Women have too many fucking options nowadays HOLY FUKKK

[Deleted member 15606]

I've matched back with 100+ women over the last 7 days. I expected to be ghosted, ignored and blocked by the majority of them, but holy fuck I did not expect not even one - not even fucking one to not give her unconditional time and be responsive. Every twat out their has too many options and too many people to talk to.

I am being NT AF texting. My texting game is legit unlike real life where I am non-NT and high inhib. But over the digital space I am NT af. My shitposting and reps here is evident enough. Even though I make them laugh and probably text mog 95% of guys, I am still fucking guy #450 in their roster of chats. They have too many fucking options! Too fucking many! How tf am I supposed to build a relationship when their inbox is flooded with DMs from 100s of guys. How tf am I able to stand out? If they respond it's just the typical 'haha yes'. Fuck this gay world.

In 2024, it's either become a PSL god or simping for a billion years

 

[Deleted member 15606]

My fucking sister set up an insta had 20k+ followers in the space of a year. It's fucking retarded. Every foid thinks she's a mini-celebrity nowadays.

Because they are, the average girl doesn't even have 2000 followers, more like 200-500

 

[edodalic29]

The problem is your texting these chicks like the little bitch you are. You need to connect with a girl in real life and text her to meet up.

You need to put her in a situation where she's incentivising herself to wait and respond to you. If you're trying to have discourse over text then it's over. No girl wants that unless you're already her boyfriend.

The issue is you're texting them without ever having made an impression on them. You're bucketed in with guys she does not want to fuck.

So yeah i figured out i need to schedule a meet up asap or nothing will come out of it . The longer i wait , they will either find someone else or forget about you .

 

[Seth Walsh]

So yeah i figured out i need to schedule a meet up asap or nothing will come out of it . The longer i wait , they will either find someone else or forget about you .

Yeah but you need to set something up based on her will to have you make a claim for her (i.e., be a mind reader). That's why on Tinder when you literally know nothing about each other, what often works the best is asking her out for an ice cream, coffee, drink whatever to get to know her better. Or if you're in a party island like @forevergymcelling, just order her straight to your room and say you're hosting a little chill evening in your apartment with a few people etc.

You have to be really intelligent and tactical to not fuck things up. Talking about shared interests, talking about yourself, asking her about herself etc are all fine but that has to be done in person. That's why texting a girl you've already made favorable impressions on is easy. While it's basically impossible to change anything through texting before meeting.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Yeah but you need to set something up based on her will to have you make a claim for her (i.e., be a mind reader). That's why on Tinder when you literally know nothing about each other, what often works the best is asking her out for an ice cream, coffee, drink whatever to get to know her better. Or if you're in a party island like @forevergymcelling, just order her straight to your room and say you're hosting a little chill evening in your apartment with a few people etc.

You have to be really intelligent and tactical to not fuck things up. Talking about shared interests, talking about yourself, asking her about herself etc are all fine but that has to be done in person. That's why texting a girl you've already made favorable impressions on is easy. While it's basically impossible to change anything through texting before meeting.

How do I work with this?

This is what 99% of my replies look like if they don't ghost.

 

[Seth Walsh]

Its very easy bhai
Only respond to ones who text u first
thats all tbh , that way u dont have to keep playing this autistic chase the mouse game and have a better return for your investment

The ones who text you first will often be quite difficult when you actually meet.

It sounds great but do you think a girl is ONLY texting you first? She'll be more pushy and less interested in a lot of cases. Sometimes you just gotta be a man as cringe as it sounds. And text girls first. It's normal conditioning for girls to match with you and expect you to text first to show you're interested.

 

[Seth Walsh]

How do I work with this?
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This is what 99% of my replies look like if they don't ghost.

You should've asked her where she works then say "oh that's cool" after she replied then try to meet up after her work on Friday

 

[Seth Walsh]

You should've asked her where she works then say "oh that's cool" after she replied then try to meet up after her work on Friday

But don't let her choose the meetup location and don't let it be too near to her. Make it far away enough for her to challenge, then try to push. And if she keeps saying your suggestion is "too far away" or whatever, then move on.

 

[einzigartig]

I've matched back with 100+ women over the last 7 days. I expected to be ghosted, ignored and blocked by the majority of them, but holy fuck I did not expect not even one - not even fucking one to not give her unconditional time and be responsive. Every twat out their has too many options and too many people to talk to.

I am being NT AF texting. My texting game is legit unlike real life where I am non-NT and high inhib. But over the digital space I am NT af. My shitposting and reps here is evident enough. Even though I make them laugh and probably text mog 95% of guys, I am still fucking guy #450 in their roster of chats. They have too many fucking options! Too fucking many! How tf am I supposed to build a relationship when their inbox is flooded with DMs from 100s of guys. How tf am I able to stand out? If they respond it's just the typical 'haha yes'. Fuck this gay world.

your rep ratio says nothing about your NTness with girls dude

a 1 on 1 conversation is way harder than posting here

u would have been laid if you were good looking asf but incels will tell it is cause of your height

 

[Seth Walsh]

your rep ratio says nothing about your NTness with girls dude

a 1 on 1 conversation is way harder than posting here

u would have been laid if you were good looking asf but incels will tell it is cause of your height

1on1conversation pilled

 

[chadmanlet04]

Such is life

 

[Sprinkles]

people question if women even have empathy for men but how can they with so many options and guys are replaceable at the snap of a finger

 

[Medatlantoid]

only option is landwhales and they still get tallfags in their dms

 

[Deleted member 33711]

Because they are, the average girl doesn't even have 2000 followers, more like 200-500

Average girl has a thousand followers, no exaggeration

 

[Lookologist003]

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It's a single chromosome IN EVERY CELL OF YOUR BODY.

 

[Baban]

How tf am I able to stand out?

by not olding

 

[Baban]

How

chop off ur pp, or monkmaxx

 

[Htobrother]

chop off ur pp, or monkmaxx

But I love fucking pussy from time to time

 

[Baban]

But I love fucking pussy from time to time

kardaşım SİK AMCIĞI SİKKKKK

 

[Htobrother]

kardaşım SİK AMCIĞI SİKKKKK

Amciksiz olmuyor bu hayat

 

[Sprinkles]

Couldn't be more correct

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if you had a choice to become that girl would you, or would you stay being the current you?

 

[Htobrother]

if you had a choice to become that girl would you, or would you stay being the current you?

I would become the foid
Be an escort
Use faggots for money to give me out drinks etc
And make only fans, run e-whoring
Let my pussy get blown out every hour by niggers
Ultimate pleasure everyday and money 10k or more per month while you wagecuck

I then would travel the world and Dubai eat the finest foods and go to best restaurants .too and run escort there for a week or 3

 

[Deleted member 75224]

Dating apps are unironically shittier for HTNs than any other group.

LTNs-MTNs don’t get enough or any matches and just ditch the app entirely. HTNs get matches but need to run brutal numbers game and deal with ghosting/dead convo/failed dates/etc.

Chadlite is the level where dating apps actually get fun. HTN dating app experience is like idk a date a week but lots of ghosting dead convos etc.

 

[Sprinkles]

I would become the foid
Be an escort
Use faggots for money to give me out drinks etc
And make only fans, run e-whoring
Let my pussy get blown out every hour by niggers
Ultimate pleasure everyday and money 10k or more per month while you wagecuck

I then would travel the world and Dubai too and run escort there for a week or 3

yeah I bet you’d love to take dick you fucking faggot

 

[Htobrother]

yeah I bet you’d love to take dick you fucking faggot

 

[Deleted member 15606]

Average girl has a thousand followers, no exaggeration

Different meta game on different countries I guess, the only girls here who have at least 500 followers tend to be HTBs

 

[AscensionMan98]

Its very easy bhai
Only respond to ones who text u first
thats all tbh , that way u dont have to keep playing this autistic chase the mouse game and have a better return for your investment

Austin Dunham and fit Felix mentioned that .

But to get to the level women message first is very hard , and even they can still be attention whoring often

 

[Htobrother]

Austin Dunham and fit Felix mentioned that .

But to get to the level women message first is very hard , and even they can still be attention whoring often

Felix,??

 

[laaltin]

text game, nt mog, text mog blah blah blah.. these guys never learn lmao

 

[hypernormie]

If you’re going to pursue women in this day and age you must accept we are in an age of hyper competition and it’s a bloodbath out there.

You have to treat it like you are trying to win the Olympics. No compaining, just constant maximizing value and honing your skills. You must constantly think of how to improve and outdo your competition instead of complaining about how hard it is.

You have to take the L’s on the chin and live with the mindset that if you are not getting the result you want, you just aren’t good enough yet.

You must also come to understand that you may put in a Herculean amount of effort at this task and at best only be able to secure yourself an unloyal hypergamous mid tier Becky that has already been ran through by countless Chads.

It’s sad, it’s not how it should be but that’s the way it is.

The alternative is to just give up on women or pay for sex and I wouldn’t fault you for either of these options because the situation has indeed gotten ridiculous.

 

[Htobrother]

If you’re going to pursue women in this day and age you must accept we are in an age of hyper competition and it’s a bloodbath out there.

You have to treat it like you are trying to win the Olympics. No compaining, just constant maximizing value and honing your skills. You must constantly think of how to improve and outdo your competition instead of complaining about how hard it is.

You have to take the L’s on the chin and live with the mindset that if you are not getting the result you want, you just aren’t good enough yet.

It’s sad, it’s not how it should be but that’s the way it is.

The alternative is to just give up on women and I wouldn’t fault you for it because the situation has indeed gotten ridiculous.

All this for a stinky wet loose hole dnr

 

[hypernormie]

All this for a stinky wet loose hole dnr

as you can see I literally say in the post that it is ridiculous that this is what must be done nowadays just to have sex

 

[SecularIslamist]

if you had a choice to become that girl would you, or would you stay being the current you?

Obviously I'd be the girl ne. How are you even asking this? I've made it no secret Id fuck my tranny self.

 

[AscensionMan98]

F

Felix,??

meant fitxfearless

 

[longjohnmong]

follow some random 4'6 filipina single mother on insta and you will see she has white 6'4 Chad driving her around on motorcycle

i'm not even joking

that's a 4 foot something filipina single mother filming a white "Chad" from the back of a dirt bike or whatever. she ignores me, a rich American, when i message her.

 

[Suns9999]

Obviously your texting game isn’t as proficient as you thought. You gotta get that mouthpiece crisp first

 

[robtical]

My fucking sister set up an insta had 20k+ followers in the space of a year. It's fucking retarded. Every foid thinks she's a mini-celebrity nowadays.

Yea i believe she is virgin now

 

[robtical]

How do I work with this?
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This is what 99% of my replies look like if they don't ghost.

Even brutal pill is even if your partner is khhv, she prob have microcheating chatted with lots of guys.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Even brutal pill is even if your partner is khhv, she prob have microcheating chatted with lots of guys.

I don't mind this. I'm at that age where ofc even if they are KHHV they have spoken to other guys. If I wanted a 100% pure women I think every guy (East or West) needs to have ran just be first on their high school sweetheart at like 16 or something.

As long as she's not a bitter cunt and always thinks she could've done better.

 

[einzigartig]

1on1conversation pilled

jfl the hardest pill is that there is a pill to everything

 

[robtical]

I don't mind this. I'm at that age where ofc even if they are KHHV they have spoken to other guys. If I wanted a 100% pure women I think every guy (East or West) needs to have ran just be first on their high school sweetheart at like 16 or something.

As long as she's not a bitter cunt and always thinks she could've done better.

talking is different and flirting is different. in this context, its flirting. so its v bad

 

[King Solomon]

Civilization is crumbling, the second coming of the Massiah is near, the anti-Christ has been revealed and dudes are still desperately trying to get with worthless foids.

 

[Whatever]

Extremely legit thread, I got ghosted again tonight after another very promising lead.

It was a while ago now, but I watched very up close into how hot girls in their prime use these things. It’s only supplementary to them meeting guys in real life, and actually it is for slayers too. It’s not their primary way of getting links, so I feel like it really shouldn’t be mine either.

To really keep a girl’s attention on there, at least in theory, you have to mog not only all of her other matches and Insta simps, but if you want more than a hookup then you also have to level up to all of the guys she knows at school, work, parties, festivals, etc. That includes guys who she’s been with already, or has been crushing on for months, etc. Guys she knows and trusts while you’re just pixels on a screen to her.

What this leaves are very small windows in an attractive girl’s life when she’ll take the apps more seriously, such as when she’s new to an area or right after a breakup. But those are also times when she’s gonna be flakey and non committing to begin with, and then she’s bombarded with the choice on the apps. So guys have to keep shooting shots at girls in those windows, which is why they’re on there forever. But for a girl to hang around on there for more than maybe even a month or so, that’s a massive red flag that means she’s either ridiculously hypergamous, a sex addict, a femcel, or has some difficulty going on in her life like illness or a weird work schedule. I’d say that if she so much as changes her pictures, that’s a red flag.

One way around this is through demographics, if you’re a type of guy that she’s not really meeting in real life, like an older guy or a foreign guy. But even then, I’m 30 and I match with 18-19 year old college students that obviously like older guys and that’s still not an easy in. There’s also pheno, which is what real attraction is really about, and of the 5 girls who have messaged me first on Hinge over the past month or so, 4 of them look a lot like girls I’ve been with, and my body count is too low for that to be a coincidence. But even that didn’t get me a meet up.

So I’ve learned that it doesn’t matter that I match with HTBs and Stacylites, and girls that are my type and I feel confident with. It doesn’t matter that they message me first, or respond to my messages very quickly. When I ask them out, there they go, every single time. My only hope is to approach them in person.

 

[Deleted member 29041]

Lol I ghost a lot of people in bumble. Most sends messages but I DONT answer them. It just means they wanna know how attractive they are for people. They really dont care about relationship.