LXR
I ask you to judge me by the enemies I have made
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I have noticed this with the majority of women I have talked to. Women see sex as a transaction where they give some value to men and thereby expect something in return. The value could be anything like inherent value of female body + her time + her estimation of her beauty i.e. how much superior she feels that she is gracing you with her presence. Generally, men dont think of themselves this way because they sought after so intensely in all spheres of life. This transactional attitude towards extends in both personal and professional domains, I have seen women immediately assuming that they are better than me the way they talk to me and they assess how much they lose in the interaction if I dont 'pay' them back in some way. Depending on what type of interaction it is, the expection of 'repayment' is different. Mostly, in professional cases they expect favoritism where I should be partial towards them just because they graced me with their time. Men dont show this unless we happen to be mates but women do expect it even if you have met only once. I dont have much romantic experience with women, but from what little I have and from what I have heard from my friends, it seems that the reason they expect you to go above and beyond than anything you would do even for family. Even with generally good looking men, sex is something that is strategically 'given' rather than enjoyed because she plans on maximising what she gains from the relationship. In that sense, a hooker is usually more straightforward while having the same attitude as the woman