Women Often Prefer Men Who Are DUMB For Relationships/LTR - & Here's Why:

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This is from me observing countless women over the years, also confirming this I read on Quora:


Contrary to the top answers, throughout human history, “high levels of intelligence” in men has been an undesirable trait for sexual selection…

In prehistoric times, where our sexual behaviours still very much originate, men were generally hunter/gatherer types. Whilst women were heavily protected in central society to ensure the continuity of our species. The reason for this, in part, is due to the fact that women are born hypoagent, whilst men are hyperagent. This is precisely why the law of attraction, for most species, assigns males the role of “competitor" and females the role of “selector". Since the very beginnings of humanity, sexual selection powers have lied very much in the firm grip of females. Females have “Hypergamous” instincts, which means they target their sexual preferences towards the highest status available men (in relation to the social hierarchy). Beyond that, women also all share the same intrinsic value as “breeders”. This is how they were able to assume a state of protection in prehistoric villages and how they adopted evolutionary functions such as ‘automatic own group preference’. However, males remained largely expendable to women and other males. In these times men could be taken down a valley and beaten to a bloody pulp for even challenging a woman.

To answer your question, the reason “intelligence” is undesirable, is due to a females need to outsource risk to a man (so that it might be easier for her in undertaking pregnancy and motherhood). This requires attraction to a trait called the “Willingness to Emote”. The “Willingness to Emote” is found, to a greater extent, in men with lower levels of intelligence. On the other hand, in a prehistoric environment, higher levels of intelligence were associated primarily with the trait “Introspection”. This essentially means ‘thinking before you act’ to reduce risk. It is therefore much easier to outsource risks and provision to a less intelligent man who will 'act before they think'. Women are the proprietors of sexual selection and have assumed this power through a biological function known as “automatic own group preference “. This means they prefer to associate with other women socially, and adhere to ideas that primarily serve women above men. On the other hand, men’s natural instincts include the protection of women and provision of security.

In summary, “intelligence” is not a sexually desirable trait, because through sexual selection women are aiming to achieve maximum benefit. They achieve this by exploiting the “willingness to emote” (acting without thinking), and social status (material wealth) of men. The top answer, which indeed was very feminist suggested that “feminist views” helps a man to be attractive. Though I agree that men holding feminist views is not especially “intelligent” of them. On the contrary, its men who could plausibly display a logical opposition to feminism that women would inevitably remove from the selection process.


Essentially, a woman will not typically select a man who has autonomy over his own beliefs regarding women. Or is intelligent enough to avoid the manipulation of their carnal instincts in the favour of female interest. Intelligent men ARE NOT attractive to women per se. Rather intelligent men, with high status and willingness to being manipulated into taking on additional risks on behalf of a woman, ARE. This is fundamental human evolutionary theory. Without an ability to provide for a woman, a man becomes too easily expendable to justify as a long term option. More simply put, in the absence of “willingness to emote", intelligence becomes undesirable.


"Intelligent men ARE NOT attractive to women per se. Rather intelligent men, with high status and willingness to being manipulated into taking on additional risks on behalf of a woman, ARE. This is fundamental human evolutionary theory."

"the reason “intelligence” is undesirable, is due to a females need to outsource risk to a man (so that it might be easier for her in undertaking pregnancy and motherhood). This requires attraction to a trait called the “Willingness to Emote”. The “Willingness to Emote” is found, to a greater extent, in men with lower levels of intelligence."

"Essentially, a woman will not typically select a man who has autonomy over his own beliefs regarding women. Or is intelligent enough to avoid the manipulation of their carnal instincts in the favour of female interest."


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The reason for this, in part, is due to the fact that women are born hypoagent, whilst men are hyperagent. This is precisely why the law of attraction, for most species, assigns males the role of “competitor" and females the role of “selector"."



So from that text above, the poster argues intelligence in men isn't valuable for women usually.

In most cases, women in relationships with men ... Prefer if they're stupider, because stupider men will act without thinking & be more capable of causing self-destruction, which is beneficial to the woman as then she preserves/lives on.



Think about it ... If the man was SMART he might use the woman, and then she'd be self-destructing.

But since women seem to often like/prefer dumber, less thoughtful men because they're more "protective." Intelligence in men explains virginity quite eloquently, as most high IQ are incels/smarter men are more likely to be virgins.

Smart men lose relationship value a lot ... Especially over time, because they'll value themselves.

If they value themselves too much, they are not protective. And this is an issue for many women because ... If a man is thinking over what's good for himself too much ... Will he then sacrifice himself for her, or is she on her own?

Dumb, more ape-brained men ... These are the kind women grow to like. Why? They're brute knights.

They are sacrificial and stupid. If a man is willing to end everything of himself for another, he's a moron.

He doesn't value himself. Only dumb people don't think & don't value themselves during outcomes...

But this attracts/impresses many women, because their lack of thought is what makes them dark triad.

Their low inhibitions is what makes them not consider how easily they can end their lives for another.

And the women tend to like this ... Because it means they have their walking, stupid guard/protector.

They have their literal knight in shining armor type ... But these men are never very deep; intellectual.

Deep, intellectual men are NOT willing to emote, nor sacrifice everything when the chips are down.

This is why women don't often like smart, thoughtful, self-preserving men ... They are not "knights."

In LTR many women want 'knights' or essentially the white knight cucks; dudes who'll die for them.

If the dude won't take a bullet for her, he's not seen as having much relationship value, is he? Obviously not.

NOW if some dude is hot of course this stuff matters less, as women will allow themselves to get cucked.

Yes, with Chads there's a higher chance women will make themselves dumb cucks, but I mean IN GENERAL.

Dudes who'll smackdown & not even think twice before getting involved in something that'd kill them.

THOSE are the "LTRworthy" type dudes women want to marry. It is NOT sexy Chads ... It's not pool boys.

They want to FUCK these men and they'll enjoy relationships or more better "situationships" with these guys...

But they are NOT classic, tride and true, relationship dudes ... Because they'd be LESS SACRIFICIAL.

They'd be less "willing to emote" as the guy in the Quora post so-well describes ... Less willing to SACRIFICE.

Good looking guys who just get in situationships ... These are not the same kind of dudes I'm talking of.

I'm talking of the LTR type dudes ... THE ONES WOMEN SAY "MARRY" IN "FUCK, MARRY, OR KILL" GAMES.

You guys have to get what I mean by this ... The honorable, sacrificing knight ... Different from dude to fuck.

The pool boy is good to have around (fuck) but he's not likely to take a bullet for a bitch without thinking.

But mr. marriage cuck ... He's a big, doofy idiot ...Maybe not the most fuckable, but useful canon fodder.

Often they are militarycucks/military dudes ... These are the kind who are willing to kill themselves easily.

They were trained to be such, and this very much makes their relationship value to women higher because...

They're STUPID. Yes, being dumb is what makes them seem valuable in this regard for women/in relationships.

They want the brave, honorable knight for LTR. The guy who will think less, act more & end himself for another.

But these are all components of the dumb man ... NOT the smart one. Dumb sacrifice; smart preserve.



This in my view explains well that men NOT in LTR are SMARTER.

Men are who are NOT in relationships with women are more intelligent.

Men who are in LTR & remain in such for long are often stupider.

And men who avoid LTRs for the most part also are indeed brilliant more as they won't be willing to assume risk for a woman with his life.
 
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