Working in a job with other humans as an introvert

[Klasik616]

Some people aren't designed for this
But I don't have a better option
After 18 personality doesn't change even if you try
Your body has already set up a typical behavior for every situation
No such thing as NTmaxxing when you reach a certain age, over if you didn't learned how to treat people

 

[Klasik616]

If you can't have fun, sorry but no girlfriend is coming

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Being muh NT is a direct side-effect of looks, though

Nobody is born introverted; we are extroverted creatures. So ofc you can't fix the symptome without fixing the cause

But yeah, even if I became extremely good looking tomorrow, certain thought processes would never go away. I am already shaped into an introverted loser, having looks in my 20s would only change so much

 

[Klasik616]

Being muh NT is a direct side-effect of looks, though

Nobody is born introverted; we are extroverted creatures. So ofc you can't fix the symptome without fixing the cause

But yeah, even if I became extremely good looking tomorrow, certain thought processes would never go away. I am already shaped into an introverted loser, having looks in my 20s would only change so much

Well when I was a kid I used to have more energy / high vibes instead of low vibes, the reason for this decline was social rejection. I was naturally extroverted but people told me I was too loud.

 

[Deleted member 132430]

After 18 personality doesn't change even if you try

I understand that you just turned 18, but you sound absolutely retarded

 

[Deleted member 115987]

Some people aren't designed for this
But I don't have a better option
After 18 personality doesn't change even if you try
Your body has already set up a typical behavior for every situation
No such thing as NTmaxxing when you reach a certain age, over if you didn't learned how to treat people

My personality changed after 18 drastically

 

[Klasik616]

My personality changed after 18 drastically

But how
I think I am aspie

 

[Deleted member 115987]

But how
I think I am aspie

i cant say

 

[Klasik616]

I understand that you just turned 18, but you sound absolutely retarded

You're wrong in two things
-I'm not 18 but 22
-I'm smart

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Well when I was a kid I used to have more energy / high vibes instead of low vibes, the reason for this decline was social rejection. I was naturally extroverted but people told me I was too loud.

Exactly, I was very extroverted and happy as a cute kid I was, but when I lost my looks, I got socially rejected, and I got scarred for life

But, again, its all about da lookz. Had I been given a bit more bonemass here, a bit less recession there etc. I would've never descended into subhumanity

 

[Deleted member 132430]

-I'm not 18 but 22

No wonder life seems so hard to you. Grown man that still thinks like a 14 year old

 

[Klasik616]

No wonder life seems so hard to you. Grown man that still thinks like a 14 year old

What's the problem
Are you implying I can change my personality
I'm not socially fit, I tend to forget human social norms
How can I fix that? It's in the brain

 

[Deleted member 132430]

What's the problem
Are you implying I can change my personality
I'm not socially fit, I tend to forget human social norms
How can I fix that? It's in the brain

Neuroplasticity exists and/or medications

 

[LLcel]

Neuroplasticity exists and/or medications

why are you leaking?

 

[Deleted member 25705]

Being muh NT is a direct side-effect of looks, though

Nobody is born introverted; we are extroverted creatures. So ofc you can't fix the symptome without fixing the cause

But yeah, even if I became extremely good looking tomorrow, certain thought processes would never go away. I am already shaped into an introverted loser, having looks in my 20s would only change so much

It's not always developmental.

I worked with literal 2 year olds and there's a distinct innate personality difference. Some kids play in the corner by themselves, and cry and run and hide when they see me for the first time; others run up to me and hug me immediately and prance around.

There's a genetic component to this.

 

[Deleted member 72469]

Well when I was a kid I used to have more energy / high vibes instead of low vibes, the reason for this decline was social rejection. I was naturally extroverted but people told me I was too loud.

Abused dog syndrome my friend, or negative reinforcement

 

[TitusA]

Some people aren't designed for this
But I don't have a better option
After 18 personality doesn't change even if you try
Your body has already set up a typical behavior for every situation
No such thing as NTmaxxing when you reach a certain age, over if you didn't learned how to treat people

Not true neurogenesis just declines as you age and its highest when you are a child and teen. SSRI drugs and cerebrolysin can be used to increase it. Take those along with exposure therapy and you can create personality changes.

They can massively improve your mood and make you more relaxed. Research it and try it if you don't believe me.

I thought I was introverted but after using steroids and ssri plus putting myself in more social situations im extroverted.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

It's not always developmental.

I worked with literal 2 year olds and there's a distinct innate personality difference. Some kids play in the corner by themselves, and cry and run and hide when they see me for the first time; others run up to me and hug me immediately and prance around.

There's a genetic component to this.

Either way, telling men to just be "NT" is beyond stupid, even though what you said is correct.

Firstly its not going to make any difference unless you are already good looking/extremely mentally ill.

Second of all, even if it could make a difference, it'd be because being mentally neurodivergent signals genetic inferiority. In other words, what matters would still be 100% outside of your control.

What little you can change doesn't matter all that much since its not genetic

 

[Klasik616]

Not true neurogenesis just declines as you age and its highest when you are a child and teen. SSRI drugs and cerebrolysin can be used to increase it. Take those along with exposure therapy and you can create personality changes.

They can massively improve your mood and make you more relaxed. Research it and try it if you don't believe me.

I thought I was introverted but after using steroids and ssri plus putting myself in more social situations im extroverted.

Then you were never introverted or non NT you just lacked options

 

[TitusA]

Then you were never introverted or non NT you just lacked options

Nah I was introverted you just lack balls and have a negative losers outlook/mentality and that's why your non nt. Your not even willing to try to improve your issue.

 

[Deleted member 132430]

why are you leaking?

Leaking what?