etc. its not gonna go well because you are the one invading her life not the other way around.

but if she likes you first then you have leverage over her, its her fault if things dont end well.
What if no woman likes me first
What I'm supposed to do? Rot in hell
Men are the ones who need to try
 
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What if no woman likes me first
What I'm supposed to do? Rot in hell
Men are the ones who need to try
Then it's over lol. Unless you are happy being a cuck
 
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That can be the case but unless ur like a super chad no girl (even if they like you) approaches you tbh it’s just u gotta approach them and see how they react by the way you talk to them. It’s fairly quite easy to tell if they like u or not but when you guys start dating, talking stage etc and she shows hella affection and loves u a lot then that’s really how you know.
 
It’s either way, I’ve had girls be interested first and I’ve had girls who barely responded until I tried like 5x. I’m not a high-effort chaser but you can’t invalidate it like it doesn’t work and like the results are any different. Girls tend to be more cocky when they know they initiated and will see you as slightly below them.
 
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ut unless ur like a super chad no girl (even if they like you) approaches you tbh it’s just u gotta approach them and see how they react by the way you talk to them
cope
 
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Eh I wouldn’t say so I mean when do you see women in public (other then barley any) go up to an attractive guy and approach him to ask for his number or something? Rarely

but the real time u can tell if she actually likes you or not is how she acts when u talk to her irl or even texting her and seeing by the way she talks if she really messed w/you or not
 
and how did that go :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:?
I just hung around and kept texting her without showing my hand by being too high effort, and eventually she was horny enough and we went out and I fucked her. Orbiting is a decent wide net technique if you’re optimized correctly. It’s like those fishing rod holders with bells on them
 
I just hung around and kept texting her without showing my hand by being too high effort, and eventually she was horny enough and we went out and I fucked her. Orbiting is a decent wide net technique if you’re optimized correctly. It’s like those fishing rod holders with bells on them
tales
 
when do you see women in public (other then barley any) go up to an attractive guy and approach him to ask for his number or something? Rarely
they do it on instagram
 
Most females are shy
 
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age bro, age it depends most of them have been through like sm relationships and just straight ran through bops
 
even my abusive old oneitis had chosen me in a way since she was the one to like me first on tinder.

if she doesnt choose you first, if you ahve to like/follow/approach etc. its not gonna go well because you are the one invading her life not the other way around.

but if she likes you first then you have leverage over her, its her fault if things dont end well.
everybody's always given me shit for saying that foids should chase you and not the other way around

leverage is everything imo

Yeah those redpill copers who tell men "muuhhhh as a man you MAST be the pursuerrrr you most CHASEE:soy::soy:!!" Are fucking retarded.

If she dont give you the first sign she isn't that attracted to you
Just because I choose doesn't me she's got the leverage or that I'm not willing to walk away. When you're the guy every girl wants they won't choose you in normal settings. And you shouldn't be choosing girls at clubs.

That can be the case but unless ur like a super chad no girl (even if they like you) approaches you tbh it’s just u gotta approach them and see how they react by the way you talk to them. It’s fairly quite easy to tell if they like u or not but when you guys start dating, talking stage etc and she shows hella affection and loves u a lot then that’s really how you know.
Girls give signals. If you're a really attractive guy a girl will be too self conscious about appearing too forward..
 
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age bro, age it depends most of them have been through like sm relationships and just straight ran through bops
so many partners....but im never among them :feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:
 
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You as a man should talk to women and try
 

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